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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:34 AM
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OK Just asking - What is Hillary teaching our young women? Win at ALL cost? Is that a good thing?
When I look at the comments coming from Hillary Clinton surrogates lately I am personally offended by the comments of her not being a pansy and that she has the testicular fortitude to win. It is one thing to be an assertive and passionate woman who stays with her message and goes for the high ground in order to win, and another to play into the "I am just as tough as any beer drinking, whisking slugging man".

Our young women need role models, not references of "Rocky" punching out the opponent. After seeing how girls are turning to that type of message here in Florida just a few weeks ago with punching out a captive and putting it on My Space isn't it time to rethink these messages?

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Photo courtesy of About.com

Hillary's 'Testicular Fortitude' Touted During Clinton Rally

Huffington Post April 30, 2008

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/04/30/hillarys-testicular-forti_n_99508.html

Hillary Clinton took some heat yesterday from gay rights groups when her top surrogate in North Carolina said she made Rocky Balboa look like a "pansy." Well, she's likely to hear from feminists after a labor leader, introducing her at a rally today, said the nation needed a leader "that has testicular fortitude":

While defending Bill Clinton's role in the passage of NAFTA, Paul Gipson, president of a steelworkers local, said that union members need to look forward, and support a leader who can work to amend and improve provisions in the trade agreement.


"I truly believe that that's going to take an individual that has testicular fortitude," he said. "That's exactly right. That's what we gotta have."

Clinton, standing behind Gipson, smiled sheepishly before breaking into a nervous laugh. Gipson continued by slamming unnamed "Gucci-wearing, latte-drinking, self-centered, egotistical people that have damaged our lifestyle," before endorsing and introducing Clinton.

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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:39 AM
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1. To fight for what they want and believe in?
Something which women have had to do for the last 100 years or so to even make their voices heard. And your Photoshopped clip of Hillary holding an assault rifle is pathetic.
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vi5 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:44 AM
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3. I think the picture is part of the point....
I think it's from a supporter and meant to be somehow a favorable, complimentary thing. The OP states its from another source in the post. I think the OP is making the point that this type of overcompensation is a bad message to be sending. So if you agree that the picture is pathetic then I'm sure you agree with the point.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:47 AM
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5. No, I do not agree with your point
This is exactly what the RW spin has been for years about women
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:00 AM
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13. The graphic is not my interpretation - it is what is HRC's message has created.
This is what our young women are seeing in this "role" model. If you go on the web you will find 100's of these macho images. This is just one. I believe it is time to tone it down before the "grudge" match goes to Denver.

Enough!

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Window Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:16 AM
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70. Just like that stupid gag gift of a hillary nut cracker I received as a
stocking stuffer Christmas. hillary cracks nuts...great role model.
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Johnny Battleground Donating Member (90 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 11:34 AM
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118. Wrong. 100% Wrong.
If you have a chance to win the nomination and the opponent has self destructed, you would be stupid to quit.
Winners show grit when things are tight. then they find a way to win.
In this case Obama handed "The Way" (his head) on a platter.

Obama was given a pass for months, and after he got a lead, a torpedo sunk his ship.
We need swing voters and he has lost them. Thank Wright.
Obama named a book after a passage by... Wright.
He spent 20-years with... Wright.
He couldn't disown... Wright. (Te did just that a couple days ago.)
Obama isn't believable any longer, and...

Hope.
Change.
Unity.
...ring hollow now.

What's left?

Super Delegates Vote Hillary.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 01:34 PM
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121. really?
Tuzla
Robocalls
Fox News
Endorsements from Rednecks: Anne Coulter, Rush Limbaugh, Fox news, et al

She's no dem and the SD's are leaving her because of it.
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:29 AM
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104. Well said.
:thumbsup:
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PoliticalAmazon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:47 AM
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109. Don't forget the faux victimhood and blubbering to get her way. n/t
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 01:32 PM
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120. To lie and use your femaleness to do what it take. Tears anyone?
Tuzla? Robocalls? Pansies, testicles. Do anything but be a woman. That is what she is teaching girls. Too bad.
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:42 AM
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2. A good point, I'm not entirely sure we have a female candidate running anymore
Edited on Thu May-01-08 07:19 AM by frickaline
As a female and a Wellesley grad, I was very, VERY excited about the prospect of a female president. And don't get me wrong, if Hillary wins the primary I will support her. BUT ... she's starting to really blur her own gender identity. Each day she divorces another piece of her femininity for her greater goal. Is this a sad but necessary reality for female candidates? Or is this just some kind of warped political tactic that she didn't really need? Either way its a bit bitter on the tongue. I don't think she should be making an issue of gender at all but she can't seem to stop it.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:46 AM
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4. Each day she divorces another piece of her femininity for her greater goal.
Exactly what anti womens right groups and RWers have been saying for years about those of us who try to pave the way for younger women. Nice for you to reiterate their talking points.
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:55 AM
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9. Since when does a feminist require you to pave her way?
Tell me something, do you find it necessary for a woman to be a man to succeed? Because I don't. She doesn't need 'testicular fortitude' nor does she need an absense of 'pansy'. She only needs to be herself.

