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noshenanigans (778 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 10:34 PM Original message |
How do you handle finances after marriage? |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
1. I hate to even say this but perhaps a prenuptial agreement |
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noshenanigans (778 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 10:53 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I've considered it |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 10:57 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Unless you specifically co-sign your fiance's debt it is not a community |
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noshenanigans (778 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 11:01 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. *don't* open a joint account? |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 11:36 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. If you open a joint account you are underwriting the co-signers debt |
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noshenanigans (778 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. well, "she" is a "him" |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 11:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. well, "she" is a "him" Samee same. Hey I'm financially challenged .. |
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liontamer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 10:35 AM Response to Reply #3 |
19. i don't think that's true |
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politicat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-08-06 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
5. Talk to a financial advisor together NOW. |
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Robb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:25 AM Response to Reply #5 |
15. DING DING DING DING!!! We have a winner! |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 11:06 AM Response to Reply #5 |
20. Listen to politicat. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
9. PRENUP AGREEMENT. You can find one online for very cheap that |
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aePrime (676 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 12:18 AM Response to Original message |
10. Not quite the same situation |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 12:41 AM Response to Reply #10 |
11. I buried $60,000 in student loan debt by going bankriupt. Je regret Rien |
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aePrime (676 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 01:10 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Nous ne qualifions pas |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 01:17 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Les Suckes de Maximum - Pepe Le Peu |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
14. I don't thinkk there's one best way |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:41 AM Response to Original message |
16. My suggestion: |
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newportdadde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
17. Well it really depends on the couple. |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 03:45 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. Nice post, but I disagree about not paying off his credit card debt. |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
18. One big pot... |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
21. Noshenanigans |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
22. My two cents.... |
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Saphire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
23. after hubby and I married, MY bills and HIS bills became OUR bills |
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steely (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 05:25 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. To noshenanigans, I agree with the lady of texas |
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Magrittes Pipe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
24. I just give her all my money. |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-09-06 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
27. Whatever you do, talk about it NOW |
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