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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:38 PM Original message |
What is the most important "people skill" you have learned? |
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Ravenseye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
1. People like talking about themselves |
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johnnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:41 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. That's true |
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LynzM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-19-06 11:21 AM Response to Reply #3 |
57. Bingo. |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:42 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. How true - "You should have heard him listen!" |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 09:46 AM Response to Reply #1 |
45. You nailed it. |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
2. Smiling. |
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JackBeck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
5. When someone asks me a question, before I answer, |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:44 PM Response to Original message |
6. Empathy, without a doubt. |
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anarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
7. people don't like it when you call them "stupid" |
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SouthoftheBorderPaul (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:55 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. It's interesting you should say that. |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
8. People like crap |
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Strong Atheist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
9. That is a long, hard, slog. As an introvert (with maybe some other issues |
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Oeditpus Rex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
10. Two, really |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
12. That all people are plotting against me... |
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underpants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
13. It's not gay if your balls don't touch |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:35 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. No, that's brilliant, thanks for posting it. Wish I had used it years ago. |
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everythingsxen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
14. One of the most important to me is... |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:44 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. I have used that on my irritating neighbor, and he has avoided me since. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
15. I don't tell the useless bastards I fucking hate them, and I don't swear. |
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Syncronaut Seven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 07:32 AM Response to Reply #15 |
39. I was thinking of something profound to say. |
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Ron Mexico (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 10:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
50. LOL |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
16. How to fake eye contact |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
18. Not killing them. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
19. How to listen |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:41 PM Response to Original message |
20. Seek to understand before seeking to be understood. |
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Dangerously Amused (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:00 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. People don't care how much you know |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
22. Smiling. Eye contact. |
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OhioBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 05:54 PM Response to Original message |
23. for me it is a smile |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
24. Be interested, NOT interesting. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
26. Sincerity. |
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tjwash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
27. I HAVE VALUABLE PEOPLE SKILLS!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?? |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 07:54 AM Response to Reply #27 |
41. "Actually, you can just call me Mike." |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
28. Squeeze the trigger slowly. nt |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
29. When to just back away from the duckie (in other words, leave them |
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tjwash (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:24 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. I don't know why, but that just made me crack up. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 07:27 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. The phrase came from my sister, who uses it to talk about |
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laheina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 11:31 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Sometimes, it is best to just ignore the weenies. nt |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 07:52 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. I could never do that... |
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laheina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 09:47 PM Response to Reply #40 |
49. HypnoToad!! |
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Hand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
32. The left hook. nt |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 11:49 PM Response to Original message |
34. Avoidance |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-17-06 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
35. If you have gas, stand by a geezer |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
36. Don't be an asshole. Shut the hell up. Do unto others. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 01:05 AM Response to Original message |
37. Innocent smiling eyes. 'Interest' in the inane. |
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veganred (90 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 04:27 AM Response to Original message |
38. listening or |
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riona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
42. some people will never get it |
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tjdee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
43. It's not about you, it's about them. |
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izzybeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 09:43 AM Response to Original message |
44. When I was living in New Jersey I learned the importance of a well |
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Minnesota Libra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
46. Walk a mile in their shoes before criticizing someone...but........ |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 11:26 AM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Oh... I thought the second part was going to be "...use your own socks." |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 11:19 PM Response to Reply #47 |
54. At least it wasn't "& don't use the socks worn by Red Hot Chili Peppers" |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
48. how to make a fast getaway |
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JackDragna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
51. People are worthless and not worth my time. |
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Celeborn Skywalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
52. The art of bullshitting. |
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Dem2theMax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
53. Learn to verbally disarm an opposing person. |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-18-06 11:51 PM Response to Original message |
55. Listen. |
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achtung_circus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-19-06 12:09 AM Response to Original message |
56. Listening is good, |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-19-06 11:38 AM Response to Reply #56 |
58. I wish I'd thought of this one |
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leeroysphitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-19-06 12:36 PM Response to Original message |
59. Ignore as many of them as possible for as long as possible. (nt) |
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GalleryGod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-19-06 02:50 PM Response to Original message |
60. LISTENing. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-19-06 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
61. That people are really fucking dumb, so be clear and concise |
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