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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:31 AM Original message |
Have you ever been a victim of sexual harassment? |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
1. Yup. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:34 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I hope you survived it better than I did... |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:32 AM Response to Reply #2 |
20. It wasn't work, it was a landlord. |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:45 AM Response to Original message |
3. Never have.... |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:47 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Actually... |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:52 AM Response to Original message |
5. My first accounting boss made it clear that I was an object of her |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:57 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Uncomfortable... |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:02 AM Response to Reply #6 |
7. I ended up losing my job... |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:08 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Glad to hear it worked out better for you. nt |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
8. Several times |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:05 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Yes, there are many forms of it... |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:26 AM Response to Reply #8 |
33. Is sexual harassment having a boss be sexually interested in you? |
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Zoigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:04 AM Response to Original message |
9. yes |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:09 AM Response to Reply #9 |
13. Transferring people around seems to be their MO |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:08 AM Response to Original message |
12. Yes. n/t |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:10 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Some day, maybe, you'll write about it.... |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:17 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. I don't wish to. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:18 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. You may have a point there. |
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Colorado Progressive (980 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:19 AM Response to Original message |
17. Twice. Once as a waitress, another time as a real college grad. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:12 AM Response to Reply #17 |
26. I agree.... it should be reported |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
18. Yes many years ago. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:13 AM Response to Reply #18 |
27. That's awful. |
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Jimbo S (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:24 PM Response to Reply #18 |
51. I realize it's not a funny situation, but a good comeback... |
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PaddyBlueEyes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:32 AM Response to Original message |
19. Nope |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:14 AM Response to Reply #19 |
28. Hey you... |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
21. Yes |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 02:11 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. Tell her that she's foul, that'll solve the problems |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 02:09 AM Response to Original message |
22. Yup...On several occasions. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:15 AM Response to Reply #22 |
29. *sigh* |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 03:34 AM Response to Original message |
24. I would not call myself VICTIM |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:16 AM Response to Reply #24 |
30. Good for you! |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
25. Yes. But I dealt with it and wouldn't say I was a victim of his behavior. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:17 AM Response to Reply #25 |
31. Good. Glad you were able to do that. nt |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:26 AM Response to Original message |
32. Not really, but I know some folks that got fired over it |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:29 AM Response to Reply #32 |
35. That really does sound like inappropriate wording there... |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 10:22 AM Response to Reply #35 |
39. The interview was with a different company |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
34. Yes, from a professor who was one of my advisors. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:30 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Interesting, in life... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
37. Yes. Lots of co-workers used to say inappropriate things. nt |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:16 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. That is all part of it. nt |
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RebelOne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
38. In my 20s and 30s, plenty of times. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:17 PM Response to Reply #38 |
42. That was my situation. Really the worst case scenario. nt |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
40. Used to work at a grocery store, manager had nudie pictures on the walls |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:18 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. I'm sure that was uncomfortable. My grandfather owened a shop... |
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ruiner4u (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
44. Yes... Once I trick-or-treated at Castle de Midlo... |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:33 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. You know.... |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
45. When you're my age and a female |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 12:34 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. Wow.... really? |
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China_cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:17 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Only you can answer that. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:21 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. Well, I was half kidding... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
49. no, but I had to lecture some guys I worked with about it several times - |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:26 PM Response to Reply #49 |
53. I tolerated the joking around part pretty well... |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
52. It's sad that people STILL think they can get away with it |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 01:27 PM Response to Reply #52 |
54. Very well said. nt |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-07-07 02:57 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. Things misogynists say... |
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