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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 10:16 AM
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Why would somebody who hates you add you as a friend on Facebook?
It just makes no sense to me.

This has nothing to do with anyone here.
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City of Mills Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 10:17 AM
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1. To keep track of you
would be my guess.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 10:21 AM
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4. Yeah, but you could always set up a limited profile
where they can't see ANYTHING.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 10:19 AM
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2. To Mess With You.
n/t
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 10:19 AM
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3. A better quesiton is why would someone send a friend request
to a tech support email account?

that desperate?
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 10:22 AM
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5. That is pretty desperate
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northzax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 03:52 PM
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24. cause they just ran their address book
and didn't check who it was going to.
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LSdemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 11:00 AM
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6. Super secret crush on you?
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 11:13 AM
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7. Apparently
Lost has never heard the saying, "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer..."
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 11:23 AM
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8. Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.
Isn't that a quote from someone famous?




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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:26 PM
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11. Yes, it is
I think that only applies though, if you've actually done something to this person.
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Greyskye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 11:24 AM
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9. Friend Count Whore?

I don't 'do' any of these social networking sites, but it seems like that is what many people see as a measure of their worth.
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deadparrot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 11:27 AM
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10. To pad their friends list.
That's what I'm chalking my experience up to.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:26 PM
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12. Is that like MySpace? I can't imagine why someone would do that
if they didn't like you. Unless they're a nutbag.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:29 PM
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14. It's like Myspace, except it's based on "networks"
Like where you went to school, what companies you worked for, et cetera. Of course, people outside your "networks" can request to be your friend, but they need to know your real name to find you.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 04:09 PM
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25. I gotta tell you. That's a little creepy to me. Almost stalker like.
:scared:

Do you have to respond? Because I wouldn't. Yuck.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 04:12 PM
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26. I sent them a polite message asking why they added me
No response.

They can't see my profile without being my friend, but it's still disturbing that someone would bother to search my real name and attempt to add me as a friend.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 04:14 PM
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27. Well, as you know, I am MySpace challenged, and Facebook
sounds as though they've got a pretty decent security thing going on so for someone to circumvent that, someone who hates you, is pretty creepy behavior. :scared:

I hope they don't live near you.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 04:16 PM
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28. Fortunately, they don't know where I live
or work.
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texas1928 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:26 PM
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13. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:29 PM
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15. Chris Crocker has haters request to be his buddy on myspace
then they post how they would like to beat the little faggot. Nice.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:46 PM
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17. Who is Chris Crocker?
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Fran Kubelik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 02:01 PM
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21. The guy who makes videos about how much he loves Britney.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:45 PM
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16. ?????????
Edited on Thu Oct-18-07 02:07 PM by cboy4
????????
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Fran Kubelik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:48 PM
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18. Maybe they don't actually hate you?
Also - when you join facebook you have the option of having facebook send friend requests out to everyone in your email address book. That might have been it too.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:52 PM
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19. They're definitely not a friend
And it's an old Facebook account, which was never set up to send out requests to everyone.

The person definitely ran a search.
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Fran Kubelik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 02:01 PM
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20. In that case...
I got nothing. Weird.
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Hand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 02:04 PM
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22. Insh'Allah. nt
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 02:16 PM
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23. 'Cause it's the internets-tubes.
Everything is possible.

Oh, and I'm a dog in real life. ;)

:hi:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 07:53 PM
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29. Keep your friends close...
and your enemies on your facebook list.
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