It makes me sick that you'd defend her for trying to become something she isn't. You can wield power AND be female. You don't need testicles to do this job.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:32 AM
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37. In case you hadn't still noticed
this is still a mans world. If it takes fighting like a man to get the job done, then that is what it takes. If that makes you sick, fine and dandy. I am proud that we finally have a female that will stand up to the BS that male politicians have been dishing out to us for the last 200 years. Please, continue playing the wounded female. At 65, I passed that stage at 19
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:44 AM
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52. sorry if I'm too idealistic for you
Edited on Thu May-01-08 08:12 AM by frickaline
'fighting like a man' ... that just doesn't fly for me. How about just 'fighting' instead?

Please note that I'm not commenting on Hillary or her campaign as a whole but simply her recent use of male imagery and language. The fact that she feels she needs to portray herself as a man to win is ridiculous, as is your assumption that she needs this crutch.

I thought as you did once upon a time, but I grew out of that. We don't need to be men to succeed.
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dansolo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:47 PM
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130. Wouldn't "fighting like a man" imply that women aren't good enough to become president?
If Hillary needs to be more like a man in order to be elected, doesn't that reinforce the stigma that women have been fighting against that they are somehow too weak to become President. I believe that Hillary's campaign has actually raised the bar for the next woman who wants to run for president.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 01:37 PM
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122. she lies. she doesn't apologize. that is not decent, not good, not
presidential. that is bush.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:35 AM
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43. What sexist shit.
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:40 AM
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48. you also miss the point
Edited on Thu May-01-08 08:20 AM by frickaline
There is no gender required.

She is pandering to the sexist male audience and I can't stand it.

(And rather than discuss the issue, you sink to some pretty poor tactics I might add, how mature)

I can't believe the uneducated world we live in where it is sexist for a women to be proud to be a women.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:16 AM
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68. Exactly the point - I think this has gone too far! Enough!
We need to stop this I believe before the convention. I think it is spilling over into the campaign supporters and it is getting very divisive.

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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:52 AM
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7. Exactly - I believe women should be more assertive then bullying.
I have had some women bosses who were fantastic! They reasoned with their opponents and showed by example! This is the kind of woman that succeeds with honor!

:thumbsup:
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:57 AM
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11. correction - you mean to say EVERYONE should be more assertive than bullying.
there definitely no need for gender on that one :)
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:10 AM
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20. Fine I give you that but we are talking about the impact of HRC on this post.
:)
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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:34 AM
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41. Which is why you crossed a line
You don't think that Obama has also stooped to some pretty low points in his campaign? See, since I am a supporter of neither, I can see that each has pandered, each has played the race/gender cards when it suited them, and each has gone negative in their own way.

For you to focus exclusively on what Clinton has taught those poor widdle girsl who might think it's ok to be a tough as brass balls chick after the Clinton campaign reveals more about you than you realize.
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:48 AM
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55. ?
I'm not firmly planted in either campaign myself so before you get all up in arms over an agenda, I haven't got one. Since this thread wasn't about Obama, I didn't feel the need to mention him.

Actually, I agree with you that both have played these cards, my point is simply that they shouldn't.
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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:54 AM
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59. No offense intended, my post was directed at 1776
:)
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:55 AM
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60. oops sorry my mistake
Edited on Thu May-01-08 07:55 AM by frickaline
:)
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:17 AM
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72. This is NOT my line - This is what is out there! n/t
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ChairmanAgnostic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:52 AM
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6. And what of Obama? How DARE he
teach young adults the value of honor, family, trust, integrity, honesty, and rational thinking - all the things that Team Clinton seems to avoid?

HOW DARE he display the audacity, nay, the arrogance of hope and pride in one's good deeds?

HOW DARE he show respect, love, and admiration towards his wife and children, day in and day out?

HOW DARE he continue to keep above the fray, despite daily pummeling of slime, mud, lies, and bullshit from the likes of Hillary, Bill, Howard, Mark and others?
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:55 AM
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8. Thank you - I think this election is getting to be a grudge match & it should stop!
Where is it going to end? Will Rush get his riot in Denver?

