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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:12 AM
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Poll question: Why do you have siblings?
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:32 AM
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1. My dear struggle4progress!
I was a girl...still am, actually.

And they wanted a boy.

:shrug:

Actually, that is true. But they did want to have two children, and so they did.

:hi:
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nomorenomore08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:35 AM
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2. Because they didn't get it right the first time (I have one younger sister).
:P
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:40 AM
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3. I answered #2 because....
I am the youngest of 5...
and all other options were geared toward oldest siblings.

I'm the youngest among my siblings, and I'm here to poop on your parade! :D
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:19 AM
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13. Yep. I'm the oldest. And yep, I'm used to my parade being pooped upon
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:40 AM
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4. My parents were/are honest about it: they wanted a reason to continue if something happened to me.
Edited on Thu May-07-09 01:41 AM by BlueIris
So they had my little sister.

Also, they liked being parents and wanted another child to enjoy raising. But I think it was mostly that first thing. And they aren't the only couple I've talked to who copped to having had an additional child/children primarily for that reason.

If I ever choose to have kid(s), I'll either have a second one or pursue a foster/adoption scenario to have a second one. Because I want my firstborn (first adopted? it might go that way) to have the personality of a child who grew up with a sibling. I realize that all children have their own individual personality challenges regardless of birth order or the presence of siblings, but I cannot stand only children. (My apologies to the only children of DU or parents of on this site.) And don't bother to flame me or ask why.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:46 AM
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5. Because my goofy parents thought having another would save their marriage.
Divine freakin' intervention couldn't have saved their marriage. :eyes:
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:09 AM
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10. Decades ago, there was a magarine commercial with punchline "It's not nice to fool Mother Nature"
Edited on Thu May-07-09 02:10 AM by struggle4progress
But nobody ever seems to notice how devious and manipulative Good Mother Nature is, in her efforts to produce a new generation of hapless earthlings. It's a really good thing, too, because if people really knew what they were doing, lots of great folk would never have been born

Thirty years ago, a friend of mine was smitten by a lunatic: I tried to talk him out of marrying her, to no avail. It was a miserable marriage, that finally ended very badly, with ugly feelings all around. They had a daughter: she is one of the most charming and engaging people I have ever had the privilege to know. Did I give my friend good advice thirty years ago? Well, yes, but in a way the world's a better place because he didn't listen
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:54 AM
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6. I'm sure my sisters and I were kidnapped from a Royal Family.
The Kennedys, or perhaps the Wellstones or the MacGoverns. Surely my staunch Republican parents could not have spawned three raging liberals by themselves.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:57 AM
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8. If you ask them, many kids have wondered if they weren't kidnapped at birth from a better family
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:55 AM
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7. Because I guess my parents thought having a second kid would be a good thing.
Cheers to them.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:10 AM
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11. I for one am rather glad they did.
:)
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:08 AM
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9. We were all accidents
I guess they were accident-prone.
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Archae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:15 AM
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12. 2 older...2 younger.
All four sisters.

I ended up getting it both ends ;-)
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 09:59 AM
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25. I have two older and two younger also -
Four girls and a boy. My brother is the youngest.
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JustABozoOnThisBus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:01 AM
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14. I have siblings because we failed
to kill each other when we were kids.

I don't know how that happened.

It wasn't for lack of trying, at times.

:rofl:

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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:54 AM
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17. As a mom, that has got to be the best answer I've seen.
My kids are definitely giving it their best shot
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SalmonChantedEvening Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:30 AM
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15. No idea. There were already three when I got here.
Edited on Thu May-07-09 06:32 AM by SalmonChantedEvening
And they were foolish enough to make two more, even after having me. :silly:

Slow learners.
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:53 AM
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16. Other: No choice, fertilized egg split into 2 and here we both are.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 07:03 AM
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18. "Buy one, get one free"
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:00 AM
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19. *snort* I'm not so sure about that free part.
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:05 AM
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23. In my vain search for witticism, it was either that or some comment about how you started
falling apart even before you were born. But internet posts don't show crinkly smiling eyes, so I thought I'd better go the "Buy one, get one free route"
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Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:49 AM
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24. LOL! Now you know....
I find the falling apart before I was born comment absolutely hilarious. Good one!
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:03 AM
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20. My parents got 2-for-1.
I am a twin.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:04 AM
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21. Because I let them live
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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 11:05 AM
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27. Inadequate duct-tape supply at the ancestral homestead?
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:57 PM
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30. We used the ropes nuns tied their habits with....
and rosary beads.
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leftyclimber Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:04 AM
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22. My mom had to go off the pill for medical reasons.
A week later, my brother was conceived.

Surprise, mom and dad!

:rofl:
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dropkickpa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 10:21 AM
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26. There was a serious lack of Dropkick in the world
Me and my 5 brothers are helping to remedy that situation.
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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 12:12 PM
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28. My mom and dad wanted a large family but they didn't have enough money to buy one.
And for what it's worth, the rhythm method doesn't work for couples who have no inhibitions about nudity.

My mom was breastfeeding kids in public places forty to fifty years ago.

Artists... what can you say?
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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 12:15 PM
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29. Since I'm the youngest of 3
I have to believe my parents kept trying til they got it right! :7
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Manifestor_of_Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:05 PM
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31. Because
My sister was so cute and awesome that they decided to have another beautiful, smart, charming daughter. :D

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