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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:45 PM
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So, After Speaking With My Fiancee, It Became Clear Why Hillary Won
Women are going to vote for Hillary until she's out of the race.

My fiancee's best friend lives in New Hampshire. She's 26 years old and is a big-time Democrat. She's as liberal as they come.

She voted for Hillary.

Why?

Because she's a woman.

My fiancee is supporting Hillary.

Why?

Because she's a woman. It's that simple. She likes Obama. But she wants to see a woman president.

My mother is supporting Hillary.

Why?

Because she's a woman. She told me tonight that "it's time we had a woman president."


If Obama can't split the women vote, it won't matter how many young people he brings in. It won't matter how many independents he gets. If he gets beat by 10+ points among women, he won't beat Hillary very often.

It's that simple.

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TwilightZone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:46 PM
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1. Obama won the female vote in Iowa.
How does that fit in?
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:48 PM
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exactly
he split, at least, the female vote there. that's what he has to do to win.

If he can't do that, like what happened tonight, he won't be able to win, no matter how well he does among independents and young people.
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...of J.Temperance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:53 PM
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16. Re. Independents
Don't forget we've got a large number of states coming up soon, where Independents can't vote in our Primaries.

That's where Hillary will surge forward, because Democrats are FOR an EXPERIENCED candidate, women and Hispanics and African-Americans are for Hillary, not just women....the ONLY reason why Obama won Iowa was because he won the majority of Independent votes, what demographic does Obama have, he has the under 25's and they're the least likely to go out and vote in a General Election.

If one took the Independents out of the Iowa vote, Obama wouldn't have won Iowa.
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TwilightZone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:54 PM
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18. He probably doesn't need to split it. Just do reasonably well.
He lost women to Clinton 47-30 in New Hampshire, yet he's only going to lose overall by perhaps 2%. So, he doesn't necessarily need to split it, but he definitely needs to do better than losing by 17%.

Perhaps as significant an issue is the independents. He won't have them available to "assist" in closer primaries.
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NewYorkerfromMass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:28 AM
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43. Caucus voters
may be a very different sample than primary voters.
Not every single mom can make it to a caucus.
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Egnever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:51 AM
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57. that was before hillary cried
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:46 PM
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2. how did Obama do w/ women in Iowa? n/t
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:47 PM
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3. Well, here's one woman who prefers Edwards or Obama.
And I'm not the only one.
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Cha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:01 AM
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29. Cause we think
deeper than "woman for president, yay!"
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:03 AM
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31. Bingo.
I happen to like Edwards' positions on most things more than I like Clinton's. The candidates' reproductive plumbing will not determine my vote.
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:48 AM
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54. Me, too, ocelot. Hillary is my last choice.
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AX10 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:47 PM
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4. Obama won the female vote in Iowa.
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Kittycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:47 PM
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5. Well, I'm not voting for her. /nt
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JI7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:47 PM
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6. no, because Obama won the female vote in Iowa
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...of J.Temperance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:47 PM
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7. Considering so many countries
Have elected female leaders, countries from Sri Lanka to Pakistan to the United Kingdom to New Zealand to Germany....I THINK it's BEYOND time that the United States moved forward and like got WITH the program and elected a female President.
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Kazak Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 08:23 AM
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60. Yeah, but...
it's also way beyond time for America to sign the Kyoto treaty, to "legalize it", to abolish the Electoral College, etc...noticing a trend? :shrug:
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greyl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:48 PM
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8. I think your sample was too small. ;) nt
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:48 PM
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9. Women do not vote as a bloc. Never have and won't. Voting conditions in Iowa discouraged female...
voters, especially older ones: at night, in the dark and voters with kids didn't show up either for the same reasons.
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Anouka Donating Member (712 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:52 AM
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58. but not all women are created equal
in the media, and to the party.
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Jane Austin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:49 PM
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10. I've been a woman for many years now,
and I'm not for Hillary.
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bigdarryl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:49 PM
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11. kind of sad to be voting for someone because of there gender
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NOLALady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:49 PM
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12. I'm a woman who does not support HRC.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:49 PM
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13. Well, some people are voting for Obama because they like hip-hop.
Seriously. I heard some guy on the Stephanie Miller show saying he likes hip-hop and that is why he is voting for Obama.
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Anouka Donating Member (712 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:50 AM
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55. That makes no sense whatsoever.
Not least because of strong black reluctance to initially back Obama, and that includes members of black hip hop. I remember I was surprised last week to hear backpack rap darling Lupe Fiasco had officially come out in support of Hillary Clinton.

