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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 02:58 PM
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I quit smoking 2 months ago and I can't stop thinking about having one
today.

I know you guys will just encourage me not to smoke and I know that is the right thing, but dayumm - I really want a cig.
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Cathyclysmic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:05 PM
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1. Beast Man and I feel your pain
We quit on 2/13/06. Yesterday was the worst day, craving-wise, of this ordeal. And I quit, used patches for about a week, then went cold-turkey. This crap should be out of my system!

Now I know nicotine is a drug that alters your brain so you never really stop craving it...but, shouldn't my cravings be less?

Ugh! I have to admit that THE worst mistake I have made in my life was deciding to smoke. I know that sounds extreme, but, I really do feel that way. And of course, there is the addicted side of me wants some marlboro mediums.

Anyway, congratulations and good luck.

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IdaBriggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:05 PM
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2. Just curious -- why? The flavor? The smell? The feel of "something"
in your hand or your mouth? The "feel" of before, during or after?

What is it you are *REALLY* craving? Perhaps if you figure that out, it will be easier to resist. :)
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:13 PM
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6. It's the whole thing
The ritual. Getting it out of the packet. Putting it in your mouth. Lighting it. Taking the first draw. Inhaling it and feeling it. The nicotine rush. It's not any one thing; it's the whole package of experiences.
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IdaBriggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:43 PM
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9. Perhaps creating a "new" ritual would help.
For example, put "something" in a package (that isn't as harmful to your health). Pull it out. Unwrap it. Put it in your mouth. Savor it. Feel the caffeine/sugar rush. Choose something decadent and delicious. Do you like coffee nips?
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:58 PM
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16. Like eating? Been doing that since 2/1/06.
I've replaced cigs with food. I've tried to make it healthy things lately - yogurt, oranges, light lemonade, etc.

It's tough. I'm going to go for a long walk with my dog, but I'm really obsessing over it. I know I shouldn't, but I really want one.
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:56 PM
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15. Correct. It's the whole ritual. nt
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timber84 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:06 PM
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3. Don't start, the urge should only last for 30 seconds get up and
walk around when it hiys you. You will be amazed how quickly it goes away.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:08 PM
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4. I quit 22 years ago and still think wistfully about a nice curl of
smoke making it's way up to the ceiling....

But then I breath in real hard and feel the sharp pain resulting, mostly, from my years of cigarette smoking and the feeling passes real quick like....
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:11 PM
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5. Just don't! It will pass!!
:pals:
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Boojatta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:13 PM
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7. Have you been a teacher or tutor? (Paid or volunteer. It doesn't matter)
I can accept that you can't stop imagining smoking a cigarette, but is it really a strain for you to stop thinking about having a cigarette?
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:14 PM
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8. You don't really want to go back to how tough it was on day 1... do you?
:hi:

I've been there. Trust me... you don't want to start all over again.

You're doing GREAT!
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:59 PM
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19. Thanks MissMillie. Days 1-14 were the worst. Then it got easier, now
it's hard again. Don't know why. I know the nicotine is no longer in my system, but I still crave them.
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:00 PM
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20. Thanks MissMillie. Days 1-14 were the worst. Then it got easier, now
it's hard again. Don't know why. I know the nicotine is no longer in my system, but I still crave them.
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eeyore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:46 PM
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10. Awww, come on....you can have just one!
:evilfrown:
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:52 PM
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12. Evil! (nt)
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:58 PM
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17. I agree. Just one. That's all I want. Just one little smoke. nt
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rbnyc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:52 PM
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11. Cravings do pass.
I quit smoking 8 years ago and I've been craving lately too.

There is only one way to quit smoking, and it's a never-ending process:

Don't smoke any more cigarettes.

Sorry. Craving suck. But you can do it!
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SofaKingLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:53 PM
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13. I'm on day two, again.
Edited on Fri Mar-31-06 03:53 PM by SofaKingLiberal
These fucking things are pure evil.

