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backwoodsbob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 08:09 AM
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als is one fucked up disease
we had a benefit fishing tournament for the receptionist from my company yesterday..she has als.

one year ago she was perfectly healthy..today she needs a motorized wheelchair and a feeding tube.

such a fucked up disease..I really like her..she is such a good person and she is being robbed at 50 years old
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 09:31 AM
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1. Yes it is a horrible, fucked-up disease.
I've known three people who had it.
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backwoodsbob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 09:37 AM
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2. my heart just breaks for her
she is such a sweet lady and she has to go through this.

It kills me
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 11:28 AM
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3. It is devastating
As you stated. People with ALS become dependent upon others for everyday activities. Very positive though, is the benefit you all put together for her :thumbsup:.
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backwoodsbob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 02:47 PM
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4. as bad as my company is on safety
Edited on Sun May-23-10 02:49 PM by backwoodsbob
I'll give them this..they are VERY proactive on these type issues.

we had a garage sale and the fishing together..we raised enough to buy her a motorized wheelchair and a wheelchair enabled van



on edit: and I caught an 8 lb trout :)
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Dr Morbius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 03:54 PM
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5. My brother died of ALS.
I have resolved to commit suicide if ever I am diagnosed with the disease. It's perhaps the most evil way I can imagine dying, as one by one your muscles fail to obey, until finally breathing itself is too difficult. Horrible, terrifying way to go. <shudder>

There are good people out there searching for cures and helping alleviate the suffering. The ALS Society, I think they're called. Helped a lot when my brother was still around.

Someone recently referred to EMS technicians as heroes, which they are. But in my view, family members who care for ALS patients are heroes, too. My younger brother gave the prime years of his life acting as a full-time caregiver for my older brother: he's my hero.
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MrMickeysMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-10 11:05 PM
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14. In fact, that was someone's decision (and it was done the right way)
There is nothing however in this disease that makes anything right. I've taken care of many with this problem. My heart goes out to you.
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 04:12 PM
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6. That might be the disease I fear most.
My heart goes out to anyone who has that.
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Quantess Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 05:16 PM
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7. A lot of Gulf War vets got it / have it.
I knew a man who eventually passed away from it. He needed tubes and pumps for breathing, eating, etc. Sometimes the breathing tube became clogged and because of that he needed supervision at all times. He was remarkably brave through all of it.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 05:24 PM
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8. My dear backwoodsbob...
It is one of the most horrifying diseases ever, second only maybe to Alzheimers.

My neighbor died of it many years ago. Apparently he'd had it for many years, and it progressed very slowly. At the end, he went rapidly.

He chose not to be on any sort of life support/artificial feedings, but maybe his refusal came from his having had a long, full life. I don't know.

50 is way too young to die.

My best wishes to all of you as you stand by her...

:hug:
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backwoodsbob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 05:47 PM
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9. just lost my stepfather to alzhiemers
he dies less than a year ago

It's a horrible disease
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 05:49 PM
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10. I'm so sorry...
That one scares me too...

The body lives on, while the soul and mind are gone.

:hug:
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Terra Alta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-23-10 07:01 PM
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11. it is horrible
A guy I'd known since kindergarten died from it in 2006. He was 25. Way too young to go. :(
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-10 09:13 PM
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12. I'm reading Sue Miller's 'The Lake Shore Limited'. Goes into grief
Edited on Mon May-24-10 09:22 PM by applegrove
a bit. And one of the main characters has ALS. They mention Stephen Hawking has had it for 30 years.
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-24-10 11:01 PM
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13. One reason I agreed to do the MDA "Lock up" later this week.
Locally they do a "lock up" as a fundraiser, and every year they would call my office and ask me to agree to do it. I have always wanted to--but something always seemed to be happening on that date. Maybe it was just an excuse on my part--I dunno. Anyhow, this year when they called me, the woman from MDA started talking about all the different diseases that fall under the MDA programs. One of them is ALS.

I lived with a man for many years who was the son of a man with ALS. Cy was diagnosed with it and they conceived Jim shortly after. Nobody knew back then that there was a genetic link in some cases. Jim never wants to have a child that would carry that gene, and I had to respect that. When Cy died I gave money to the ALS Foundation in his memory, and when I have a good year I still do. This year, I'm "going to jail" in memory of Cy.

ALS really is an awful disease.



lAURA
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