:shrug:
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rtassi Donating Member (486 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:56 AM
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10. I don't know why it it so hard to understand ...
Politicians, are simply a mirror image of US. WE taught them how to be the way they are ... WE sent them there ... We got what We created ... WE should be the role models for them, Not the other way around ... If your waiting for "them" to change things, your in for a long wait! Our corruption as a people, our lack of governance amongst ourselves, has spawned the corruption in business, in politics, greed, hate, intolerance, and a lust for blood the world over!
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:05 AM
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17. I think it should come from the candidate myself - What we are seeing now is what we will see later
If she is pandering this kind of macho image then that is her call. I just don't think she is giving out the kind of image that I would want to have in a woman President. But with her vote on Iraq and the Kyle-Lieberman bill maybe that is what she really is inside. I think it is time to tone it down some and be assertive and not negative and bullying so much.
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KSinTX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:09 AM
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19. We grouse about their tactics then reward them with votes
I would add that it's more fear than corruption and these get played upon in big ways. We have seen it with the Bush administration and others past. We are now in a cycle that pits our two greatest fears against each other and look what's happening. Fear breeds the environment in which corruption thrives.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:13 AM
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23. Definitely and this goes back to what I am trying to get at - How far must she go to win?
Is this what we have come to for a woman Presidential candidate to have to became a male image of Rambo? It is disgusting to me that this powerful and intelligent woman has had to stoop to this! I think it will backfire in the end.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:28 AM
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34. Spoken like a true man
"Don't be a fighter, lady" "Don't show any guts" "Don't bully us guys or it will backfire on you"
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:19 AM
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74. I am not a man - and I think she is not being a woman when she bullies her way around! n/t
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rodeodance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 11:47 AM
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119. You have problems with a strong woman--so you demean her. Just like a bully would do.
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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:31 AM
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36. Oh baloney
Clinton hasn't done anything that every other serious male candidate for elected office has done before her. You apparently just can't stomach it because she is a woman and therefore in your mind comes off as "bullying".

Very telling, that remarkf of yours.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:33 AM
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39. Isn't it though?
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iamjoy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:58 AM
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12. Don't Step Aside For A Man
For every woman that was ever told she couldn't do something because she was a girl. For every woman who ever had to watch her brother or male classmates take precedence simply because of their gender, Hillary defies that.

If you believe in something, fight for it and don't give up no matter how hopeless things seem, and no matter who says you can't do it.

That is what she is telling women.

I prefer Obama, but I empathize with Hillary Clinton.

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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:02 AM
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15. Your opinion - I believe she has gone overboard with the Rocky, beer drinking, whisky slugging.
But you have a right to your opinion too.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:33 AM
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40. Sort of like male politicians do, eh?
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ErinBerin84 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:02 AM
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14. I remember in January
Joe Scarborough basically used to say that Hillary Clinton was an embarassment as a role model to his daughters. Even though I was an Obama supporter (I had way less issues with Hillary Clinton THEN then I do now), I remember that really pissing me off and thinking it was inappropriate. That's why Joe's sudden shift to being a spokeman for the opressed female voice and talking about "his girlfriend Hillary Clinton" is so funny to me.
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WildClarySage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:22 AM
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28. Yeah, I'm getting very tired of men telling young women who their role
models should be. There was a recent LTTE in our local paper praising an older woman retiree and calling her 'a wonderful role model for young ladies'... authored by a man. And patronizing... a woman who is a role model should be one for all people... or else she's not really what I consider a desirable role model.
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Dogmudgeon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:03 AM
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16. You guys are really freaking out
"Hillary, Corrupter of the Young and (gasp) She-Male!"

One week of bad news for your Savio(u)r, and you're mining the vein of your sexual anxieties.

--p!
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:07 AM
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18. Can you deny that if you go on the web you will find 100's of these type of images?
What is that saying to a young person? I just think it needs to be toned down!

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C_U_L8R Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:11 AM
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21. Lie
and you can lose too.
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:11 AM
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22. I think women should do what they have always done......
hidden away their intelligence and talents in order not to outshine the guys around them. Oh, and continue catering to their whims, cleaning up after them, making excuses for them, and raising all of their children. :sarcasm: ;)
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Iceburg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:17 AM
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24. I approve of your message.
Go Hillary Go.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:20 AM
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25. Of course - the sarcasm is right on - You can go too far both ways!
But Hillary has the intelligence and the fortitude to be her own woman! She doesn't have to turn herself into "Rocky" or "Rambo" to be admired. There are so many other ways to do it! :thumbsup:
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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:20 AM
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26. Seriously
I'm not even a Clinton supporter, but this shit is getting ridiculous.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:21 AM
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27. Your opinion - I think it is out there and should be discussed. n/t
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:25 AM
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32. Yea, don't fight for what you want, don't show any
"testicular fortitude" because that will just upset the men
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:52 AM
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56. And you don't wonder why her negatives just keep going up and up and up?