I don't really know of any advice I can give you. You are doing better than I have been able to do. But once you smoke that first cigarette after quitting, your fucked. Do not tell yourself just one more, not even one drag. You know you will regret it the second you put it out.
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MsUSA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:48 PM
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28. N.O.P.E. Not One Puff Ever.
Go to this website...... http://www.stopsmokingcenter.net/ Lots of people who have quit, and they're all so supportive. It's free, ya just have to register. It helped me quit last May 2nd. I'm on day 333 and I've saved over $1600.00 and I haven't smoked over 6 thousand weeds. Yup, couldn't have done it without this site. Very, very helpful. Good Luck and quiting is the best thing you can do for yourself. :hug:
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:53 PM
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14. hang in there...perhaps a chew...peace and low stress
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riona Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 03:59 PM
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18. to me it seemed to be worse at certain times
like the times i always lit up - with coffee, with a drink, after a meal - it was like i was programmed. it took 5 years for me to get over those situational type scenerios. it's not easy but really, really worth it.
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:01 PM
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21. Thanks for the encouragement. I gave up coffee when I quit.
That was equally as hard, but it was just too much of a smoking trigger for me.
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riona Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:35 PM
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22. you've got the picture!
and no matter what gremlin starts messing with your head, believe me, you can win.
:woohoo:
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:40 PM
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23. Take a deep breath...
You're probably taking in twice as much air as you did two months ago. Enjoy it. Take a walk and focus on your breathing.
Where you are now, I stood 21 years ago. :hug:
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:46 PM
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26. It's going on thirty-five years since I quit. One of the smartest...
things I've ever done!
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BikeWriter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:43 PM
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24. Sweety, think about your heart and lungs!
Your lungs are probably beginning to repair themselves now.
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henslee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:45 PM
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25. Just remember you are broiling your lungs at 700 deg. F. everytime
you take a puff.
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Scout1071 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 05:10 PM
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33. Oooohhhh. That's gross. nt
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henslee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 05:55 PM
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34. Actually, here are the exact temperatures of a lit ciggie........
Edited on Fri Mar-31-06 05:56 PM by henslee
Temperature without drawing:
Side of the lit portion: 400 deg C (or 752 deg F)
Middle of the lit portion: 580 deg C (or 1112 deg F)

Temperature during drawing:
Middle of the lit portion: 700 deg C (or 1292 deg F)

AS you can see, my original post underestimated the number.
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:46 PM
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27. My hubby would eat popsicles every time he got the urge.
It helped him lots, if you wanna give it a shot.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 04:53 PM
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29. Just hang in there. Breathe. Distract yourself.
Chew some gum. Eat like a pig. Have some sex. Normally, I would never advocate this, but...have a beer? I don't know. Anything is better than relapsing right now.
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underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 05:00 PM
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30. Do you really want to go back to that?
Going to the store EVERYDAY

Having to check and see if you need smokes EVERYTIME before you leave work or home

Dumping the ashtray

OH GOD WHERE'S MY LIGHTER!!!???!?!?

and so forth.

You don't want that. Now do you?
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caty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 05:01 PM
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31. I quit smoking the hard way.
I had surgery for a ruptured appendix and when I came out of surgery my oxygen level wouldn't stay up. I was a 2 pack a day smoker for years. Anyway, I was in a special care unit for 3 days hooked up to oxygen. Between the pain from the surgery and the constant struggle to breath, the desire to smoke just vanished. I didn't miss it during the 5 days I was in the hospital. I was too busy trying to breath. I haven't smoked in 8 months and I know I never will again. I am actually afraid to smoke again. I don't want to go through the hell I went through in the hospital again. So, don't quit the hard way. Quit because you want to. Not because you can't breath without a struggle

There are many reasons to quit smoking. Health, inconvenience, money, wrinkled skin. But, the one reason few think about is what happens to a smoker when there is another health problem. Smoking makes any illness and any recovery that much harder.

I think that one mistake a lot of people make when they quit is using something to replace it with. For me, that just makes me think of smoking more. Get it straight in your mind that you are now a non smoker and that smoking is not an option. Don't do something else instead of smoking. Get on with your healthier life.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 05:05 PM
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32. Stay strong.
:hug:

I know you have the willpower to stay off the smokes. :hug:
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-31-06 07:06 PM
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35. Here's something to urge you on.....
My dad's a smoker and he needs to quit per doctor's orders. He's having bypass surgery in the coming week. :(

Hold out, you can do it! :)
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