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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-08-06 01:27 AM
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Infatuation vs. beliefs/ politics/ morals/ whatever.
I have a horrible infatuation with someone that has a habit that I find immoral. I don't want to name it because it's flamebait here...but what do people do in this situation. Has anyone ever had this...where you are just obsessed with the person but they have beliefs/ behavoirs that you just can't stomach?

I have deleted some stuff off of my computer relevant to them tonight and I am really trying to let go...any tips on how to get someone out of your mind?

I finally realized tonight that I can't look past it...but I feel at any moment that I am gonna 'relapse' and start obsessing about them again. I hate this internal conflict.

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JackDragna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-08-06 01:44 AM
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1. Get rid of anything you have that reminds you of this person.
Old advice from friends of mine on how to get over people. I've tried it a few times myself and it works.
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idgiehkt Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jun-08-06 01:50 AM
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2. yes, I'm getting it all off of my computer tonight.
Unfortunately I'm going to have to end a couple relationships tomorrow that have only to do with them, that there isn't any basis for a relationship but that. It sucks, but it's just really harming me right now and I need to get it all out of my head. So thanks.
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