My baby is turning 5 tomorrow...sniffle...please feel bad for me....

Where did the time go? This little guy seems to be cruising right through life. I put him to bed tonight and sat and cried in the living room for 15 minutes. I feel as if I am being shoved into the next segment of my life and I'm just not ready, so I'll hang onto the doorknob for awhile. :( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(

Try recalling those terrible two's..that'll make you appreciate the growth process more :D

bending....sigh.:-)

In 2 weeks my precious little darling baby will start (gasp) . . .
1st grade! Since he will be an only it just really hurts sometimes; BUT . . .

Every age has its charms. Now that he reads a little, he reads the books that were once my favorites to me; and we've discovered some wonderful new to me books.

Our favorites:
Four Pups and a Worm (this one cracks me up every time, my late father found it for us)
Chicka Chicka Boom Boom
Bark, George (Jules Feiffer, no less--hilarious!)

When I get down about it, I just think of him reading Bark, George to me when I had the stomach flu recently. Now, when he no longer wants to sit on my lap . . .

On edit: white knuckling the doorknob myself!

"A told B and B told C, I'll meet you at the top of the cocanut tree."

A true classic.

Daddy's little girl is seven. :-)

good idea...until we read it. Talk about giving a child paranoia. It all ends well but the lead up to the climatic ending is enough to keep a Mommy from sending her boy off to school.

There is nothing better than cracking open a book with your child.

;-)

Are you talking about a cat, a dog, a horse, or a human?

If the first three, no big deal. If the last, well, they do grow up. My babies are teenagers now, which is really strange because they were just toddlers a year or two ago. We have a lot of their photos on the computer as rotating screensavers and wonder all the time how it was that our babies were kidnapped and replaced by the ones we have now.

One part of me is thinking" Yay, time to myself", the other part of me ist thinking,"why was I in such a hurry to get him to walk?" It's a cusp year for us. My daughter starts *gulp* high school next year, and I am wondering how they could be so old while I am still so young and innocent.;)

Believe me, in 10 years you will be wondering where the food went, where the portable phone is, and where the light at the end of the tunnel is...:silly:

think its a game (although I'm on to him--check the john first!).

Welcome to DU, carols!

:toast:

Actually, I think my family has a relay system going whereby the dog gets it last - and the dog has some REALLY creative hiding places!
Carol

You definitely deserve some sort of reward. :toast:

Welcome to DU! :hi: BTW, how did you even manage to get time on the computer. ;-)

...they are all on the phone!
Carol

How d'you stay sane?!

am wondering if my husband has the intestinal fortitude for it.

how's that for frightening? (had her when I was 20)
But, it always feels terrible to feel that time slipping away. I looked at her recently and thought: where is my *baby*? what did you do with my *baby*?

She's a great adult but I miss that tiny person I used to know too.
So, hang on to the doorknob or DU Lounge or whatever you need to do. Sympathy 'r us!

Looking back, those years of her babyhood seemed a lot longer than his did. She was the lucky one, because I was not as paranoid and overprotective as I seem to be now.;-) It's funny how so many people that I meet on DU have similar life situations.

Or gets married and you cant get to the wedding cause you've been laid off. THAT is frustrating. The Boss Lady and I finally got to see our sons video of his marriage last week. They were married in Dec. that will make you mad x( but ya know what? They come back...and they bring their children and ya get to do it all over again :)

send them on home with their little chocolate faces to Mommy and Daddy. I am so sorry you missed your son's wedding. It's just not fair.

and it was just two weeks ago that he was born! (Well, that's what it feels like, anyway)! He was so cute when he was younger, I really miss that. He's in camp this week, his first camp ever, and boy am I ever missing him! So enjoy this age while you can, because it's going to go even faster from now on.

;-)

Call me that day it's much worse ..I cried so hard ..
That's the day you realize he's not a baby anymore .
After that comes "mom don't hug me here" :-(

My best friend has already warned off the school office that they won't have a problem with him, it's the mommy that they need to worry about. :(

After all, it was yesterday; wait, no; last week . . .

Anyway, if you make it past day 1 you'll be okay. No, really, you will, I promise. Swear it!

Oh, God, now I'm hearing that tear-jerker from Fiddler on the Roof. Nope, I won't even type the name . . .

:-) It's good to know that there is life on the other side of the dreaded "First Day of School"

can't have children, can't feel bad for you. Congrats to the little one though.

Life is not fair. And I will also look at thim today...and be grateful for him.

All his memories are being formed right now. He needs you happy.

