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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 01:56 PM Original message |
My 23 year old son and my ex-husband just went at it- physically |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
1. Well, hell. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:07 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. thanks. I feel nauseous about it. |
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cbayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
2. Been there. Horribly sickening feeling. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:08 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. thanks. It is. sickening and confusing. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
5. I think I would have helped your son kick your ex's ass. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:16 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. I'm totally on my son's side in all this |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
6. sad as it is, and ill as it makes you, it was probably healthy for your son |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:20 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. thanks for the wise words, havoc mom. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:30 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. dear cali, the ambivilance can be a great stressor. And you aren't the only one dealing with it |
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Mel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 10:44 PM Response to Reply #6 |
47. That was damn fine words of wisdom! |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
9. Ultimately it doesn't matter why they went at each other -- it's always distressing when adults |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:26 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. doesn't sound like the "dad" has a lick of "adult" in him |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:51 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Yeah, and it still doesn't make it feel right to see son and father go at each other. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
12. a vew initial thoughts... |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 08:34 PM Response to Reply #12 |
30. The son may have lost his chance to get his money back. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 09:51 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. Did he go vigilante? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 10:10 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. I was reading between the lines |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 10:16 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. I took a different read |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 10:31 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. I hear ya on that. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 03:10 PM Response to Original message |
14. What kind of loser begrudges his 23 year old kid a $1200 check? It sounds like a felony to me. |
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baldguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 03:36 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. +1 |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
15. What an awful mess. Sounds like your son is twice the man your ex is. *hugs* |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
17. sorry cali. hoorible to experience. and as you say.... |
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miscsoc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
18. the dad is objectively a scumbag and deserves to have his teeth knocked out |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:36 PM Response to Original message |
19. thanks TONS everybody |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:40 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. how is your son doing. what is he feeling. nt |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:52 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. fortunately, two of his cousins are home visiting for a few days |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:56 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. i grew up with two aggressive brothers and aggressive father. it doesnt effect them NEARLY as much |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 07:01 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. Can I ask why |
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Biker13 (609 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 08:48 PM Response to Reply #24 |
46. cali, you have real class. |
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Drunken Irishman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
21. Cali, I've been there with my dad. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:46 PM Response to Original message |
22. oh no... |
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JohnnyLib2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
23. Dreadful. |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
26. I hate when this stuff happens. |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 07:27 PM Response to Original message |
28. How does someone appropriate a check? Let alone a tax return check |
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WillParkinson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm sorry you're in the middle Cali... |
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Lindsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 09:02 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. How coruld he take his own son's tax refund? I think that's a |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
31. OH Cali... |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
32. Nothing is grocer than two men fighting. You did good. Hope it blows over. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
36. I took a swing at my dad once. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 10:19 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. Hmm. |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-22-10 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
40. Wow, cali |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 01:06 AM Response to Original message |
41. Testosterone is a hell of a drug. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 07:24 AM Response to Original message |
42. Wait..what? How was a 23 year old involved on another adults tax return at all. |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 08:37 AM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Pssst. You have that backwards. Dad stole the son's check. |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 03:28 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. My ex is an accountant |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 04:01 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. I am sorry, Cali |
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kimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-23-10 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
48. Family disharmony sucks |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-24-10 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
49. Is your ex an active alcoholic/drug abuser, by any chance? |
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