:yoiks:
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:24 AM
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78. They have stayed the same. Obama's have gone up
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Triana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:22 AM
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29. To Cheat like a Republican
YAY! :sarcasm:
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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:37 AM
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45. You really approve of this OP?
Have you seen some of the condescending remarks by the OP? And you really want to contribute to that without explaining to him why he's so far out of line? Partisan blinders, and some DUers I once thought were intelligent and fair are apparently wearing them.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:55 AM
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61. He is a She - and I don't think I am out of line - I think this needed to be said!
Hillary is out of line in my opinion. If you don't agree that is fine. Everyone should be able to place their opinions on the board. Not just those that are approving!
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hokies4ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:23 AM
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30. It's okay if your husband constantly cheats on you
just hold it over his head to further your professional career.
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aquarius dawning Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:23 AM
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31. I think your attempt to portray her as a weak role model for women is FUCKING weak.
Edited on Thu May-01-08 07:35 AM by aquarius dawning
Hillary Clinton is a champion for oppressed women here in the United States and throughout the entire world. Hillary is a champion to all women. From the woman in America who gets beaten and reduced to servitude to the woman in Pakistan who gets her feet chopped off as punishment for bogus crimes, Hillary is a champion and an outstanding role model for which they should all be proud.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:36 AM
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44. Proud - of course - Approving - Not since she turned the Rocky corner
If you can't see what this strategy of hers is doing to her image just go to the web. You can find 100's of Rambo - Rocky - wrestling characters on it. She and her campaign have done this to her. I feel it is time to tone it down!
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aquarius dawning Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:54 AM
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58. ...
I can respect that. I'll just give you this one man's perspective though for what it's worth. When you fight against monsters, you sometimes have to become a monster. The degree to which women are oppressed in this world (especially the sharia world) is monstorous. I personally don't want to see a lacey and frilly Hillary that embodies the feminine mystique. I want to see a Hillary that scares the living shit out of the monsters. In the end, however, she is what she is, and that ends up being good enough for me. As I said, I respect your position but, as a man who has spent 8 years in the infantry and who has been in more fights than I could possibly remember, I have to tell you, I like what I see. Strong of will, strong of character, strong of spirit. An unyielding persistence and tenacity and no concept of the words quit and surrender. These are attributes that anyone can admire, male or female as far as I'm concerned.
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hokies4ever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:49 AM
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113. What about the woman cheated on by her husband?
Role model indeed. Just tell him he owes you and he better help with your professional development. :rofl:
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:27 AM
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33. Don't Pay Any Attention to People Who Want You to Let the Guy Win
Edited on Thu May-01-08 07:27 AM by Crisco
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FlaGranny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:30 AM
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35. Hillary may be turning off more
male voters with this act. I remember an exchange quite some time ago on another completely nonpolitical board that I visit. There is a men's section there. Women are welcome to participate, but I learned one thing - the men do not like it when women act like "one of the boys." Not saying this is right or wrong, but it just "IS." These men would respect Hillary a lot more and would be a lot more likely to vote for her if she would stop this tough, macho act. Not saying all men would react this way, but from experience, many do.
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lastliberalintexas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:40 AM
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49. And men need to get the fuck over it
They already make more money, have easier ways to make business connections, own or control most large corporations and medium sized businesses and have far fewer social expectations. Now they also want to be able to tell me how to act? No thank you.
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Iceburg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:47 AM
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54. She won over alot of men in last nights interview doing what she does best
Standing tall, standing firm -- ready to return fire when fired upon.

People, men or women respect intelligence, strength and a tireless spirit. Hillary, excels in all three.

Obama in contrast appears weak, timid, unsure of himself -- a view shared by many -- both men and women.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:08 AM
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65. Point taken about Hillary - but that is what she should be stressing -
As far as Obama - just because you say he appears weak there is strength in honestly and integrity. That hopefully will mean something to those who want a REAL change in the White House!
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Iceburg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 09:50 AM
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98. "I could no more disown Rev Wright ..." On Integrity and Honesty..
Obama went on nation wide TV only weeks ago to explain his tethers to Rev Wright. Obama was applauded universally by his supporters for having the integrity to stand up for Rev Wright -- for doing the right thing.

So why is Obama denouncing Wright now? Why not 20 years ago? Why not 4 weeks ago when Rev Wright's sermons were be played 24/7?

Rev Wright did not say anything substantially different in his last few press conferences than the remarks he's made from behind his pulpit over the decades. In fact what we saw in Wrights recent appearances was a tamer, gentler Wright.

What changed? The damn poll numbers.

Obama's decision to act NOW on Rev Wright as opposed to 20 years ago, or 1 month ago can be largely attributed to the negative political pressure of down ballot tickets brought to bear on his campaign in the past few weeks. Axelrod, like a good campaign manager responded accordingly, and dispatched a PR firm(1) to provide advice (pro bono apparently) to Wright and TUCC. So what we saw in the last week was the result of a well coordinated PR campaign to cauterize the bloodletting -- a public divorce (however insincere) followed by a full court press to change the topic. Where was the honesty, the integrity? ...sidelined in favor of political expediency.

About Obama's faux-divorce
In his divorce speech, Obama looked rather timid and somewhat ashamed to be denouncing Rev Wright publicly especially at this late stage. There was little confidence in Obama's body language -- there no eye contact with the audience, instead what we saw was lots of downward gazing, and what we heard was halting and hesitant speech patterns -- attributes of man going through the motions of executing a political maneuver that conflicted with his personal thoughts and beliefs. Again I ask, where was the honesty, where was the integrity?

----------------

(1)TPM link
Senior Obama Adviser Asked Top Public Relations Firm To Help Wright's Church
By Greg Sargent - April 3, 2008, 1:03PM
Here's an interesting peek at some of what was going on behind the scenes in Chicago during the controversy over Jeremiah Wright, the pastor at Obama's Trinity church.

I'm told that top Obama adviser David Axelrod privately tried to help Trinity with its raging public relations problem by asking one of Chicago's top P.R. firms to go in and help the church deal with its P.R. mess.

Axelrod confirms to me that amid the controversy, Trinity put out word that it was overwhelmed by media calls and in need of help. Axelrod confirms that he called Jim Terman, the president of Jasculca-Terman and Associates, a major Chicago P.R. outfit that specializes in doing crisis P.R. management for corporations and large institutions.

