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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:43 AM
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Women who are true feminists would not jeopardize a vote for a McCain presidency...
When I read of someone not wanting to vote for Obama because they are a feminist and only would support a woman for the WH, one thought comes to mind: they aren't a TRUE feminist, because a TRUE feminist would NOT want Roe v. Wade touched, healthcare for children jeopardized, and the many other issues that only a Democratic President can assure.

Those who continue to say they will vote for McCain if Hillary is not the nominee or not on the ticket had no intention of voting for the Democratic nominee (whoever it to be) from the beginning of this race, OR they are simply missing the big picture: it's not all about a particular candidate, rather what we are desperately needing in this country now.

I appreciate how Obama is handling the tension between he and Hillary. I think he is trying to be respectful which shows a lot character and maturity. Yes, I am a supporter of Obama, but I also am a supporter of whoever will be the nominee. To think of losing this election to John McCain
is incomprehensible.



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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:45 AM
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1. I agree completely. nt
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JoDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:46 AM
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2. A-freaking-men
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papau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:46 AM
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3. Wrong - those that dis Hillary must be punished - McCain not so different - is thought of many
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:56 AM
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10. surely you jest?
nt
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 02:45 PM
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31. no real fem, no good woman would expect 'different' rules for themselves
when they lose fair and square. she shames us by her actions. I cannot stand it.
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 02:58 PM
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33. Sentence structure from hell.
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:47 AM
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4. I completely agree...
Those who would vote McCain over Obama and claim to be Democrats and feminists are neither, imo.
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:48 AM
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5. Women who are true feminists would not support a candidate
based solely on thier genital configuration either....

I know many women started out supporting Hillary for policy reasons, but lately there are more than a few who are stubbornly sticking by her just because it's time for a woman to be president, jaw-droppingly short sighted :wow:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:48 AM
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6. Yes, but that's based on logic, not emotion.
I think a lot of the things being said now are emotional reactions. I have to hope in the time between now and Nov, cooler heads will prevail. The 'movement' stuff worries me, though. If they keep nurturing the irrationality, who knows how long it'll last.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:55 AM
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9. I know emotions are running high now...
hopefully things will settle down soon.
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:48 AM
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7. You got it, Blue
Edited on Fri May-23-08 10:50 AM by ayeshahaqqiqa
I'm a Kucinich supporter, and neither of the remaining candidates is anywhere close to what I believe in or want to happen in our country, but you can bet your bottom dollar I'm voting for the Democratic nominee. Otherwise--well, I couldn't look into the face of a family whose daughter died after a botched back-alley abortion. That could well happen again if McCain is elected and the SCOTUS changed. Heck, we may even not be able to get contraception, and if the fetus is termed a human being, women who miscarry could be liable for prosecution, couldn't they? I know this is worst case scenario, but that is what we need to do to remember what is at stake in this election.
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 10:53 AM
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8. I'll decide feminism for myself, which is, after all, what it's all about n/t
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:01 AM
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11. I like the cat avatar...
looks like my big cat...:)
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:11 AM
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14. Charles Atlas is old and unfortunately, deaf now. He won't be coming
home to me, but the folks in Alabama will look after my prince to the end of his days. I think it was a cat life well shared. Hope yours gives you as much pleasure and consolation in this cold world.
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shomino Donating Member (218 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:09 AM
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12. Yeah! I decide feminism is...
Voting for someone who will outlaw abortion! That's what feminism is to ME! Oh yeah, and men owning women like property! Also what feminism is to ME! It's all relative right!?

/sarcasm off
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:16 AM
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17. I thought tolerance was a liberal concept. I guess I'm supposed to follow
your model, just as it was in the Orthodox community. Good for me, I walked away once and don't feel the need to join another closed-minded clique.
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shomino Donating Member (218 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:22 AM
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21. I'm not saying there is NO wiggle room...
I'm just saying there are some basic rights afforded to women that are the core of feminism that are not relative, that are not up to the individual woman to "decide for herself". Don't you agree?

Just because some women believe that abortion should be outlawed, does that make that view "feminist"?
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:45 AM
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28. Thing is ... I've been on both sides. I don't despise myself n/t
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Avalux Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:10 AM
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13. Yep. It's all about being selfish and vindictive, isn't it?
Don't bother your head with what might happen if McCain appoints two more ultra-conservative judges. I will tell my daughters it's because of people like you.
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:14 AM
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16. Tell your daughters what my mother warned me: don't accept male
values because they're designed against our nature. Be yourself and accept what biology dictates, but master your behavior because your emotions will be driven by hormones.

