Signs or symptoms of the Dry Drunk.
1. Grandoise behavior. Lack of insight, exaggerates own importance at the
expense of others. Overestimation of abilities, intelligence and
judgement. Unaware of the need and feelings of others.
2. Rigidly judgemental: Usually sees things in terms of goodness and
badness.
3. Tense impatience: With others or about life. Wanting immediate release
from any stress or strain: if not instant satisfaction, the person becomes
indigant or depressed.
4. Childish behavior: Easily bored, distracted or disorganized. Feelings
can change from moment to moment. Cannot enjoy being with others,
conversation, movies, TV, etc. Often "picks up their ball" and runs home.
5. Unrealistic behavior: Denial of the truth about oneself. Criticism by
others covered up by explainations or excuses. Finds fault with others,
their attitudes and behaviors, looks outward, not inward. Sees in others
what he cannot accept in himself. Lack of insight. Reasons may have some
truth in them but ignores the fact that he needs help. Examples: Cussing
someone will get them to do what we want. Laying on a horn in a traffic
jam will change the situations.
6. Over-reaction: " Know all the answers." Has a lot of resentments
towards other people or things. Anger; "blows up" over nothing. Often cops
out by saying or implying, "after all, I'm an alcoholic".
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