"I called Jim Terman and asked if they were interested in helping out and they followed up with the church," Axelrod emails, adding that his involvement ended there.

Terman himself confirmed that Axelrod had asked him to help Trinity -- and confirmed that his firm was currently doing pro bono work on the beleagured church's behalf.
more ...
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:09 AM
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66. Exactly!
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susankh4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:29 AM
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82. Only the wimpy ones.
For men who are secure in their masculity... tough women have never been a problem.

Her polling with that demographic is improving, BTW.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:32 AM
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38. That's how you win and why Gore and Kerry lost. nt
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shaniqua6392 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:35 AM
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42. The "testicular fortitude" comment was made by a man.
It was a sexist comment made by a man. I found it to be an example of what Clinton is up against. I think she has been a great role model fighting the good fight for women. Look how far she has come. I don't think we need to have our daughters look to any woman to be their role model though, unless they are looking at their mother. Clinton is not out there touting the fact that she would like to be a role model. If we choose to put her in that position, then we are wrong. I know she has been a champion of women throughout her life. This has been shown by her actions. We can not take that away from her.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:41 AM
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50. OK - I give you the comment came from a man - but Hillary didn't comment it on it and laughed
I don't think she is thinking these things through enough nor is her campaign. Too me it is pandering and it takes away from her true intelligence and promise.
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ErinBerin84 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:45 AM
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53. I agree with you on this.
I think that some people are missing the point. The Clinton campaign loves when they can portray her as tough and emasculate Obama in the process. It has become cartoonish and embarassing to me.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:57 AM
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63. Exacto mundo!!! That is what I am trying to say - HRC is acting like being fair is the BAD thing!
Far from it! We need more fairness and openness and HONESTY in our government! Stop the idiocy and characterizing! Enough!

:yourock:
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:29 AM
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81. The Clinton campaign has got to portray her as being tough, and she is.
If a woman is going to compete head to head with men in business or in politics, she has to be tough. Can you think of a female politician on the national level who isn't tough? Showing her toughness is NOT an attempt to emasculate Obama, as you seem to think.
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ErinBerin84 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:40 AM
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87. I am not saying that Clinton portraying herself as tough
Edited on Thu May-01-08 08:43 AM by ErinBerin84
emasculates Obama as a direct result. In my opinion, there are separate efforts to emasculate Obama from the Clinton campagin. But again, that is just my opinion. Clinton has done more than enough to demonstrate that she is tough, I think that she just does it to such an extent that it undermines the purpose, and makes her look ridiculous. There have been plenty of successful female politicians who have demonstrated their toughness on a national level without becoming a caricature.
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shaniqua6392 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:33 AM
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83. What the hell was she supposed to do at that moment?
She looked and acted uncomfortable. All politicians pander. It is what they do. The trick is to see through it. Even Obama panders on a daily basis. His candidacy is a form of pandering. After we are beaten down for eight years by the Bush Administration, a candidate comes along and preaches change and hope to the people. Of course that will work on a country that is exhausted and looking for a savior. Don't get me wrong...I really like Obama and will vote for him in a heartbeat. But, I am not so naive as to think that he is going to fix everything. I like to wait and see exactly how a candidate will actually live up to the promises they have made. Until then, either of them would be a crap shoot.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:37 AM
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46. sometimes it takes alotta balls to be a women!
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:25 AM
Response to Reply #46
79. Great Big Really Big Really Really Really Big!
Hee. I'm seeing Ms. Cook play out this weekend.
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susankh4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:28 AM
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80. Dancing backwards in high heels make one tough!
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okasha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:38 AM
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47. Good morning, Mrs. Schlafley.
n/t
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:43 AM
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51. Ohhhhhhhhhh To ask a question on Hillary and her image - Bad Bad Bad
Why don't you think about how this is looking to her image? Just saying she should tone it down and save some of her true promise!
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SIMPLYB1980 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:52 AM
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57. You sound really bitter today.
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pkz Donating Member (595 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 07:57 AM
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62. her harshest blow to the feminists
and to women everywhere is:

* Marry a man that is "going places"

* Stick with him no matter what, ie., numerous affairs that will humiliate, but you hang in there for whatever reason you can find to justify it

* Use his resume and name recognition to get what you want *note* that is not revenge, or pay back, it is ambitious

* play both sides of the coin, pander to the masses.

These are not attributes of a strong woman, they are of a weak woman. At least, in my neck of the woods, they would seem so.

I left a man for the same shit-load of "junk"
and for the record, I am one of the biggest defenders of Bill and his sexcapades, they are his private business, but after it was all said publicly, I found myself angry at Hillary. I did support her, however until a heated discussion over last Thanksgiving family dinner.