But mostly because it sounds like 'code' talk.

Maybe somebody was pulling your Stephanie Miller's leg trying to be funny.

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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 08:15 AM
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59. I don't know. But I thought it was completely ridiculous.
He did blurt out at the end that he also liked that Obama admitted to smoking pot.



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Barack_America Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:49 PM
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14. I'm a woman and I'm not voting for Hillary. n/t
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Hobarticus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:52 PM
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15. You're the one that's simple...Obama won Iowa women
Edited on Tue Jan-08-08 11:58 PM by Hobarticus
Get at least a handful of facts right, before you announce the results of your scientific polling of....three women.
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143tbone Donating Member (468 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:54 PM
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17. It amazes me that being a female or being black is even a factor
in this election. There have been such horrific things going on in this world because of the neocons and Republicans that are running this country that I would think the only thing to be considered in this race is whether or not the candidate cares about the American people--all American people--not just the upper classes. Being female or black is not a consideration with me. I just want someone to save America--and the rest of the world in the process.
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ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:59 PM
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25. People want complete change... including a change in the physical appearance
that we've all grown accustomed to with our presidents.
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lapfog_1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:55 PM
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19. That is something I will never understand...
"It's that simple. She likes Obama. But she wants to see a woman president."

So if, FSM forbid, Sec of State Rice was running for President... she might attract a significant following of DEMOCRATIC women voters, just because they want to see a woman president.

If I said something like... "I like Hillary, but I want to see a man as President so I'm voting for Edwards", I would be castigated for being a misogynistic asshole... but it's OK for women to vote for Hillary, even though they don't like her record or her positions as much as other candidates.

Whatever.
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ncliberal Donating Member (131 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:56 PM
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20. I'm a woman and I'm voting for Edwards.
Edited on Tue Jan-08-08 11:57 PM by ncliberal
My mom and sister are also voting for Edwards.
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wiley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:56 PM
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21. So young people can't be women?
Can Independents be women or can women be Independents.

Would you do a Venn diagram for me?

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laconicsax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:11 AM
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34. Don't you know?
'Young people' are all male and vote the same
'Independents' are all male who don't all vote the same (that's why they're 'independent').
'Women' are not male.
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Bumblebee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:57 PM
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22. and every time she is dissed by her male opponents who, like Edwards,
was basically suggesting that she should get out of the way so that the two men can settle it between them, the women's vote is going to multiply. Because under our collective breath many of us are saying, "You go, girl! Show these bastards!" And that's exactly what happened in NH.
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ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:58 PM
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23. You may be right. My mom said the same thing nt
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laconicsax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:58 PM
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24. Newsflash! Women don't all vote the same.
They're not some monolithic block of voters. Women constitute about 51% of the population here in the US, and their votes and voting rationale are equally as diverse as those of men. I doubt that your mother, fiancee and fiancee's friend are representative of all women any more than you, your father, and a couple of your friends are of all men.
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THUNDER HANDS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:00 AM
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27. it's not a question of being monolithic
it's a question of majorities.

A 15-point margin among any one group - especially if it's a group that dominates 57-43 overall - is insurmountable.
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laconicsax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:13 AM
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37. Where is your evidence of this national 15-point margin?
Edited on Wed Jan-09-08 12:13 AM by laconicsax
A simple link will do.
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Auntie Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-08-08 11:59 PM
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26. I'm a woman and I'm voting for Hillary but not just because she's a woman.
I like what she has done all her life and she's always been liberal. I think she will surprise a lot of people and be much more liberal than she seems. She has to sound more centrist in order to win the general Election. After she's president...she can go back to being more liberal. Just you wait and see.
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:09 AM
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33. She hasn't always been liberal.
From her website:

"Hillary Rodham had always been interested in politics, and now she took an active role in the school government. For a time she served as President of the College Republicans."

http://www.hillary-rodham-clinton.org/education.html
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Auntie Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:13 AM
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36. What...she wasn't liberal when she was in kindergarten?
Obviously I meant as an adult...not a college kid. Also she doesn't want
to scare the Republicans away.
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:18 AM
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39. No need for snark.
It wasn't obvious by your post.

