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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-02-06 11:57 PM
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well...my SO and i just had our first fight
...and over the stupidest fucking thing ever.

...THE NIGHT BEFORE I GO TO NYC TO BE WITH HIM FOR SPRIng BREAK.

I'm not angry. I'm upset and crying. i love him so much...this fucking SUCKS.
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-02-06 11:58 PM
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1. Bummer!
:hug:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-02-06 11:59 PM
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3. seriously
wtf.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-02-06 11:59 PM
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2. Look at it this way
You're only about 24 hours from make-up spankin's. :spank:
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yvr girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:00 AM
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4. Three words - MAKE UP SEX
You must look on the bright side.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:02 AM
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6. I know
It'll be different in the morning, and he'll apologize. He was way out of line.
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:20 AM
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Don't worry about it.
My wife and I have fights just FOR the make-up sex! :evilgrin:

You'll get to where you enjoy it. :-)
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:00 AM
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5. 50 years from now, you won;t even remember tonight
:)
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:12 AM
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7. Make-up sex is wonderful!
Edited on Fri Mar-03-06 12:12 AM by ThomCat
:blush: Something to look forward to.

Edit: Doh! Yvr Girl beat me to it. Too slow.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:13 AM
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8. lol
It just...sucks.

Married/coupled peeps: how did you handle this sort of stuff?
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sir_captain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:19 AM
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11. It's hard to never have conflict
I find I have the biggest fights nearly exclusively with the people I'm closest with. Intense romantic relationships, especially, I think, are bound to have little bumps in the road--for me, the key has always been to not hold a grudge, remember that I love her, and keep in mind that there's about a 99.99% chance that we'll be joking about it tomorrow. There's definitely no such thing as that "perfect" relationship with absolutely zero conflict.

Anyway, I know it's not fun--hang in there.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:20 AM
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12.  it doesn't help I have abandonment issues, does it?
No, I hear you. We will be laughing about it tomorrow-- and I'll be in NYC :hi:
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sir_captain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:21 AM
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13. Heh...NYC will definitely make it better
particularly since YES is showing 16 Yankees spring training games ;-)
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:22 AM
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14. fuck yeah
Still cant get the image of Damon wearing pinstripes, though.
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sir_captain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:24 AM
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15. I know what you mean
though it was almost worth it just to see how hurt and betrayed the Sox fans felt :evilgrin:
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:15 AM
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9. the stupidest thing ever
so it was like a classic AC/DC vs. KISS fight? or was it about the officiating at the last superbowl? Tastes great vs. less filling?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:17 AM
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10. almost
it was over why I wouldn't tell him the name of our mutual friend that we talk to on AIM. She accidentally told me hers, and she requested me not to tell him.

kyle and i share everything-- I WANTED to tell him but I was asked--twice--not to tell others her name. He got upset that i didn't tell him.
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hfojvt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:37 AM
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16. that sounds bad
so you have two requests
1) a request from an anonymous friend not to reveal her name, and
2) a request from an SO to reveal her name

Shouldn't a request from an SO trump an anonymous friend? Except that you already agreed (or promised) to the first request, so your own honor trumps the 2nd request.

That is not so silly since it involves things like trust and honor. He should not have persisted once he heard that you promised. By why is this person so concerned about remaining nameless?
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Floogeldy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-03-06 12:50 AM
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17. Why did you choose tonight to pick a fight?
:)
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