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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 09:55 AM Original message |
My mom is still alive.. That won't always be the case.. A few questions.. |
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AllegroRondo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
1. Have you thought about pre-arranging the funeral? |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
2. Transport |
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TommyO (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
3. Nothing morbid about it, death is a part of life |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:23 AM Response to Reply #3 |
12. Cremation is against her wishes.. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:32 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. This may sound really tacky, but if she is not going to pay for ... |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:56 AM Response to Reply #13 |
18. I hope your husband respects your wishes, |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 11:41 AM Response to Reply #18 |
24. I told him if he buries my body, I will haunt him as a ghost!! |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 04:15 PM Response to Reply #24 |
37. That's *exactly* how I feel about it too |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:51 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. Thank you for respecting your mom's wishes, my friend. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
4. I appreciate your situation. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
5. I don't think it's morbid at all |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
6. Can you get a small life insurance policy? |
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TommyO (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
7. Another thing to remember |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
8. A few answers |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:13 AM Response to Reply #8 |
11. SS pays $215 or thereabouts, but only to the surviving spouse. |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 11:00 AM Response to Reply #11 |
19. Same here. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 11:04 AM Response to Reply #19 |
20. They won't take the payment back if it is after the 10th of the month. |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 11:11 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. So that's why.... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 11:14 AM Response to Reply #21 |
22. I guess they figure that you have had to pay bills, etc. with |
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greatauntoftriplets (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. God.... |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:50 AM Response to Reply #8 |
15. Thanks, some good info.. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:52 AM Response to Reply #8 |
17. Having a funeral service here pick up my dad and ship |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 01:39 PM Response to Reply #17 |
28. Thanks, |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
9. Is cremation an option? You could save big bucks and ... |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
10. My dad lived here in VA and was buried in CT. |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
14. Contact several mortuaries and ask these questions. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
23. I hope the practice of embalming and burial eventually stops. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 12:11 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Well said. nt |
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Omphaloskepsis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 01:43 PM Response to Reply #23 |
29. I am saving now so I don't have to go into debt when she dies.. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
26. seriously? around here? around $20,000 |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:29 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. ... |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:48 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. Umm, the woman is ill and broke. |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
27. Check to see if there is a not-for-profit funeral home/service |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:52 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. If the OP is in Portland, there is a non profit at the end of the Sellwood Bridge. |
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kay1864 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
32. Here's a link; a burial and service shouldn't cost a fortune |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
33. I've done this a bit. |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jul-27-07 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
34. This is very sweet. I hope your mom appreciates your kindness. |
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