She could have divorced him, got the sympathy vote and still won her seat from NY, but instead she decided to ride his coattails to the end.
Another poor choice for Hillary and the reason I am not her kind of woman.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:03 AM
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64. I am right with you on this - HRC is a very intellegent passionate forceful woman!
I just don't think she is using HER promise well when she tries to be a "man" to get where she wants to be. I too would have voted for her if she had left Bill. I too have defended him many many times! But now that I have seen what his policies have done with NAFTA, and the 1996 Communications Bill and his lobbying for Dubai and others like TATA, then I have lost my respect for him. She was the one that tied herself to his Administration. Now she must live with the good and the bad of it. ;)
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:18 AM
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73. Divorce Bill and get a sympathy vote is being feminist?
Are you saying a woman is not a feminist because she won't leave a cheating husband? You are dead wrong because I know several. Are you saying that gaining votes by sympathy is the way a feminist runs or should run a campaign? Are you saying that pandering for votes is not okay for a woman but it is perfectly acceptable for a man? Are you saying that using someone's name recognition is not okay for a woman but is okay if a male politician does it? And you know darn well that male politicians do this and have been doing it for 200 years.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:39 AM
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85. NO - What I was trying to say was HRC should have divorced herself from Bill's policies
How can she say that Bill is NOT one of the biggest and best paid lobbyist in the world? She cannot!

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Evergreen Emerald Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:12 AM
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67. You conveniently forgot that Obama is the one shouting "Racism!" to win SC / NC
Edited on Thu May-01-08 08:12 AM by Evergreen Emerald
Win at all costs...you all keep saying that but have no specifics except your general hatred of her that allows you to post these accusatory threads with no facts.

Obama is winning at ALL costs. He is dividing the democratic party purposefully just to get elected. He is trashing Bill Clinton's successful Presidency and suggesting that Republicans are the party of ideas.

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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:36 AM
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84. What facts do you need? Did I make up the pansy and testical remarks? NO!
And your argument about the race issue - Who started the race issue in SC?

Bubba: Obama Is Just Like Jesse Jackson

http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalpunch/2008/01/bubba-obama-is.html

January 26, 2008 8:18 PM

Said Bill Clinton today in Columbia, SC: "Jesse Jackson won South Carolina in '84 and '88. Jackson ran a good campaign. And Obama ran a good campaign here."

This was in response to a question from ABC News' David Wright about it taking "two Clintons to beat" Obama. Jackson had not been mentioned.

Boy, I can't understand why anyone would think the Clintons are running a race-baiting campaign to paint Obama as "the black candidate."

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Evergreen Emerald Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:46 AM
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91. timeline: Obama shouted "Racism!" before the SC primary.
Nice try tho.
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susankh4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:16 AM
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69. Damn straight it is!
Because in the fight for equality... "failure is impossible."
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MyNameGoesHere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:17 AM
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71. No i actually teach my daughter. I tend not to let politicians teach my child.
So what other meaningless rhetoric do you need answered?
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:22 AM
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75. I am happy for your daughter - she is very lucky to have a devoted parent. BUT
I still think HRC needs to tone it done some and stop playing the bully card!
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MyNameGoesHere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:24 AM
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76. Perhaps. But bringing the "fate" of our children into
an argument is reminiscent of.... Well I think you can remember the meme when Bill banged the intern, "Oh Dear, What will the children think?"
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:24 AM
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77. She bullied O'Reilly and that is a good thing!
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SeaLyons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:40 AM
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88. She was definitely in charge.....
so proud of her!!

Go Hillary!
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AnarchoFreeThinker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:39 AM
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86. how to co-opt the worst stereotypically "male" traits.
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SeaLyons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:42 AM
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89. Hard work and determination, believing in yourself...
can pay off. That's what she's teaching. Young women and young men can all learn from her.

Go Hillary!!
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frickaline Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:45 AM
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90. While I think the imagery is bad, I do agree with you on this point
She has a lot of energy and uses it to deliver this message, effectively, and to the benefit of potential emulators. I just wish she'd stop using the male imagery, it belittles her.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:50 AM
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92. I just put the image on there to show how she is being looked on the web.
There are some even worse ones out there that I didn't use.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 08:52 AM
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93. Yes all of the good attributes you mentioned HRC has - So why is she using this bullying image?
She doesn't really need too! I think she should tone it down some and show more assertiveness and positive energy!
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SeaLyons Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 09:20 AM
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97. Hillary is not bullying...
Edited on Thu May-01-08 09:30 AM by cricket08
why do you say that? She is positive and assertive. She's wonderful!!
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:17 AM
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101. Really - Read this Michael Goodman article...........
No debate about it: Clinton's a bully

Monday, April 28th 2008, 4:00 AM

http://www.nydailynews.com/opinions/2008/04/28/2008-04-28_no_debate_about_it_clintons_a_bully.html?ref=nl&nltr_ct=1&nltr_id=Goodwin:%20No%20debate%20about%20it:%20Clinton%27s%20a%20bully

Hillary Clinton speaks to a crowd during a campaign stop Sunday in Wilmington, N.C. Mock-Bunting/Getty

Hillary Clinton speaks to a crowd during a campaign stop Sunday in Wilmington, N.C.

Debates about debates are common in campaigns, but that is no ordinary invitation Hillary Clinton is extending to Barack Obama. It's a gang-girl taunt when she tells a big rally she will go anywhere, anytime for a throwdown.

