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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:05 PM Original message |
Have you ever gone back to an ex? |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. No |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:10 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Thanks, WR. I'm so confused right now.... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:13 PM Response to Reply #1 |
45. My, how well you speak, m'dear. Excellent words of wisdom. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:11 PM Response to Original message |
3. Yes |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:15 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Not at all sure I'm not romanticizing the past. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:22 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. I should add |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
4. If it ended badly before, why do you think things will be |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:17 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. I've got some great memories, but.... |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
7. Once... |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:23 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. LOL! I guess it could be worse, huh? Thanks for that. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:27 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. After me, he dated his best friend's baby sister... |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:32 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. Was it Huey, Dewey or Louie that asked of Uncle Donald Duck..., |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
10. No. I've had one opportunity, but (after lotsa thought) opted against it. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:28 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. You must be pretty strong, unfortunately so is she... |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:34 PM Response to Reply #13 |
21. Not necessarily. |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
11. In HS. Does that even count? |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. I'll take it. I'm about that maturity level myself. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. dupe |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
15. no, never have |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:41 PM Response to Reply #15 |
26. Petered out, did it? ;^) |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:57 PM Response to Reply #26 |
36. i was too worn out mentally & physically... |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:49 PM Response to Reply #36 |
65. Been there ... didn't do that ... either. |
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TheFriendlyAnarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
18. Yes, your crazy, but in retrospect, who the hell isn't? |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:34 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Well, it does. I'm going to go until she says stop ... or something else. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
19. I hope things go well for you... |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:39 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. You're probably right, but like I said friendship is enough if that's... |
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DesEtoiles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-07-06 12:49 AM Response to Reply #25 |
78. Did you say that in your letter? What you like about her? |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
22. no... |
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Pale Blue Dot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
23. No. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:42 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Thanks, FF. I'm so weak. I'm afraid I have to see this through. |
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long_green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
24. Yes. I reupped with a girl I had dated when I was 23 |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:44 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Well, so much for the Cliff's Notes version.... |
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long_green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:51 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. The woman in question called me up after seven years |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:53 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. I'd count 2 1/2 years as a success. But that's just me. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:44 PM Response to Original message |
29. No way, I keep getting better at picking 'em |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:55 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. Maybe I'm just lonely. I meet no one. Certainly, no one even remotely.... |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:58 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Then go meet new people |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:02 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Well, when I said 'no one' I meant no one that's right for me, but... |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
30. You should probably let sleeping dogs lie. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:52 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Wow, talk about a wet blanket. But thanks, I think you're probably right.. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:13 PM Response to Reply #32 |
44. Well, again, I'd move on. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:19 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Do you moonlight as a therapist? Thanks, seriously. |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:29 PM Response to Reply #46 |
54. You're more than welcome. I'm not a therapist, I'm just a man... |
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catzies (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
35. Oh yeah. One ex. Did the dance for 20 years, off and on. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:00 PM Response to Reply #35 |
38. Whew! Thank God I've got company. Nothing sucks worse than being... |
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catzies (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. You're not crazy and you're not alone. And since I live in a glass house |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:10 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. You're one sick puppy...cat. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
41. Funny you should mention this. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:24 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. Well, I'm glad I have some company. This is scary, no doubt about it. |
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maveric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:27 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. What I notice now is that there is more honesty between us now. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:13 PM Response to Reply #52 |
72. YES, that's it! That's why I want a second chance. I tried to play it safe |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
43. I've had opportunities to, but never did. Regained my senses just in time. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:20 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. amen to that. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:26 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Ah man, why does it have to be so hard to get along? |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:22 PM Response to Reply #43 |
49. Thanks Redstone. I fully realize I'm putting my head on the chopping block |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:35 PM Response to Reply #49 |
57. Risk. I can't remember how many times I've put everything on one |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:39 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. You continue to amaze, my friend.... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:47 PM Response to Reply #58 |
62. Feh. Many fish in the sea, and all that. Or, to be much more crude, |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
47. Yep. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:28 PM Response to Reply #47 |
53. And that's what makes life make sense, right? I have no kids, & regret it. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
55. Yes. And I married him. As I should have the first time around. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:41 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. Wow, I was ready to throw in the towel 5 minutes ago. Where u guys been? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:42 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. We dated...broke up...and then ran into each other three years later. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:48 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. Well, that truly is heartwarming. I'm not sure it's good for my health.... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:49 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. I'm sorry chaska... |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:03 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. Thanks, MrsGrumpy. I haven't felt much warmth from DU lately.... |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-07-06 06:27 AM Response to Reply #69 |
79. chaska, you'll always have a friend here. |
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ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
56. No. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:46 PM Response to Reply #56 |
61. Well, the good thing is that five years is enough time to have forgiven... |
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ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 09:50 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. Well, figure that if she responds, then she's at least willing to talk. |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:00 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. That sounds a little like a current relationship (I'm going through... |
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ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:01 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. Dear chaska (IF that is your real name), |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:08 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Have you ever violated the laws of irony? I did once.... |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
71. stalk her for awhile first...to make sure she's divorced... |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:16 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. LOL!!! San Quentin here I come.... |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
74. I've considered it |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:26 PM Response to Reply #74 |
75. But don't like 99.9% of relationships split? Why would a new one... |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-07-06 08:35 AM Response to Reply #75 |
80. The fundamental reason for the split remained |
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chaska (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
76. THANKS, EVERYBODY! Gotta go now. You've all been wonderful. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-06-06 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
77. "I think she'll come around" |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-07-06 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
81. Don't expect anything. |
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arwalden (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-07-06 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
82. Once. |
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