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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 04:59 PM
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I personally find a pivotal difference between Bill and Hillary
Bill Clinton earned the nickname "Slick Willie," but I felt he had to be to beat the Republicans. In a word they were just jealous because he kept outsmarting them. One could say that Karl Rove is a responsive product to Bill Clinton's "slickness." But this aspect about Pres. Clinton didn't bother me, in fact I applauded it, because there was so much more to the man and that was just his adept political fencing skills in action. Bill is exceptionally intelligent and genuinely personable. Hillary is smart, but not gifted like her husband (who is?), and she just doesn't strike me as being genuinely warm and friendly, though it does appear that she's been working on it (so much for the genuine part). Of the 3 qualities mentioned about Bill, the quality that comes through strongest with Hillary is the slickness part. Calculating is a better word. Yes, it's necessary for succeeding in politics, but it's a problem when it becomes the most evident characteristic, and that's one of the biggest problems I have with Sen. Clinton.
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The_Casual_Observer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:04 PM
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1. And you know this how? Your impressions are based on sound bites
or on a personal visit with them? So, more importantly, based on your personal observations, who would you most like to have beer with?
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:10 PM
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3. I didn't say I know this. It's merely an observation.
But, yes, I did have the privilege of shaking their hands, seeing them up close, and hearing them speak in person. These are my impressions. The beer part of your response doesn't make sense to me. Sorry. Over my head, I guess.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:25 PM
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7. you might want to change your screen name. n/t
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:31 PM
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22. lol...I don't worry about it.
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:06 PM
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2. You know, I haven't heard anybody complain that Gravel isn't "warm and friendly."
How about Dodd? Great guy -- is he "warm and friendly" enough?

Rightwingers, who started the slams against Hillary Clinton, sure don't complain about Rudy not being "warm and friendly," oddly enough.

:shrug:
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:19 PM
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5. There are a lot of rightwingers who don't like Rudy.
And I shouldn't have to remind you that having trouble coming across genuinely affable, real or imagined, is just one of countless characteristics we look at in our candidates. Rudy, for example, comes across--according to many rightwingers--as having questionable moral standards. I wouldn't apply this to Hillary. To give another example, Thompson comes across as being somewhat lazy. I wouldn't apply this to Hillary or Rudy. So just because I find Hillary to be a little too cold and calculating for my tastes doesn't mean I should have to say the same of other candidates for it to be a legitimate opinion.
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 06:13 PM
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12. My point is that "warm and friendly" isn't something we look for in male candidates.
We don't look for it, expect it, or remark upon it if it's not there.

Instead, they can come off strong, commanding, macho, even gruff -- and it's okay. It's tricky for a woman to portray that same strength and toughness without people saying she's cold or unlikeable, bitchy or shrill, etc. Or, that she isn't warm and friendly.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 06:54 PM
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14. I disagree. I supported Wes Clark in 2004 and he came across as genuinely...
very warm and friendly. Do you disagree? Maybe it's just me, but he strikes me as a real nice guy.
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 08:24 PM
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26. Perhaps I wasn't clear.
It's not something noted in the negative for men. Its absence is not noted among men.

Yes, it can be there as a positive, but isn't required in the same way.

(For the record, you don't have to sell me on General Clark in any way whatsoever!!)
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 11:50 PM
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34. I guess that's just a matter of opinion. It's an important characteristic I look for...
in men and women. I'll give you this, I think I understand the point that you're making and I think it's probably true in many respects. It's a quality that, when absent in female politicians, has a greater negative impact than when absent in male politicians. In a male it may be perceived as stoicism where as in a female it may be perceived as cold and unfeeling. My upbringing has taught me to always be careful to keep myself in check on these matters, and I make a conscience effort to do so. I'm certainly human and make more than my share of mistakes, but my opinion on Sen. Clinton was formed very carefully. I am not a sexist. I certainly don't hate her. I think she's very intelligent and competent. But I also feel very confident that the Clintons planned in advance to move to New York so that Hillary could run for the Senate seat, not because she had a burning passion to serve the people of New York, as it ideally should be. Hell, there's no particular reason that I can see why she would feel driven to help the people of New York. However, I do believe they planned to move to New York, have Hillary run for the Senate seat in order to position herself to run for president. It's ambitious and they've succeeded at every step, and now they're closing in on the final goal. I'm impressed with their political skill, but this is my country they are stepping on as they climb their ladder to the top and I, for one, don't appreciate it. If they succeed in their ultimate goal, they will do so without my help.
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karynnj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 06:54 PM
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15. That is not true - people said of Kerry and Gore that they were not warm and friendly enough
Kerry actually is by the accounts of many who know him well and was my impression when I met him with other JK group people. I know people who have met Gore and they claim he is as well.

There are many things that are sexist, this one isn't. (Calling her aggressive, where a male would be aalled assertive is one.)
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 08:25 PM
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27. I thought the criticism was that they were "stiff and wooden"
and not a "regular guy" like the Bush Boy.

