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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:36 AM Original message |
My daughter's ex-boyfriend had his mom IM her. I am so aggravated. |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
1. This is creepy! |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:49 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I think it's creepy too. I don't know how his mom IM'd her, if it |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
3. No reply is best. |
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midnight armadillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
4. Two words: "Restraining Order" |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:40 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. I agree entirely. |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:47 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. She thinks she can handle him so we'll see how it goes. I |
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midnight armadillo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 03:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
31. As an adult... |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
5. The apple does'nt fall far from the tree in that family. |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:24 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. I guess it bothers me more than her. She didn't respond to |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
6. change her phone number |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 02:10 PM Response to Reply #6 |
27. At least. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
10. Dealing with stalkers |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
11. Sounds like he's controlling and manipulative of everyone in his life. |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 10:40 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. I don't think he manipulates his mom - I think she enables him. |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:02 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. It's mutual |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 10:49 AM Response to Reply #13 |
14. maybe they don't seem to be a total stranger or utter stranger |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 10:49 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Does your mom get involved in your relationships too? Would that |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:00 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Deleted message |
seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:16 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. They're are all kinds of relationships and experiences in the world |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:33 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. Oh, I believe that |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:52 AM Response to Reply #13 |
21. That's not typical relationship ending stuff in my world |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 01:03 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. I think there's a two week period |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 02:13 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. I don't think its either mob mentality or community friendship |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 05:33 PM Response to Reply #25 |
32. Is it normal, or incredible? I'm confused. |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 06:34 PM Response to Reply #32 |
37. Thanks lwfern. I really don't get any thrills from lying to people |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 07:55 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. I have not once accused you of lying |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:44 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. You are beginning to bore me. I get your opinion. You don't |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:47 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. LOL |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 07:52 PM Response to Reply #32 |
39. You're confused because you want to be |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:17 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. You might want to avoid the term "hysterical" |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:25 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. You're right about that |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:43 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Wandering womb...right |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 12:07 PM Response to Reply #25 |
60. my denial phase usually goes something like this... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 01:56 PM Response to Reply #13 |
26. Deleted message |
alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Oh, sweetie |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:20 PM Response to Reply #30 |
43. You also might want to avoid calling women "sweetie" |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:45 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. You might want to know all the facts |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. The previous poster may have been patronizing as well. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:03 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Uh, no |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:18 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. You're assuming the OP was biased. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:58 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. Whatever |
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zonkers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
20. Disengage. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
22. Please be keeping a record of incidents, times, dates, etc. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
23. While I understand allowing your daughter to make her own decisions |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
24. Yikes.... time to find some hired goons |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 02:25 PM Response to Original message |
29. Wow... just wow. |
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Pushed To The Left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:54 PM Response to Reply #29 |
52. This guy makes even me look non-emotional, and that ain't easy! n/t |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
33. Is she certain these IMs are from his mom and sister? |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 06:23 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. I asked my daughter again today and she said that it was definitely |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
34. He's a stupid putz. |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
35. wow. That's hella creepy. |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
38. I really don't find communication from mom & sister all that odd. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 12:09 AM Response to Reply #38 |
56. I suspect you won't be accused of being a troll or a sexist |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 01:39 AM Response to Reply #56 |
57. nah more often than not, |
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seaglass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 06:42 AM Response to Reply #38 |
59. I have also had relationships with an ex's family, with my longest |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 12:44 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. Ahh, alright |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
40. I'd say to keep out of it |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 11:22 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. I would stay out of it as well. |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-16-07 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
53. There's only one way to handle this situation. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 01:44 AM Response to Reply #53 |
58. LOL WTF? |
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texas1928 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
61. Make sure she saves the IM's and other messages. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-17-07 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
63. Your daughter should file a police report. |
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