College kids are adults, too.

I didn't say she didn't change, but she wasn't ALWAYS liberal. Just sayin'.
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Auntie Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:23 AM
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41. Sorry, that was suppose to be a joke...not snark.
I personally thought it was pretty funny...but I guess I have a weird sense of humor.
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:25 AM
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42. Sorry.
Hard to tell with all the warring going on here.

:hi:
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Andromeda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:32 AM
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46. I thought it was funny too,
so I guess my sense of humor is pretty weird too. :)
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Andromeda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:30 AM
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45. Where's your sense of humor?
Geez, lighten up a little.
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:43 AM
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50. Thanks for jumping into something that was straightened out.
:hi:

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Pastiche423 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:29 AM
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44. Scare republics away?


I can not believe you typed that!

OMFG!
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Andromeda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:35 AM
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48. Uh, you just don't get it.
There will be some Repubs who will vote for Hillary too. It happens in every election. People do cross over and why shouldn't they. Their vote is as good as any other.
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Pastiche423 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:45 AM
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52. Did you sleep through the 90's?
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:47 AM
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53. She's always been liberal?
On what planet?
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democrat2thecore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:00 AM
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28. Something nobody really anticipated - at least of this magnitude.
If it's like this from here on out - we can just go ahead and coronate her now. As an Obama supporter I find this troubling - if not understandable.
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Cha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:03 AM
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30. Well, IF and that's
a mighty big IF..she wins then I hope she doesn't disappoint them.
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regnaD kciN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:03 AM
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32. By contrast, my mother...
...who was the first Democratic voter in a family of Republicans, marched (while in her 50s) along with college kids in opposition to Nixon and Vietnam, and has always made a point of voting straight-ticket Democratic, says she will never vote for Hillary. If HRC's the nominee, she says, my mom will vote down-ticket and leave the presidential choice blank, even if her vote could decide the election.

And my wife, who has said that she'll vote for the Green Party candidate if Hillary's the nominee.

Both these women are as progressive as they come, but they won't vote for someone they can't trust...and they've both decided they can't trust Hillary.

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Andromeda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:40 AM
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49. That's their right.
But if they want to elect the right candidate they're going to have to do some soul-searching themselves to examine their own motives.

Hillary isn't going to try to change their minds and neither am I. Hillary will win or lose on her own merits and that has nothing to do with somebody elses ideas about who's deserving or not.
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youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:12 AM
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35. Damn. I didn't get the memo...I accidentally realigned for Obama
at my caucus. I didn't know I was supposed to realign for Hillary. Bad youthere! Bad!
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ursi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:15 AM
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38. women must support sending their kids to war?
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:20 AM
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40. Then where's my penis?
I'm not supporting Hillary, and yet last I checked I was a woman.

Guess what? We can make our own choices based on more than the gender of the candidate.
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Auntie Bush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 10:01 AM
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61. Naybe Leona Bobbit got it. Look in your pocket.!
LOL Couldn't resist.

However, every women does have a brain and is free to use it.
Women are smart and wouldn't vote for a women unless she was deserving.
On the other hand, women shouldn't refuse to vote for a women just because she was female.

Yes, People change! I actually voted for Raygun! Please don't beat me!
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Little Star Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:33 AM
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47. The boys should not have helped her by tag teaming &..
the media should not have pummeled her. Gloria and other women who are old enough to remember back in the the day had to tell their daughters about the movement. The media & the boys left no choice but for women to say, Hell NO we won't sit down and shut-up. Glad they all did what they should not have.:)
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Samantha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:44 AM
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51. I am a woman and I am not voting for her
and I am not alone.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-09-08 12:51 AM
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56. Are those the only three women you know?
You need to get out more. We're slightly more than half of the population. And we think as differently among ourselves as men do.
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