And don't worry about starting a family young ... if you can support yourself first, everyone will be happier. Don't depend on a man for support - it's another avoidable trap.

As for people like me, who have enjoyed long loving marriages, I'd say they could do worse. As for my professional career, they will have to work very hard to do better. I wish them well, despite their biological parent.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:19 AM
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19. "I wish them well, despite their biological parent"
Ugh.
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Avalux Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:21 AM
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20. Nice, huh?
I don't think I'll be passing her advice on to my daughters. ;-)
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:23 AM
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23. I think that's the wisest route to take, yes.
:)
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 03:00 PM
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34. I pity your husband.
I can see it now.

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nykym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:13 AM
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15. In all honesty
if someone says they will vote for McSame if Hilary isn't on the ticket needs to change thier party affiliation to repug and become the stepford wife they truly are> We don't want your sorry asses in the party.
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leftofcool Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:19 AM
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18. Thanks but this female will decide what feminism means for me
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shomino Donating Member (218 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:24 AM
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24. Here we go again...
Edited on Fri May-23-08 11:25 AM by shomino
Feminism is not something that each individual woman decides for herself!!! It's an established movement of a community of women!

Are we going to let the individual women of the FLDS compound decide what feminism is now?
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indimuse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:22 AM
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22. more mongering...
paleeze already.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:46 AM
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29. you of all people should be ashamed of yourself...
for your constant shit stirring...but then that's really why you're here, right?:eyes:
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Growler Donating Member (896 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:36 AM
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25. I totally agree
"Feminists" saying they will vote for McCain are saying they don't care if their daughters or granddaughters die from painful back-alley abortions. Give me a break!
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kenny blankenship Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:37 AM
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26. Sen. McCain: WORST Senator for children according to Children's Defense Fund
PDF file of Best & Worst Members of Congress from Children's Defense Fund

Huffington Post Article by Sam Stein, "Clinton, Obama Score Well on Children's Issues, McCain Worst In Senate"

As the Huffington Post article observes, some years Obama is better by 10 pts over Clinton, sometimes it's the other way around; but McCain is solidly one of the very worst of the worst in the US Senate when it comes to children's issues. This year McCain scored an ABYSMAL 10% with no one else sharing the bottom rung with him.

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If you want women forced to carry unwanted pregnancies to term and the resulting children to grow up in misery and crime, just help McCain get elected this year. Abortion will become a Federal crime in a short while and remain illegal in almost any circumstances for a generation or more.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:47 AM
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30. thank-you!
that says it all:thumbsup:
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Undercurrent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 11:43 AM
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27. .
I know what it's like to loose a primary to a candidate who was not even my third or fourth choice, or whom I truly didn't like.

I'm, woman of 60, and in all my years as a devoted Democrat, this is only the second time the person I supported in the primary has actually become the nominee. Only the second time! I was often heartbroken when my candidate lost. Stomping around, or shedding tears, so I understand the depth and expression of the emotions felt by ardent Clinton supporters.

I have learned that loosing battles happens. Getting up, looking at the whole picture, and continuing to work for the larger victory is the way to win the war.


:kick:
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OzarkDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 02:51 PM
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32. Obama can't win against McCain
Women who support Clinton are objecting because:

1. She's the more qualified candidate & experienced candidate

2. She has more support than Obama - winning the popular vote, especially in key swing states Dems must carry

3. Obama will not win against McCain - the GOP and news media are sitting on a nasty campaign (one Sen. McConnell recently described as "severely critical" of Obama, including his admitted drug use)

4. Dems need to win in November. Having another GOP WH will ruin the country.
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Blue_Roses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 09:26 PM
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35. but my point is:
WOMEN--and I should know since I am one--who support John McCain and claim to be a feminist and all that it entails--would not screw up their vote to vote for a man who does not support women. And that would be John McCain just in case you missed it. (seems so)

I've read many of your posts and I truly wonder if you really believe the shit you say. You don't speak for ALL women and unless you have a crystal ball that gives true accounts of the future, you have no way of knowing the outcome until November comes and goes.

Step out of that narrow world you live in.
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mod mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 09:28 PM
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36. Women who are true feminists would have taken the time to look at Hillary's "35 Years of Experience"
and cried BULLSHIT! Corporatists who are out for themselves are NOT FEMINISTS!
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Unvanguard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-23-08 09:35 PM
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37. Wait, which feminists have ever said that they "only would support a woman for the WH"?
Some welcome the prospect, yes--and why not?--but "only"? I haven't heard that anywhere.
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