Maybe I'm wrong, though. :shrug:
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shimmergal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 11:28 PM
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32. Actually, "warm and friendly" has some
relationbship to being affable, and to coming across as optimistic. I believe we _do_ look for this in male candidates as well. In fact, in almost all recent presidential elections, the candidate who appeared to most have these qualities won. (In some elections neither party's candidate had them!)
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bullimiami Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:13 PM
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4. i think bill and hill are 2 peas in a pod politically.
im hoping if she gets elected she wont repeat the huge mistakes bill made ie media dereg, welfare 'reform', nafta and on and on...

talk about moderates, that is them, too far to the right for my taste and a little too cozy with big business.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:20 PM
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6. I think that's a fair assessment.
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:26 PM
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8. And Dennis Kucinich
is just a warm and fuzzy personality explosion.

People have every right to dislike Hillary for her policy positions, but there's a big double standard here when it comes to character assassination. She is no more or less warm and friendly or calculating than Obama, Edwards, Kucinich, Dodd or Gravel.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:06 PM
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16. Where's the double standard?
And I don't believe you, or anyone else, are in a position to tell me, or anyone else, where my rights begin and end on reasons for not supporting Hillary Clinton. When you say "she is no more or less warm and friendly or calculating than Obama, Edwards, Kucinich, Dodd or Gravel," that's your opinion. I'm not going to attack you for it, nor should you attack me for expressing mine.
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:32 PM
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24. I don't see where
I'm attacking you. I gave you my opinion, as well.
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 05:38 PM
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9. Once you can fake sincerity, you've got it made? nt
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:08 PM
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17. I don't know. I can't claim to know that she is faking it.
That's just my impression.
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splat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 06:00 PM
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10. I think what they say is to get elected; then any Dem has to be FDR
Rescuing most people from poverty (from oil costs, health costs, mortgage costs, loan costs, whatever) and ending the war hemorrhage will occupy the next Dem President.
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chaumont58 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 06:13 PM
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11. Both completed Yale Law in the same year. She finished 2nd in that class
He finish 3rd in that class. Tough to compare the two from that but, certainly, neither is a dummy.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:10 PM
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19. Agreed.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 06:46 PM
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13. Apparently Bill was so well read he wasn't great at making decisions. He'd talk
and talk with experts and be slow or wafflely on the decisions. Hillary would be better at that. She'd listen to the best experts in the world and then decide. Nobody has ever accussed her of being "too smart". But they have said that about Bill.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:24 PM
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20. Good example. Again, this is just my opinion (I guess I have to keep stating that.)
but if Bill waffles--and frankly I don't associate him with that characteristic--it may well be because he's so deeply analyzing the situation. Hillary, whom has recently done this for all to see, seems to be tiptoeing through a minefield, very skillfully I might add, and is only caught waffling when asked a question that she hasn't formulated an answer to yet.

For example, on the issue of drivers licenses for illegal immigrants, I got the strong impression that she was for it, but was refusing to state that she was for it because it was a politically unpopular position. I prefer a candidate to just say how they feel, make their argument, and live with it. Is that so unreasonable?
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-12-07 02:55 PM
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38. Not unreasonable at all. I got the impression she wasn't prepared for
that question and didn't want to answer it. I wish she had just said "well this is a new policy in my state and I'll have to think about it".

I don't think Clinton waffled in public. Just behind the sceens.
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cuke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:10 PM
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18. "One could say that Karl Rove is a responsive product to Bill Clinton's "slickness."
One could say that, but then one would be wrong

Rove has been around a long time.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:30 PM
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21. True that Rove has been around for a long time...
but his rise to eminency in the Repub. Party didn't happen until Bill Clinton's in the Democratic Party.
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cuke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:53 PM
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25. That's not true either
Rove was *. He rose as * rose.
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ginchinchili Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-12-07 01:20 AM
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35. I'm not sure what you mean by * , but my statement is accurate.
And besides, I believe I said, "It can be said..." or something to that effect. You're trying to obfuscate my primary point about Hillary by taking this statement too literally even though I prefaced it in a way that most people would understand that it shouldn't be taken so literally. Old trick. Doesn't work for most of us.
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mtnsnake Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 07:31 PM
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23. I think Hillary is tougher than Bill, but she can give you wood just the same.
That's the biggest difference IMO.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 08:34 PM
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29. LOL
:rofl:
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gulliver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 08:30 PM
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28. I think a Hillary presidency is going to be a lot better than Bill's
Bill didn't follow a dangerous imbecile on whom the Republicans had lost their whole political stake like Hillary will. Hillary will come in with a true mandate for change. There will be no question about her winning because of a third party Perot. The country will be ravenous for health care reform. The balance will be restored in the enforcement of existing laws. The right has been tried and has failed miserably. Bill had no such luxury.

Watch for NAFTA to be revisited. Watch for media ownership diversification. Watch the health care plan.

I have high hopes. Hillary will surround herself with brilliant, effective, sane people just like Bill did. America will be back on its feet in the eyes of the world. None too soon.
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 08:38 PM
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30. For any president, it'll depend a lot on a strong majority in Congress, too.
That may make more of a difference than which Democrat becomes president.
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w4rma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 08:47 PM
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31. Clinton squandered the last Democratic majority on NAFTA and gun control. (nt)
Edited on Sun Nov-11-07 08:47 PM by w4rma
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cuke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-11-07 11:36 PM
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33. People who don't like free trade voted for repukes?
You've got to be kidding?
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w4rma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-12-07 07:38 AM
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36. Yes. They voted on social issues instead of economic issues after getting stabbed in the back. (nt)
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electron_blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-12-07 09:04 AM
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37. Funny, I always had the impression she was the smarter one and behind
many of his political tactics and 'slickness' over the years.
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