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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:01 PM
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I'm not sure what I did to deserve what happened tonght
but I won't question it.

A year ago this time, I was destitute - and was that way much of the year. I play in an instrumental group at a traditional United Methodist Church. It's been the only musical outlet I have now. My stand partner is a joy. She's funny, caring, rotten and one of those people who aren't "in your life" all the time. But, she's always there.

Last year, she gave me the two grocery gift cards she and her husband get every holiday season from the hospital where they both work. I was so grateful then. I could buy food for Christmas dinner.

Tonight, she handed me a card. After rehearsal, I opened it. She had given me both the $50 gift cards again. I told her I didn't need them. She said that's not the point. She wanted to do it. *They* wanted to do it.

I'm so lucky. I'm so humbled. I can't wait til I'm in the position to do this for someone else.

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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:03 PM
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1. How very sweet of them.
You will be able to return the favor and much more very soon. I just know it.

All the best in the coming new year.

Happy Holidays! :hi: :hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:05 PM
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Thank you sweetie
:hug:

May 2007 be a terrific one for you too.

:)
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:06 PM
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6. That's what I'm hoping.
:) :hi: :hug:
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bleedingheart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:04 PM
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2. that is wonderful and one day you will be in that position.
have a great holiday!
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:07 PM
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7. Lelapin and I will have a wonderful holiday
I'm inviting my friend and her family up to the farm next weekend for some good food and cards or football or something fun.

Have a great holiday too.

:hug:
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:04 PM
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3. Karma
:hug:

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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:07 PM
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9. ...
:hug:


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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:05 PM
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4. Your very last sentence
is what sets you, and so many, apart.

"Pay It Forward" is not such a radical concept.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:08 PM
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10. You're special, you know
:hug:
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speedoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:08 PM
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11. Amen to that, flvegan.
Thanks, lizziegrace for sharing that with us. I am so happy for you, being in a better place now.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:09 PM
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13. ...
Thank you for being there.

:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:05 PM
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5. That Was Very Sweet
and I imagine you will be in the position to do that!

:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:09 PM
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12. Hope so
very soon. (did I mention I'm impatient??)

:)
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:18 PM
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20. Ahhhhhh! I'm Impatient Too
but I'm learning that it doesn't make any difference how fast I want it to happen, things have a way of taking their own time.

I KNOW you will be fine!

You've made it through what sounds like a tough time.

Take care!

:loveya: :hug:
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:07 PM
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8. Very cool!
100 bucks in wine... :woohoo:


LOL, kidding. Seriously, that is very nice of your friend.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:09 PM
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14. It *is* for Meijer
I could get lots of wine...

:hug:

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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:10 PM
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15. You deserve it.
You'll remember it too, when you ARE in the position to help someone else out. You will be too, I just know it. :-)
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:15 PM
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17. ...
:hug:

Thank you. :)
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:14 PM
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16. that's beautiful
you are blessed
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:15 PM
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18. Things will get better for you
I just know it.

:hug:

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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:18 PM
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19. What a wonderful gift, lizzie.
And you WILL be in that position to pay it forward. :hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:20 PM
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21. I've been making my list
:hug:

I hope you get your car back tomorrow. I've got my fingers crossed.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:20 PM
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22. That's so sweet
I am sometimes blown away by the kindness of people. :hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:22 PM
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23. Me too
Sometimes I feel so invisible in the real world. It's nice to know that I'm really not and that a few good friends are better than a stadium of acquaintances.

:hug:

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InternalDialogue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:26 PM
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24. lizzie, so happy to hear your good story.
I think after hard times, everyone is entitled to a bonus like this. It gives you a deep breath and a break, and a taste of what sort of good feelings you will soon bring to someone else.

:hug:

Merry Christmas!

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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:29 PM
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25. ...
:hug:

Merry Christmas.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:46 PM
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26. How neat is that!
What good people! :)
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 10:48 PM
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27. Yep
I'm in awe.

:hug:

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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 11:28 PM
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28. That's wonderful, my dear lizzie..........
And you know, you do deserve it......

And whoever you pay it forward to will deserve it as well......

Merry Christmas, sweetie!

To you and lelapin........the best New Year ever! :loveya: :hug: :loveya:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 07:13 AM
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30. Thanks
I hope 2007 is the beginning of better days, for all of us.

:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-21-06 11:29 PM
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29. I Think You Were Just You!
don't question it

just accept it!

:loveya: :hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 07:13 AM
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31. Nope, no questions.
You're a sweetheart. Be safe out there!

:hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 07:30 AM
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32. That was very sweet
The kindness and generosity of friends and strangers can be both moving and inspiring. I know I've experienced it in my life and it has moved me and touched me in ways that have truly affected my life.

I know that some day you'll be in a position to do it to someone else and I know that things will get better for you. You've had an awful year -like me -and you deserve much, much better and I'm sure good things will come to you and that you will have a lot to look forward to. And your desire to be in a position to help others speaks volumes as to your generosity, compassion and the integrity of your character. You are truly a wonderful person and it comes through on this forum probably more than you know

May you and Lelapin have a safe, blessed, enjoyable, wonderful and beautiful Christmas and New Year. May 2007 be a great year for you :hug: :hug: :loveya:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 07:33 AM
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33. I wish the very same for you
:hug:

May 2007 be the beginning of a wonderful new chapter in your life.

:loveya:
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gr8dane_daddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 07:33 AM
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34. Sweet story...
Karma dear...karma
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 09:02 AM
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36. Always trying to do the right thing
is the right thing to do.

:hug:

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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 07:36 AM
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35. Aw. You have such a great friend.
Edited on Fri Dec-22-06 07:37 AM by BlueIris
And it's awesome that you recognize the happiness you could enjoy in paying it forward.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 09:03 AM
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37. I'm lucky
:hug:

I hope the new year is good to you BlueIris. You deserve it.

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Bullwinkle925 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 10:14 AM
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38. No need to question it ...
It's all part of that 'cosmic' world. You're evidently getting back some of what you're putting out!
Merry Christmas My Friend.

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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 10:14 AM
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39. ...
:hug:


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photogirl12 Donating Member (887 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 10:17 AM
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40. That was so sweet of them.
It reminds me that there is still good people in the world.
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DixieBlue Donating Member (504 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 10:37 AM
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41. How wonderful.
It's nice to have those kind of people in your life.
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miss_american_pie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 11:01 AM
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42. ...
:hug:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 11:03 AM
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43. ...
:hug:

You've always been there. That means so much.
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 12:40 PM
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44. EVery Time a Gift Certificate is given....
A little PAgan gets his Solstice wreath...
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 12:41 PM
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45. You goof
;)

:hug:

:toast: to friends!

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reyd reid reed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 12:48 PM
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46. ...
:hug::hug::hug:

It's the things like this that make me get all teary.

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

and

:loveya:
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ZombieNixon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-22-06 01:29 PM
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47. Wow...awesome
:D :hug:
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