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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:39 PM Original message |
My daughter's friends keep getting pregnant. |
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Zywiec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
1. If only your daughter could see how this friend will live in a few years |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:57 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. I think she's wise about that. |
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AllegroRondo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:20 PM Response to Reply #8 |
18. make sure she knows godparent does not mean "free babysitter" |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:35 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Yeah, you just nailed my biggest concern about that. |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'd make certain she has easy access to birth control. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:05 PM Response to Reply #2 |
12. I'll do that when she starts dating, though I plan to |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:47 PM Response to Reply #12 |
24. She doesn't have to be dating. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 02:02 PM Response to Reply #24 |
28. Give me some credit, eh? |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 02:28 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. "Advice" + "Thoughts on the subject" = my post |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #24 |
35. I'm gonna echo that |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 02:15 PM Response to Reply #12 |
30. If you wait until she starts dating, it may be too late. Start talking to |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 03:23 PM Response to Reply #12 |
33. doesn't take dating to make babies. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 05:12 PM Response to Reply #12 |
45. SMART ENOUGH TO WAIT - |
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xmas74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:24 PM Response to Reply #2 |
39. Once my daughter hits the teen years |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 06:33 PM Response to Reply #2 |
50. I'll second that one |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
3. You're doing the right thing. Keep an eye on her and her |
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Left Is Write (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
4. My daughter's friends do also, but she is 20 and two years out of high school. |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. the best birth control in the world is watching small children |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:03 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. She talks to me, but not as much to her mother. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:09 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. I don't think 14 year olds really make the connection between sex and pregnancy, or even |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
5. The peer's pregnancy is a good platform for talking about how hard it is to be a parent |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
7. I think the rules are important |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. That's what I see with her friend, and her cousin. |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
9. Having worked in a facility for pregnant teenagers |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:06 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. babies = constant need |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:03 PM Response to Original message |
11. Have you talked to her about what she thinks? |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:30 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. I haven't had the chance, but I plan to. |
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CatholicEdHead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. I hope she gives it up for adoption instead |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:20 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. I have no problem at all with abortion. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:10 PM Response to Reply #17 |
36. One more bit of unsolicited advice |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:22 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Having a child at such a young age is very stressful |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:25 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. having a child at any age is very stressful |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
23. When I was that age all the girls at Catholic school got pregnant |
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CatholicEdHead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:59 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. I guess the Catholic school lived up to its name |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 02:12 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Really ironic, isn't it? |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 05:19 PM Response to Reply #23 |
46. Uh oh... |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 06:01 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Elmhurst IL |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:47 PM Response to Original message |
25. make sure your daughter can see and will work toward a future for herself |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 01:49 PM Response to Original message |
26. I had several friends get pregnant when I was that age |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
32. There isn't an easy answer...we have a similar situation here... |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jul-10-07 12:59 PM Response to Reply #32 |
52. yes, it's very scary! |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
34. Maybe they should keep their legs closed, and probably play team sports for good measure |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:12 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. I can't think of too many team sports |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:18 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Team Yogic Flying |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
40. My daughter is 19 and still doesn't have sex |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
41. I took my girls to Planned Parenthood and |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
42. Move. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
43. Delete |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
44. I have a 15 year old daughter. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
48. A horrific outcome is not guaranteed. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
49. If you can do it without alienating your daughter |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-09-07 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
51. if they aren't religious, why do they need a godmother? |
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