Fashion question (need opinion)

I bought the following to wear to our company's holiday party. It's tomorrow evening (7:00) at a country club (I know, barf) for dinner and then drinks and dessert at the boss's house. Is this too much (no dress code was given; the boss tried to say he wanted it to be casual, but everyone I've talked to says after 7 means sort of formal):

black, one button jacket (cinched in to give me a waist). It's crushed velvet; the button looks sort of like a flower pin and it's rhinestone.

long, black chiffony skirt

Opinions?

Two people at the store, when I tried them on together, said I looked "stunning" (sweet!); I just don't want to look 'overdone.'

Although I've always thought "overdone" is a bad thing? Anyway, if you want MORE, you can add rhinestone jewelry, a fancy 'do, and very nice heels and hose, to make it even dressier.

put it up.

is that it can go either way depending on the jewelry you wear. Little jewelry and it's casual dress. More glittery jewelry and its more formal.

I don't want to come off as looking like I'm going to the ball and everyone else is going to cocktails.

Your outfit sounds OK to me.

though I wouldn't judge a guy who wore the same.

Sounds beautiful!

So borgeouis, though. Country club. Hey, free dinner!

:blush:

By the way, the boss just came in like 2 minutes ago and says 'business casual.' WTF?

Business casual to me = preppy.

OK: here's what meant for business casual, yet I'm going to a club?!

Specifics for women's business casual
Don't confuse club attire with business attire. If you would wear it to a club, you probably shouldn't wear it in a business environment.
Pants / skirts:
Women can wear casual pants or skirts. Neither should be tight. Fabrics should be crisp; colors should generally be solid; navy, black, gray, brown and khaki are always safe bets. For the most business-like appearance, pants should be creased and tailored; neither extreme of tight or flowing. If you are pursuing a conservative industry and are in doubt, observe well-dressed women in your industry on the job, at career fairs, at information sessions, etc.
Skirt length and slits:
Your skirt should come at least to your knees while you are standing. While you are seated, your thighs should be covered. If your skirt comes to just below the knee, a slit to just above the knee might be acceptable. A very long skirt should not be slit to above the knee. Generally slits in the center back of a skirt — to facilitate walking a stair climbing — are acceptable. Slits to facilitate a view of your legs are not appropriate for business purposes. Slips should not be visible.
Shirt / sweaters:
In addition to tailored shirts or blouses, tailored knit sweaters and sweater sets are appropriate business casual choices for women. Cotton, silk, and blends are appropriate. Velvets and shimmery fabrics suitable for parties are not appropriate. Fit should not be tight. Cleavage is not appropriate to business and job search occasions.
Jewelry / accessories:
Wear a conservative watch. Jewelry and scarf styles come and go. Keep your choices simple and leaning toward conservative. Avoid extremes of style and color. If your industry is creative, you may have more flexibility than someone pursuing a conservative industry.
Cosmetics:
Keep makeup conservative and natural looking. A little is usually better than none for a polished look. Nails should be clean and well groomed. Avoid extremes of nail length and polish color, especially in conservative industries.
Shoes:
Should be leather or fabric / microfiber. Appropriate colors are black, navy and brown (to coordinate with your other attire and accessories); white and pastels are not appropriate. For the most conservative look, toes should be covered. Sandals which are neither extremely dressy or extremely casual might be appropriate. Thin straps and high heels are not appropriate. Chunky heels and platforms are not apropriate. Make certain you can walk comfortably in your shoes; hobbling around a job fair in shoes that are pinching your feet does not convey a professional image.
Hose:
Not essential for business casual, but are recommended if your skirt is knee length (rather than calf length) and in more formal environments such as hotels.
Purse / bag:
If you carry a purse, keep it small and simple. Purse color should coordinate with your shoes. A briefcase is certainly not necessary for most business casual events. You may choose to carry a small briefcase or business-like tote bag in place of a purse. Leather, microfiber and fine wovens are appropriate. Canvas and straw are not appropriate.

I'd wear it with a shorter length skirt and some more casual shoes or boots maybe?

Chiffon skirt, black velvet jacket....

Dress up or dress down according to the jewelry.

But what shoes are you wearing.... that's the clincher.

Khash.

Grrr.... Should I still wear what I bought, or not?

based on what the boss just said. Damnit.

I would wear that with the jacket. A chiffon skirt is very dressy.

Thanks for the tips.

A straight black skirt, great shoes....

Casual and extremely hot.

Khash.

and go for the straight black skirt. I need to find something like that. I swear, all the stores are showing are kulottes (sp?) and prairee ass skirts!?

Get a straight black skirt. Long. And your best "come fuck me" shoes (sorry for my French). You'll look like you didn't make a big deal (casual right?) but everyone will notice you.

Never argue with a gay man about how to dress - we have infallible instincts :)

Khash.

Je parle francais! LOL!

I'm 5 ft. 7 1/2 in. tall. so the long skirt should be OK, I presume (no arguing, just asking).

business casual)? I should so be on not what to wear? I used to have good fashion sense, too? What happened?

so let me clue you in.... Natural fibers!

Cotton, lightweight wool, linen. No rayon, no polyester!

So get a straight black skirt, slit just slightly up the side or up the back. With calf length boots (if you have 'em) so that when you walk just the barest inch of your leg shows.


You want to look casual, professional and hot. And that bare inch of calf is the difference between "What a stuck up prig", "I want to do her" and "I wish she was my date tonight". You want the latter.


I don't care if you weigh 115# or 315# it works. :)


I'd love to be there to dress you :)

Khash.

Gonna go check out a couple of stores and see what I can find. Oh, does the shopping ever end?!

Have fun!