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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:48 AM
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I'm giving notice at my toxic job today
I'm on vacation this week, but I'll call it 2 weeks notice. I doubt they'll want me to work that last week since I'm such a waste of payroll....so I guess I hand her the keys too? what's the protocol here? :hi:
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:51 AM
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1. I don't know the protocol....
But I just wanted to say congrats and good for you! :bounce:
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:55 AM
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3. thank you
I've never left a job for reasons like this. I'm just a little nervous. I don't really have anything lined up but my family is very happy that I'm outta there.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:51 AM
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2. The protocol is to take a dump on the manager's desk.
Might want to double check that with Emily Post.
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:55 AM
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4. LOL!
thanks for that picture! :hug:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 10:09 AM
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5. I just called about a couple of jobs.
I want to give notice so bad, it is NOT funny.
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 10:20 AM
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6. I think we should start a club
:hug:
ok, into the shower then write a very brief resignation letter. The less said the better actually. She has really pushed me very near postal. If you knew me in RL you would understand that it would take enormous shit to my very patient, enduring self to that point. :hug:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 10:27 AM
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7. here is a sample resignation letter link ---
http://jobsearch.about.com/od/sampleresignationletters/Resignation_Letter_Samples.htm

I already have mine written, just waiting for the right time...

:hug:
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 10:49 AM
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9. thanks!
I was just about to google for that. I feel so good having made the decision and my blood pressure is down already. :hi:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 12:04 PM
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16. most welcome
I am taking nerve pills to get me past the hump and keep my b/p down. ;)
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atomic-fly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 10:56 AM
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10. same here.
I'm in a very toxic place. I've got mine ready to launch.
I arrive yesterday totally relaxed, by 9 am I've got a knot in my stomach.
And it is all cuased by very poor people skills on the part of one of my
bosses.
Several people have jumped ship cause of this person.

I like the money, but I figure it's not worth my health to stay here
to much longer.

And sign me up for the club!
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 12:05 PM
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17. you are welcome....looks like we are founding memebers of
a club :)
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 12:02 PM
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15. oops
Edited on Wed May-07-08 12:03 PM by Tuesday Afternoon
wrong place.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 08:23 PM
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20. wrong place AGAIN
Edited on Wed May-07-08 08:28 PM by Tuesday Afternoon
you can tell my nerves are shot !!
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atomic-fly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 11:00 AM
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11. good luck
I feel your pain..same for me.
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Jimbo S Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 10:44 AM
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8. Yea!
I'm calling today to setup a second interview, so I may be joining you soon.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 11:03 AM
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12. Good for you!
Life is too short to stay someplace that doesn't give back. If the job I'm in takes much more away from us... well... I will follow your lead. Hope you find something much better! :hi:
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 11:18 AM
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13. let's do it!
I found this googling about and with minor tweaks, I will be writing it up.

It is with great regret and tremendous disappointment that I find it necessary to resign my position as effective as of ______ (last day).

I appreciate the opportunity to have been a part of such a (great/well respected/etc) organization. I leave a stronger nurse for having been in your company.

Please accept my appreciation for all the valuable lessons I have learned in my tenure here.

Sincerely,

ngu
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 11:41 AM
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14. I will bookmark this....
just in case. For now, though, I enjoy one of the benefits of my job too much to leave. If that changes, for the worse, I'm out of here though! :hi:
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bertha katzenengel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 12:07 PM
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18. Protocol? Turn around, bend at the waist and drop trou.
Good for you! Best of luck.
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 02:30 PM
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19. that's exactly what I did
in my head. Told her the store looked great for the DM's impending visit, then handed her the envelope with the above mentioned letter and my keys and simply said "this is my 2 week notice" and walked away. It feels amazing. I highly recommend it for anyone who can do it. Believe me, I know how very fortunate I am that my husband's employment will take care of us just fine for awhile. :hi:
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 08:32 PM
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21. My boss told me today that I was vindictive because I asked for
Friday off for Mother's Day weekend :wtf:

I had found my own coverage.

I think she has lost her mind :wow:
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:31 PM
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22. and that's vindictive how?
sheesh! You need to get out of there! :hi:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:35 PM
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23. Please have a Wonderful vacation!
I hope your next job is far more pleasant, productive, developmental and profitable for you. :hug:
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joneschick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-07-08 09:54 PM
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24. thank you
and I hope your days show some real improvement too. :hug:
I have a couple of irons in the fire, so to speak. It's all good.
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