Celebrate with me! I have said my final goodbyes so to speak)

kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:04 PM
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Celebrate with me! I have said my final goodbyes so to speak)

to a man I once cared for, and I am MOVING ON. I just wish for those of you who have been going through the same thing, to feel the strength I feel right now. May it last. May a kind, decent & liberal man be waiting right around the next corner!

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:06 PM
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1. sorry to hear it.

:(

but this kind, decent & liberal man is availible!

in FL.

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:08 PM
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2. KG, if you lived in Maine

I would take you out to dinner! And don't be sorry. Somehow knowing he is really gone is easier than hoping that he will come back some day. And he's GONE!

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miss_american_pie

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:10 PM
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3. Here's to closure

and moving forward. :toast:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:14 PM
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4. Thank you Ms. Pie.

I honestly believe that this time it's over. Never before have I felt closure. You've been a great help to me.

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khashka

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:15 PM
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5. Good for you

I'm glad you are feeling strong. It takes guts to know when to say goodbye and move on.
There are lots of good men out there and some of them are waiting just for you.

Khash.

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:16 PM
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6. Perhaps. I really only want one though.

And after what I've been through, any monkey will do. Kidding.

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khashka

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Mon Jun-12-06 09:54 PM
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22. Leave the monkeys for me....

Just pick and choose beween the good guys.....

Khash.

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kiraboo

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Tue Jun-13-06 06:30 AM
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23. Okay, friend. You can have the monkeys.

If the past is the best predictor of the future, I will end up with a jackass anyway.

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Callalily

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Mon Jun-12-06 12:17 PM
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7. I truly applaud your

attitude. There have been so many sad break-up threads lately, it was making me heartsick. To lose a relationship once held dear is very difficult indeed, but when it happens, it's just best to move on.

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 01:18 PM
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8. I guess 'tis the season, Simply Fugue.

Here in Maine it's barely springtime though. Should be the time for finding love, not losing it. Here's hoping.

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NewWaveChick1981

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Mon Jun-12-06 01:19 PM
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9. That's great!

It looks like you found your strength. :hug: I'm really glad you did. You will be so much better for it in the long run! :pals:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 01:24 PM
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10. It will, NewWaveChick.

I've already set up plans for a Friday night out. Not a date but I don't care. There is absolutely no turning back this time. I literally couldn't handle it any more.

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Deja Q

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Mon Jun-12-06 01:34 PM
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11. To closure, and more importantly, to find another who will make you happy.

:toast:
:hug:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 01:49 PM
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12. HypnoToad,

YOU DA MAN! Thanks. :toast:

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deadparrot

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Mon Jun-12-06 01:50 PM
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13. Congrats!

Best of luck with everything, kiraboo. :hi:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 02:02 PM
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14. I've been rather short on luck lately.

Perhaps that is about to change.

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u4ic

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Mon Jun-12-06 02:37 PM
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15. Good luck to you, kiraboo

:hug:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 02:42 PM
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16. Thank you u4ic. The initial strength is waning.

I hate it when that happens! In for another bad night. Fortunately I am entirely accustomed to them.

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u4ic

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Mon Jun-12-06 03:04 PM
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18. Mine waxed and waned a lot, too

I knew there was no turning back, but sometimes I was full of fire and "go forward" and then sometimes I hit a 'pity patch', or just felt overwhelmed that I couldn't do anything anymore.

The feelings will come and go. Don't fear them. They're part of your healing. :hug:

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ThomCat

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Mon Jun-12-06 02:47 PM
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17. Good for you!

Moving on can be the best thing you ever did. But it's a scary thing to do. :hug:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 03:32 PM
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21. Never in my life have I been so scared!

After this, I will be invincible.

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CaliforniaPeggy

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Mon Jun-12-06 03:11 PM
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19. Forward, my dear kiraboo!

You won't always be going forward in the short term, but overall, you will!

Forward and back, forward and back your heart will go....

But that's how we heal!

Here's to much better days for you!

:toast:

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kiraboo

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Mon Jun-12-06 03:31 PM
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20. You're the best, CaliforniaPeggy!

I'm at school right now, trying to work my way to getting a real job! Forward...

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kiraboo

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Tue Jun-13-06 09:26 AM
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24. Dreadful crappy day.

I wish I'd never laid eyes on that POS. I wish I had said no the first fifteen times he tried to insinuate himself back into my life. I wish I had realized from day one that anybody who likes to be shit upon as much as he does would never be happy with nice, loveable ol' me.

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