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DeepModem Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:40 AM
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A new book tries to make sense of the gripping, grating psychodrama that is the Clintons' marriage.
Newsweek: Not Really Feeling It
A new book tries to make sense of the gripping, grating psychodrama that is the Clintons' marriage.
By Jonathan Darman
Oct 22, 2007 Issue

Never mind the man she's married to, Hillary Clinton isn't big on feelings. "Unthinking emotion," she wrote a friend in college, "has always been pitiful to me." In "For Love of Politics," Sally Bedell Smith's new book on Bill and Hillary Clinton's marriage during their White House years, the First Lady is a woman determined not to surrender to emotion, even when her husband and the nation have. While President Clinton idles away an hour hugging his way through a rope line at a Democratic Leadership Council fund-raiser, his wife, backstage, waits patiently to depart. As the president admits on TV to an affair with Monica Lewinsky, the First Lady waits in the White House solarium and greets staffers with a smile. Chelsea, the dutiful daughter, tries hard to mimic mom: "Emotions aren't rational," she tells friends.

Now Senator Clinton is moving toward the Democratic presidential nomination, and emotions have little place in her campaign. Even discussions about her marriage, that gripping, grating psychodrama, come off as cerebral and qualified—when the candidate and her staff choose to have them at all. The Clintons' marriage is important, they say, because it gave her the unparalleled experience of seeing a presidency up close. Except not "up close" in the dynastic sense; Clinton, they say, is an accomplished senator and an independent woman. Except not "independent" in the separate-lives/marriage-of-convenience sense; theirs, they say, is in every way a real marriage. Either way, the Clintonites contend, all that is irrelevant now.

Smith does not agree. A biographer who's written on Pamela Harriman, Princess Diana and Jackie and Jack Kennedy, she has a keen instinct for history made inside of marriages. She knows the irrational is often most important. Her book is narrower than other recent Clinton biographies, which deal with the nuts and bolts of her career, but is perhaps more relevant. Certainly, it is more subversive. Homing in on "the push and pull" between them and their love of politics, Smith presents a story Clinton isn't eager to remember: how her marriage made and then nearly wrecked her career.

Smith's Hillary Clinton wants only to be a public woman, a wonk and a warrior for the Clintons' noble causes. Arriving in the White House, she and her husband make her status clear; staffers call her "the Supreme Court," mindful that the First Lady had the final say. She strives for cool detachment, but her husband's coterie sees the cracks. They are "wimps," she tells them in tirades, men who "don't have balls" and "don't know how to fight." (Neither Clinton talked to Smith.) Quickly, her real target emerges, the president himself. "She knew how to push his buttons," a senior official tells Smith.

The president seeks comfort, often in the wrong places....

http://www.newsweek.com/id/43362
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DemocratSinceBirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:47 AM
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1. Ha
"In that scenario, the Clinton campaign would work hard to move beyond the "unthinking emotion" that burnished Giuliani's 9/11 image, focusing instead on the mayor's real record. It will not be a simple task. Emotions aren't rational, but they do count."

Here we go:



http://www.rudy-urbanlegend.com/


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ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:48 AM
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2. We've already experienced that "she warrior" routine with Ms Thathcher, we don't want an American
Edited on Mon Oct-15-07 09:54 AM by ShortnFiery
version of that vicious, old swaggering WAR HORSE realized in HRC. :thumbsdown: :(

Who can forget? "Don't get wobbly on me Ronnie?" :puke: :nuke:



What Britain needs is an iron lady. Margaret Thatcher

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mrreowwr_kittty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:50 AM
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3. Has any male pres. candidate ever had a book written about his MARRIAGE?!?!
:banghead:
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:58 AM
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7. Probably not, altho FDR 's and Abraham Lincoln's bios came close.
I recall "Franklin and Eleanor" but that may have been a TV miniseries. I have it on video, great stuff, just wonderful!
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question everything Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:07 AM
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18. And they were written long after they left the White House (nt)
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OHdem10 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:53 AM
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4. These people who obsess over the Clinton Marriage
are revolting.

They gave GWB. Supposedly he and Laura have
an ideal marriage.


What happened to the country under Clinton??
What happened to the country under Bush.

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durrrty libby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:01 AM
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9. Yes the marriage obsessors are the ultimate low-life bottom feeders
Unfortunately they are not all repukes. There are so-called dems

who enjoy riding the cesspool
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groovedaddy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:53 AM
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5. Hell, I have enough trouble figuring out my own marriage
why I would I want to try and unravel someone else's (unless I were a therapist)?
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DeepModem Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 09:54 AM
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6. A very good point! nt
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:00 AM
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8. It may be in book form... but I consider this tabloid BS.
Thanks for posting it!

:sarcasm:
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DeepModem Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:08 AM
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10. It appears in Newsweek, and I posted it, as I do quite a few things...
because I think it's important to know what's out there. And, for what it's worth, I'm not a participant in candidate wars here. I post articles, pro and con, about all the candidates.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:15 AM
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11. There's a lot of BS in Newsweek. No surprise there.
This isn't con... this is BS.

But hey, if you think it merits discussion, have at it. I'm sure some here would agree.
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DeepModem Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:45 AM
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12. I think your branding the book BS is an important point to be made...
and one I agree with.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:47 AM
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13. Sorry if I seemed snappy with you...
I'm all for discussion of serious issues / actual criticism... but this kinda stuff... ugh! :P

:hi:
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DeepModem Mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 11:14 AM
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17. No prob!
:)
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DemocratSinceBirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:50 AM
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14. JFK And FDR Were "Playas" And Fine Presidents
And, it's not even Senator Clinton who was unfaithful...
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cuke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:53 AM
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15. Just another right-winger calling Hillary "cold"
and some "progressives" will eat it up

And if she shows any emotion, I'm sure the author will write a new book portraying her as a hysterical female

and some "progressives" will eat it up


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Bitwit1234 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-15-07 10:58 AM
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16. Wonder why so many bash Hillary books
bet they would publish so many crack pots bashing bush. I know damn well there are plenty who would write them. But then the republican owned publishing houses wouldn't publish.
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calteacherguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:22 AM
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19. Get this crap off the freeping DU server, please!
:puke:

Sounds like the freeping National Enquirer
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incapsulated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:33 AM
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20. aahahaha
They are "wimps," she tells them in tirades, men who "don't have balls" and "don't know how to fight."


Sounds like me on a bad day.

:P
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Cameron27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:36 AM
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21. It's hard enough knowing a marriage from the inside
looking out, and impossible to know anything at all looking from the outside in. Where the hell's the indept examination of Mr. & Mrs. Chimp?
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incapsulated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:37 AM
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22. No one *wants* know
Do they?

Yikes, that is one fucked up family.
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Cameron27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 01:48 AM
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23. Yeah, he's only the f'n president,
I swear if the idiot took a crap on the White House lawn, the press would report how nice it smelled.
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Perry Logan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 06:19 AM
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24. To put it in perspective: Darman is the guy who finds Romney "buff and handsome."
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Adelante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 07:00 AM
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25. I'd rather know less than more about people's marriages
Especially in politics. What's important is how they govern. Whether they're hot people or cold people, meh, who gives a shit. Who cares where they find comfort? I don't care if FDR found it in his wheelchair with Missy Lehand or JFK found it in the swimming pool with Fiddle and Faddle. It's none of my business. The New Deal and the Cuban Missile Crisis, that's my business.
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sufrommich Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-18-07 07:14 AM
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26. It's an historical fact, all great political leaders have
perfect marriages and all their children are adorable.
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