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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:16 AM
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Have you ever hurt so much inside that you could'nt even cry ?
That's how I feel right about now . I have two sick relatives , and then I went to the doctor's today and I was told that my kidney's want to act up again . I need some good karma thoughts . Its hard enough seeing your relatives not doing well but when you're sick its hard to keep a smile on your face . Sigh ...
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:17 AM
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1. yes.
quite recently, as a matter of fact.

:hug: Sometimes, we're not meant to smile - just cope.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:19 AM
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2. I feel so weak whenever this happens to me .
Its hard for me to sit up so the only thing I can do is lay down . Anything that I drink goes right through me - this sucks . I have dealt with this for 5 years now and everytime I think that I have gotten rid of it , it comes back . Sigh ...
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RevCheesehead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:22 AM
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3. Hang in there.
I hope you've got a good doctor (one that you trust).

On days like these, sometimes the only thing I can do is wait for tomorrow.
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REP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:25 AM
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4. I'm in Stage 2 Kidney Failure with a Chronic Kidney Infection
plus I pass kidney stones every 30-45 days (including right now, when I also have bronchial pneumonia) so yes, I have a clue. It gets better: the chronic infection has caused massive scarring, which makes the failure worse. Yay!
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:57 AM
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9. I am sending your thoughts to you too ...
This first happened to me in December of 2000 - It just happened , the pain . I remember being so weak that my then bf had to carry me out of the bathtub - thats when I knew something was wrong .
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:37 AM
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5. Good karma coming your way.
I hope your doctors can find a way to get you over this.
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:40 AM
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6. So sorry you are hurting right now.
All I can offer is a hug :pals:

Take care . . .



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CottonBear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:44 AM
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7. I'm sending good Karma to you!
:hug: Get well soon! I hope your relatives will be OK. :hug: I hope you'll feel better soon. :)

My mom just had major surgery and my sister is scheduled for major surgery on Jan. 3. I'm in another city so it's hard to be so far away.
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 01:56 AM
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8. Sending good thoughts your way Carolina.....
...:thumbsup:
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:12 AM
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10. big boys don't cry
ever.

Okay, except when old Yeller gets shot

or the Cowboys win :cry:
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:22 AM
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11. I know it's cheesy, but we'd like to sooth you with harmony


Lida Rose, I'm home again Rose.
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Crazy Guggenheim Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:23 AM
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12. Get rest and stay well.
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:24 AM
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13. All I can give you is a hug
:hug:

Hang in there
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:25 AM
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14. I hear ya
Here's hoping that things go well for you and your family...

:hug:
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AtomicKitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:26 AM
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15. best wishes for a swift return of good health, mental and physical.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 02:30 AM
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16. A lot good vibes coming your way
:hug:

hang in there. Is there any chance that you get rid of it forever? I mean the kidney problems, not the relatives :)
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 04:53 AM
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17. Right now the only thing that works is antibiotics .
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 05:11 AM
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18. ...
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 06:06 AM
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19. I'm so sorry, CarolinaPeridot.
Take care of yourself. I'll be sending you good thoughts.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 06:07 AM
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20. I am so sorry to hear about this
:hug:

I know mere words are inadequate.
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peacefreak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 07:15 AM
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21. Take care of yourself, sweetie.
Wrap yourself in a soft blanket, rest. There are many people here that will keep a good thought for you.
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 07:18 AM
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22. I am so sorry
Edited on Wed Dec-14-05 07:19 AM by OhioBlues
I know exactly how you feel. My mother is in the hospital right now in "guarded" condition. My dad just died this year too. I feel the same way so I'd love to give you a hug. :hug:

spelling error
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 07:22 AM
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23. Yes
but you certainly have your share right now. You need a big hug
:hug:
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Callalily Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 07:28 AM
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24. Sending you healing
thoughts good wishes and a I'm also sending you my guardian angel - she's the best!
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 07:50 AM
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25. God bless
peace and low stress
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:02 AM
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26. I'm sorry babe
yes, I felt that way the day I was told my brother had bled to death from complications of alcoholism.....I sat in stunned silence and then managed to post on the DU - I received such warmth and lovely thoughts - I hope it helps you too.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:07 AM
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28. My heart broke for you that day, Skittles.
You are an amazing person. :hug:
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:09 AM
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29. life is so tough sometimes MrsGrumpy
I thought the people of DU were amazing that day - it was Thanksgiving and my closest friends were out of town....it helped me so much
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:16 AM
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30. I learned that hard way. I never put much into internet friendships,
until I got really sick last year, and PassingFair called up at the hospital to ask if she could post about it here. When I was given the stack of well wishes from so many people here...I was stunned. And my opinion changed. That was a horrid time, because it was the same week we lost keph. :( :hug:

That said,I'll always be here for you. You've always been there for all of us. Ready and willing to KICK ASS!
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 09:05 AM
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33. KEPH
OMG.....I miss him. Do we ever hear from his mom ? I sent her a card and a money order.
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:06 AM
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27. CP...I'm keeping you in my thoughts today...Burden us with your
hurts, and perhaps it will help break down that wall. I am of the belief that if you keep your wounds hidden, it will affect your health in a negative manner. Let it out, whatever way possible. You need to take care of number one. :hug:

~ Laura
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Misunderestimator Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:31 AM
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31. So sorry for your pain... sending you good vibes and love..
:hug:
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Rowdyboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 08:45 AM
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32. You're among people who care about you and wish you the best....
Hope that thought helps you. DU certainly helped me last week when my best friend's 21 year old son was found dead of a likely drug overdose. I was devastated and the support I found here was very much appreciated.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 09:09 AM
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34. all the fucking time
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Nicholas D Wolfwood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 09:12 AM
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35. I'm so sorry...
:hug: :hug: :hug:
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-14-05 09:13 AM
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36. Try to get some more sleep.
I know that worrying will make you stay up until 1 in the morning to ask for help with your troubles (which I'd give you in a heartbeat if there were anything I could do except to offer you good wishes, but I can at least offer them), but do try to get some more rest. It would help both your mind and body.

PS: If this doesn't cheer you up, nothing will:


Redstone
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