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George_Bonanza (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:49 AM Original message |
Refusal to date a race is racism? |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
1. "I don't have anything against Black men, it's just that I've never met one whom I liked" |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:53 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Agreed |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 09:21 AM Response to Reply #1 |
84. So answer me this.... |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
2. This one looks popcorn worthy. |
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KitchenWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:54 AM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Do you have enough for the whole class? |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
3. No, it isn't necessarily racist at all: it's a "sensual grid" thing |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
5. i agree with most of your post. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
6. well some people can be prejudiced and still date outside their race |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
9. I refuse to date outside my race |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:28 PM Response to Reply #9 |
28. I only dated human beings before I was married. |
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DontBlameMe (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 10:09 AM Response to Reply #28 |
86. Hahaha! |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
10. "negroid"..Is that actually a word? |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
20. It's a word. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:10 PM Response to Reply #10 |
25. As much as "caucasoid" is a word, yes. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
11. Your first statement is most naive. |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:20 PM Response to Reply #11 |
37. I disagree with you |
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George_Bonanza (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:36 PM Response to Reply #11 |
39. I don't mean that everybody will have the same backgrounds |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
12. Why on earth is this in the lounge? |
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LSK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:17 PM Response to Reply #12 |
26. because GD cant handle it |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
13. I will date anyone except Canadians. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:30 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. How does your wife feel about that? |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. She won't either. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:31 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. I don't blame you...I wouldn't them either...what with all the "eh's" and all. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. And who the hell wants poutine for breakfast.. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:34 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. My husband would...for breakfast lunch and dinner..Oh wait... |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:36 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. I hate it when a threads turns dirty. |
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montanto (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:10 PM Response to Reply #15 |
24. Yeah, and not to mention all the |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:31 PM Response to Reply #13 |
30. rug you may want to change that subject line |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:51 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. Really? I never heard it. Send me a PM. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:53 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. i've rather not spread it if you haven't heard it |
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Mitsuko (7 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
21. What is Americanized? |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 12:57 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. i think that is racist to pick out a certain race, whether yours or another to date |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:31 PM Response to Reply #21 |
50. Have you come across women who fetishize Asian men? |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:37 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. I think Asian men are attractive |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #52 |
67. That was nicely put. |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:47 PM Response to Reply #52 |
68. butt fuglytude.......lol. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
23. I agree. |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'd call it a personal preference. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:42 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. It's one thing to say you are attracted to blondes. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:38 PM Response to Reply #27 |
41. personal preferences based on race, are imo racist. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm not following this |
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Red State Rebel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
32. Personal Experience..... |
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Brewman_Jax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:07 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. I've seen SWF for SWM |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
36. the only flat out generalizations I make about who I will not date is: |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:22 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. I think you are being intolerant. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:38 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. well, frankly |
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Catsbrains (352 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:50 PM Response to Reply #40 |
69. not to worry..most politically conservative married men are in the closet. |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:41 PM Response to Reply #36 |
42. what if the married men have a signed permission slip from home? |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:14 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. not interested in playing 2nd fiddle to anyone |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:15 PM Response to Reply #47 |
64. Okay, now you're discriminating against people who play second violin... |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:25 AM Response to Reply #64 |
83. nope |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #83 |
91. Just because we didn't make it to first chair doesn't make us any less of a musician. |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
43. No more so than a blanket refusal to date the same sex being homophobic (nt) |
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George_Bonanza (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:30 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Actually, you have an underlying point |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:05 PM Response to Reply #43 |
45. I'm not sure. It's all in the nature of the word "date." |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:24 PM Original message |
I don't agree with your analogy |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
53. I've known a few black women who don't date white men |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
71. You don't have the direction right. |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:11 PM Response to Original message |
46. If race is the motivating factor for anything, then there's probably some racism. |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
48. If the criteria for being willing to date someone is race, then yes. It's racist. |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
49. Yes, it's racist. What's more, we're all racists. Everyone's racist. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:46 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. Self Delete wrong reply. n/t |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
51. This is the most sensible thing I've read on this topic |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:48 PM Response to Reply #51 |
73. Other than the poly thing I'm pretty much the same way. :P |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
54. I thought that driving in NASCAR was racism. |
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Sanctified (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
56. What about people who refuse to date people in their race? |
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IndianaJones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:48 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I would have a hard time finding someone in my race...if I wasn't married to someone out of it. nt. |
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theredpen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
58. Is it OK to refuse to date someone based on gender? |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
59. I suppose I agree. |
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Boojatta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
60. Link to an archived thread on a related topic: |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:04 PM Response to Original message |
61. My wife does not like me dating black women |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 10:42 PM Response to Reply #61 |
76. More intolerance |
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skater314159 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
62. Beauty IS cultural |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:05 PM Response to Reply #62 |
70. Good point about Bollywood |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 09:07 PM Response to Reply #62 |
74. Indians favored light-skinned people long before they knew what Brits looked like |
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ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #74 |
80. Hell, occasionally there are some who look like Irish or Germans. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
63. Refusal? Maybe, but I think we are naturally attracted to our own |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 10:47 PM Response to Reply #63 |
77. You know what? I've tried to think how I could put my response into the right words |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:27 PM Response to Reply #63 |
82. I think we are conditioned to be attracted to our own race |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
65. I think it's racism. |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
66. Back when I was in graduate school, I had a roommate from Thailand, |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
72. Oops, I thought this was the lounge, sorry. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
75. The overriding charactistics I look for in women are personality and intelligence... |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
78. You lost me at number one. |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
79. I like salad n/t |
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Tektonik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
81. Definitely a touchy subject |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
85. So answer me this - the fact that I am not attracted to women sexually and won't date them... |
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The Animator (999 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
87. Doesn't matter to me so long as she's hot... |
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MsKandice01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
88. I've never dated outside my race.... |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 11:04 AM Response to Original message |
89. ok -- i think i've dated everyone -- except may someone from outer mongolia. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 11:27 AM Response to Original message |
90. As somebody who has dated almost as many races as Captain Kirk |
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