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So here's the deal...
It's nice to think about a good problem after the way the rest of 2005 has been for me, so please, don't take this as complaining in ANY way at all.
So, I've been out with one girl twice so far. Let's call her Abbye (not her real name). I've got a third date with her tonight, and things are going really well so far. On the other hand, I just had a lunch date (first date) with another girl, named Linda (again, not real name). That went really well. Things just really clicked and I'd definitely see her again (which is a big deal, because I've been on a very strict one-date policy, where if I have any questions about whether or not I'd like to date someone again, I don't do it).
Here's where problems may arise. Both Linda and I are going away on Monday (me to Italy and her home for the holidays). Abbye will be staying here. I'm not sure when Linda gets, but I'll be back a couple of days after Christmas. So, the problem that arises is that I'm probably going to have already have a fourth date with Abbye before I'll even get to a second date with Linda, unless I can pull off a miracle and get Linda out again before we both leave (which is quite unlikely, but would solve my problem right there).
At any rate, I am NOT a "player" and have no intentions whatsoever of becoming one. I feel bad enough about dating more than one person at a time, but that's really just me and I know there are no real moral problems with that. But how many dates can you go on with someone before you're expected to be exclusive? Again, I'm not complaining in any way and would be very happy if things worked out with Abbye (and there's a strong chance I would pick her in any event), but at the same time, I did have a really good time with Linda and would like to see if that has any legs too.
Again, it's a good problem to have and am in no way complaining. But any input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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