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mduffy31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-18-06 10:17 AM
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Should I send my wife a birthday present or not
Little background, we have been seperated since March. I don't like it, I want to be with her, but it she doesn't want to be with me it seems, she said she was going to file for divorce after I had surgery in July, and it is December and NO divorce papers. So it is her birthday today and I am torn. Should I send her something or not. I want to but then the other part of me says why should I, she didn't give me shit for my birthday. I didn't even get so much as a phone call telling me to fuck off or anything. Help folks!
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-18-06 10:21 AM
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1. yes
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-18-06 10:27 AM
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2. If you want to, then do it
There's nothing wrong with that. You have no obligation to do it, but there's nothing wrong with a sincere sentimental gesture.
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elehhhhna Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-18-06 10:47 AM
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3. send her some flowers.
she may be a crank but you still love her, anyway.
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Crankie Avalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-18-06 10:49 AM
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4. If you want more communication with her than you currently have, maybe it would be a good idea...
...to send her something. I'd say something not so expensive that she would feel uncomfortable accepting.

If you still hold out hopes of actually getting back together, maybe try sending an inexpensive gift that has will have some small sentimental/inside joke quality that she will understand...but nothing too romantic.
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