She offers to do it without a moderator, just the two of them asking and answering questions. Stripped of her gauzy spin that it could be like Lincoln-Douglas, she's really challenging him to a bareknuckle punchout. On TV.

It's what a schoolyard tough would do: Knock on a rival's door and dare him to come out and fight on the street. Right here, right now. No rules, just a slugfest, you and me.

.................

Hmmmmm - Guess I am not alone!

:shrug:
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TragedyandHope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 09:01 AM
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94. Yes, Hillary has set an absolutely atrocious example during much of this campaign
She seems to be trying to cast herself as throwback to the level of barbaric, prehistoric cave men/women.
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JohnnyLib2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 09:01 AM
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95. Perhaps that being a trail-blazer is not easy, that persistence is

often required, that one competent PERSON can handle a great deal of flack, that being "in the arena" is a very tough role to take and that preparation counts.

Oh, and that a woman can do these things.

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Beacool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 09:08 AM
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96. She's teaching young women to be tough.
She's teaching them that if you believe in something you must fight for it until the end. She's teaching them to stand tall against all the sexist bastards that will always try to put down a talented woman. She's teaching them that, even though at the end they may still lose, they'll have the satisfaction of knowing that they gave it their all.

I'm tough myself and expect other women to be just as tough. I like a fighter in a president, someone who will stand up for us and never give up.

I don't see that in Obama. Testicular fortitude is not one of his fortes.....
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:28 AM
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103. Your opinion - I think it take more guts and fortitude to tell the truth and have integrity any day!
Hillary needs to stop and think about her image that is going out there and all the negativity that follows it. And especially if she does get the nomination!
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Beacool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:45 AM
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108. Hillary is doing fine.
I would be more worried about Obama's image if I were you. Wright?
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Neshanic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 09:55 AM
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99. Actually yes. Whatever it takes.
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Pisces Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:09 AM
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100. She's teaching young women that lying, innuendo, gossip, and sleeping your way to the top
is how you get ahead. She won't be my daughters role model. No thank you.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:33 AM
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106. Right on! n/t
:thumbsup:
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suston96 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:23 AM
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102. Women can learn From Hillary Clinton that they - women - must face sexist attacks and ....
...bigotry against women, even from their own kind - other women.

That they - women - have a minimal chance of prevailing in their quest for high office because, they are told emphatically, that their place is in the home, making and raising children - oh, yeah - and baking cookies and driving the kids to school and to the soccer fields.

Women can learn from Hillary Clinton that it isn't about WINNING at any cost - it's about FIGHTING at any cost

Women can learn from Hillary Clinton...They sure can.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:32 AM
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105. I disagree about what Hillary is teaching any woman! I think she needs to stop trying to be a man!
Edited on Thu May-01-08 10:34 AM by 1776Forever
She has a lot to offer and a road ahead of her that she needs to think more highly of then throwing down shots at 3 in the afternoon and letting men say she has testicals!

My call!!!
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suston96 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:47 AM
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112. Uh, Hillary is showing that a woman doesn't have to be a man to win higher office...
...she is as close to winning as any man has ever achieved. Nothing she has said or done is "manly". That impression is only in the eyes of those of both sexes who cannot recognize and admit her extraordinary successes so far.

And she isn't done yet.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:52 AM
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114. Really - that is so hard to believe! She is running like a man to win the 1st woman presidency?
Take a look at this article:

No debate about it: Clinton's a bully

http://www.nydailynews.com/opinions/2008/04/28/2008-04-28_no_debate_about_it_clintons_a_bully.html

Monday, April 28th 2008, 4:00 AM

Hillary Clinton speaks to a crowd during a campaign stop Sunday in Wilmington, N.C.

Debates about debates are common in campaigns, but that is no ordinary invitation Hillary Clinton is extending to Barack Obama. It's a gang-girl taunt when she tells a big rally she will go anywhere, anytime for a throwdown.

She offers to do it without a moderator, just the two of them asking and answering questions. Stripped of her gauzy spin that it could be like Lincoln-Douglas, she's really challenging him to a bareknuckle punchout. On TV.

It's what a schoolyard tough would do: Knock on a rival's door and dare him to come out and fight on the street. Right here, right now. No rules, just a slugfest, you and me.

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suston96 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 11:03 AM
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115. "Running like a man"? What does that mean? Clinton's a bully? All men are bullies? nt
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 11:21 AM
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116. She is a woman - Why does she have to "run" like a man? Asking a question!
:shrug:
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suston96 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 01:40 PM
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123. And I repeat: How does a man run for office that is exclusively masculine? He stands when he pees?
There are masculine and feminine ways to run for office? Your argument makes no sense.
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 01:57 PM
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125. There are difference between women leader's and male leaders - Link........
http://www.hr.com/servlets/sfs?&t=/Default/gateway&i=1116423256281&b=1116423256281&application=story&active=no&ParentID=1119278169617&StoryID=1119657297500&xref=http%3A//www.google.com/search%3Fhl%3Den%26q%3D+difference+between+women+leader%2527s+and+male+leaders%253F%26btnG%3DGoogle+Search

The Qualities that Distinguish Women Leaders

Princeton, NJ (PRWEB) April 26, 2005 -- Women leaders tend to be more assertive, persuasive, willing to take risks and have a stronger need to get things done than their male counterparts, according to a new study jointly conducted by Caliper a Princeton-based management consulting firm, which has assessed the potential of more than two million applicants and employees for over 25,000 companies and Aurora, a London-based firm which advances women and delivers a 20,000 member business women's network.