Time do but fly by. Ours are 10, 8 and 5 too (the 5 year old is named Brett, can you guess why?) They sure are in a hurry to grow up, aren"t they?

We're gonna need a good QB in a few years.:hi:

He said to me: "Daddy, I know I'm 5 now, but I'll always be #4, right?"

HAPPY B-DAY TO LITTLE MRSGRUMPY!!!!

He's four.

I think so far it has been my favorite with both the kids. Hang on tight!!!!

from taking my oldest back to KState. He is only an hour plus away but it is always hard. Cherish them, they are gone in a flash. Something to think about....my husband had a small tape recorder laying around and he secretly recorded my two when they were about 3 and 1 1/2. They were singing and talking. Last year he found the tape and made me a CD. It is precious to hear their small voices singing. My oldest sang every word of the National Anthem (I sang to them constantly so they knew everything) and I can just picture him singing it while standing like the "Tatuum of Livery". Ahhh, precious memories.

thingy...then his first cries, then babbling, words, songs...That's a good idea, we'll have to switch it over...Now I am going to have to go find it...sniffle..and listen.

Big hugs! My oldest is almost 4, youngest 20 months. Each age is fun in and of itself, but it's difficult to get through ages that you'll never get back.

Thank God for grandkids! happy birthday to Grumpy Jr.! :bounce:

I just never pictured my babies ever growing out of being babies and into real live children. :hi:

I cried myself to sleep on the eve of my daughter's first birthday- she was so independent I just knew she didn't need me anymore! Now she runs a Head Start pre-school and thanks to her, I'm a great-grandma re-living that first birthday trauma all over again! Wouldn't exchange those kinds of highs and lows for anything in the world though. Hang onto the doorknob - we're all there with you.

great grandchild....but as fast as time moves, I bet that will happen by next week.

on the 27th...

I feel your pain (no pun intended). They are growing so fast!

And yes, that is overwhelming at times.

:hi:

Don't worry...You have plenty to look forward to. Wait til his little teeth start coming out. They're so darn cute at this age! :-)

huge backpacks and look cute doing it. Those giant bookbags make them look like little tikes again...Happy Belated birthday to your little one.

James' sister knocked his first tooth out last month....strictly by accident rough housing...and I wasn't even home. From what they tell me it was a rather traumatic experience. He was asleep with a tear stained face when I got home. I agree he looks very cute with the new gap in his smile.

talk about time slipping away :(

But then THEY need their lives too and cannot stay children to please us :(

sweet memories. My mother said something like that to me last night...."How do you think I feel, my baby (me) is 33" :hi:

We have been sorting out stuff in the attic and she has been promenading all over the house in my high heels today...and I've been looking wistfully at her old baby shoes, remembering her toddling about. *sniff*

I think there's more room left here on this doorknob.;)

Thanks!

doorknob me thinks;-)

This is the feel-goodingest(thats a word and i like it) thread I have ever read. Makes my heart warm for this place and the future of our country. Thanks fellow posters.

until the eldest child leaves for college-not that I am counting the days-I'm counting the hours.

of Kindergarten many years ago (she will be 44 this month) I was in my eighth month with her 8 lb 10 oz soon to be brother

I stood there crying like a big ole baby

I will never forget that feeling of loss, and guess what?

she is STILL my beautiful baby

with my 13 year old. Last year it was, she'll never be a 7th grader again...sniffle, this year, I can't believe this is her last year before high school. Imagine the poor child when she starts dating.

Our son just turned 5, and begins All-Day Kindergarten this fall. It seems like yesterday I was holding him in one arm and holding his formula bottle in the other, both of us falling asleep in my chair together until my wife woke me up and we put him in his crib.

NOW: Sheesh. Getting him in bed is a chore, and finding room with all his power rangers and planes and cars in his bed. And he is actualy *mad* that he doesn't go to school in the summer. And he's grown an inch in the past 2 months.

and I swear he's gonna be a lawyer. I've never seen anyone stretch the definition of the truth so much and yet still remain just barely on this side of telling a lie. He's good at it. Oh boy, he's good at it. and then he smiles that devious little smile that says, "oh come on, you know I'm right."

Oh, and he does not have a door to his room, so no doorknob to hold on to, so I guess all we can do is go along for the ride...

It's his world, we just live in it with him.

(and don't get me started about his little sister...) :)

with a few tinkertoys mixed in, going on at our house. It is great to know others go through this same trauma. My husband was thinking I had gone round the bend.

:-)

Then you'll REALLY be wondering where the years went!

Bake