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Edited on Mon Sep-17-07 01:18 PM by MrScorpio
The sex scenes, which I pretty much discount and view them just as sexual checkpoints, are pretty much passionless and awkward.
Looking at the nuances, I think are the more interesting things.
I've already categorized all the women. Here we go.
- The Single woman who broke up with her fiance: She has no idea how to operate in a relationship. I think that she can't because she can't possibly allow herself to love on her own terms. She felt compelled to be in the relationship outside of her own control, whether it was from her controlling mother or her mate, who just really felt unsure about her because he demonstrated so much jealous behavior. So she found it necessary to engage in a whole exercise of passive/aggressive behavior in order to control her mate. He left her, thus she lost the ability to control him. It's not about love at all.
He's best to stay away from her ass until she learns to like and respect herself.
- The Younger married couple: This wife is obviously equating having a baby with being in a relationship. She's envious of all the other couples around her, who in her mind, are having happy relationships because they're having babies. Frankly, I think that this is a typical hormonal urge on her part. She really wants to be a mother, no problem with that. But unfortunately, she equating her worth as a wife and mate with her ability to conceive children. Because of this, she's taken the romance and lust out of the relationship. It's all very mechanical. No man, BTW, is turned on by mechanical sex, thus it fuels his frustration and creates a distance between them.
It's a horrible feedback loop between these two. If they really want to have a baby, they should stop fixating on that and start getting really freaky with each other. Get lusty, and the baby will come.
- The Older married couple: They're bored, pure and simple. I'm sure that they love each other and they really want to be together, but I'm afraid that they really just don't care about sex anymore. It's like paying the bills or taking out the garbage... It's like a household chore.
They need a vacation, away from the house, away from the kids... Find out what really got them together in the first place. You can see this because they're fixating on the anniversary. They need a break from being mom and pop and a recharge at being each other's favorite fuck bunnies.
- The Therapist: She's obviously having a great time with her wonderful boyfriend. Nothing wrong with that relationship at all, except for the issue that she's married and needs to break with her husband. There are still feelings to deal with and I'm sure that after so many years, its difficult to make a complete break.
She needs to put the past behind her so she can have free and complete fulfillment with her current guy.
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