(snip)

“We're looking at a different paradigm of leadership, and it plays naturally to the strengths of women,” says Regina Sacha, Vice President of Human Resources for FedEx Custom Critical. “The tide has turned. The leadership skills that come naturally to women are now absolutely necessary for companies to continue to thrive. It certainly is the reverse of how it was when I first started out in the workplace. It seems like poetic justice.”

Dr. Greenberg underscores, “The nature of the information economy favors teamwork and requires a leadership style that is more inclusive and accepting, rather than autonomous and controlling. Women leaders have shown us that influence and persuasion have taken the place of giving orders and delegating tasks.”

He adds, “The strong leadership profile exhibited by these women on both sides of the Atlantic points to the future. The female view that we strengthen ourselves by strengthening others is re-defining leadership. These women leaders share a strong profile. They are assertive, persuasive, empathic, willing to take risks, outgoing, flexible and have a need to get things done.”

Dr. Greenberg concludes, “These personality qualities combine to create a leadership profile that is much more conducive to today’s diverse workplace, where information is shared freely, collaboration is vital and teamwork distinguishes the best companies.”


...

I just think it would be better for Hillary to use more of these kinds of good qualities then the pushy punch-you-out ones!
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suston96 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 02:06 PM
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126. Did you read what you quoted? You made my point - what you call bullying and man-like...
...the study says: These women leaders share a strong profile. They are assertive, persuasive, empathic, willing to take risks, outgoing, flexible and have a need to get things done.”

Just like men, eh? LMAO!
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:35 PM
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128. No - Not just like a man! I have been saying this is what she NEEDS to do!
She is acting like a boxing match is more appropriate! Slugging down shots and letting people say that she has testicals! Is that being persuasive and empathetic??? I think NOT!
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Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:34 AM
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107. Because god forbid we should have a Dem candidate who will do whatever it takes
to win.


FOR ONCE.
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Neshanic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:47 AM
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110. THANK YOU!
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 10:47 AM
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111. That is so right 1st for a Dem Candidate - The Republican's are PRO's at it!
Hillary should run with McCain - they wouldn't argue about dirty tactics for sure!
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 11:31 AM
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117. ROFLMAO!!!!
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 01:41 PM
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124. That it does not take a scrotum to be tough...simple as that. n/t
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Texas Hill Country Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 02:08 PM
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127. she is not doing anything "at all costs"... you people are either real young or have a short memory
Edited on Thu May-01-08 02:08 PM by Texas Hill Country
this has been NOTHING compared to the brutality of previous GE's... or hell, even previous primaries!


Grow some thicker skin, stop whining, and run your campaign is what i say.


this meme is ridiculous
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1776Forever Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-01-08 06:41 PM
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129. I am NOT alone in this - Read this: Hillary Supporters, Don't Her Tactics At All Disturb You?

Hillary Supporters, Don't Her Tactics At All Disturb You?

Barry Yourgrau

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/barry-yourgrau/hillary-supporters-dont_b_91564.html

Look, Hillary Clinton is my senator, meaning not only that I live in New York, but that I voted for her twice.

Edwards was my first choice for president and would still be if he were in the race. I now support Obama, not without wariness. But with commitment. And I'll sure try to stay engaged and watchful if he becomes president.

That said, I say this: Hillary's campaign tactics over the part few weeks have been shocking. I mean, scandalous. I mean, crossing some destructive Rovian threshold.

I know admirable people who are Hillary supporters. I just can't help wondering:

How can the recent tactics by HRC and some of her affiliates--the McCain and me stuff, the I-don't-think-he's-a-Muslim stuff, the Geraldine Ferraro stuff--not give her supporters profound second thoughts?

Or am I missing how this thing works? That essentially it's Mel Brooks' profound theory of the difference between comedy and tragedy, transferred to politics: If my candidate does something lowdown, it's a teensy mote in a grand and good eye. Whereas when your candidate does it, it's a godallmighty log--an ocular rotten redwood.

But surely, don't Hillary supporters not feel awful uneasy at what I've mentioned above? I've encountered a number of people over the last few days who've told me that they were still pretty undecided between Hillary and Obama--until now, when they regard her in horror.

If you're for Hillary, I'm puzzled how you reconcile these tactics of hers. Is it that she's been misunderstood? Is it that Obama has somehow done similar things too, eg, his stupid remark about Reagan's optimism? But surely these aren't equivalent?

Is this all just Hillary "playing hardball"? But there is hardball--and then there is Rovism. You don't think Hillary is getting awfully near Rovism?

Seriously, I'd like to know. Because I don't understand.

...........

And neither do I!! But her supporters just keep saying what she is doing is just hunky-dory with them!
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