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First a little background information: I work the front desk at a medium-sized local hotel, the owners/managers are a first generation immigrant couple from India, and practicing Sikhs. By practicing, I mean they have a little station set up near the back-office, where they burn incense and quietly pray to their Guru for a few minutes each day during normal work hours. I have no problem with this -- the incense smells nice, and they never try to force their religious views on any of their employees. It's their business, so they can pretty much do as they please, no problem. Almost all of their employees come from different faith traditions, from the Hispanic Catholic housekeepers to a Muslim Iraqi immigrant night auditor to a Mormon morning shift front desk agent, to the rest of us who are less than religious and don't mind working Sundays. They are tolerant of all our diverse backgrounds, and for the most part religion never gets discussed in the workplace, as it probably should be.
Well, the owners have three children: a 14-year-old boy, an 11-year-old girl, and an infant, and often times the mother will pick the older kids up after school and bring all three to the hotel where they either go watch T.V. in an empty room or mess around on the business center or back-office computer, surfing the Internet or playing games, or doing their home-work in the lobby, while the mother folds laundry in back. Normally the front desk person doesn't interact with the children, except maybe to spin the toddler around in the swivel chair to settle him down when he's being particularly obnoxious.
But just this past week, the 14-year-old son was working on a PowerPoint presentation for school on the back-office computer, and asked me for some assistance, knowing I was pretty computer savvy, having helped set up the business center computer and having got rid of a nasty fake anti-virus mal-ware program that took our main front desk computer hostage due to someone downloading an ActiveX control in Internet Explorer that they shouldn't have. So it was no big deal.
Well, it turned out his school project was all about Christian hip-hop music, with an emphasis on certain lyrics and what they meant to believers. We got to talking a little bit, and it soon came apparent that he took an acute interest in this, and was really quite fascinated by the whole phenomenon. He explained how some kids from school introduced him to that genre of music, and how he liked the "flow" of the tunes. I asked him if he thought there was any truth to any of the lyrics? His response: maybe. I asked him why he didn't choose to do his presentation on any of the many native Punjabi/Sikh tunes, quite a few of which he had ripped from his iPod to the back-office computer. He just shrugged. I made the off-hand comment that he should never feel ashamed or afraid to share his own faith tradition, especially if other kids were pushing their Christian bias onto him. He nodded, but I could tell he was really struggling with the concept.
And herein lies the dilemma... if the topic comes up again at work, should I share with him my own personal experience, observations, and reservations about Christianity? Or should I just let the cards fall where they may? It's clear he's being pressured by other kids at his school and very badly just wants to fit in, but it really pisses me off to see the majority faith spreading this way. I don't think his parents are quite aware about his dabblings with Christianity, and I doubt they'd object if I gave him any reason to abandon such urges and stick with his native Sikh traditions. Of course, it's quite possible that I could inadvertently plant that seed of doubt, and he could end up becoming an agnostic or (gasp!) atheist in no small part due to my meddling.
Should I just play it safe and keep my distance from this whole situation (like with a 10-foot-pole) and just let his soul end up where it may? Or should I share my views with him if he brings up the subject again? He obviously values my input, I just wish I wasn't in this prickly position in the first place. I'd just hate for evangelical Christianity to claim yet another innocent victim, if I had every opportunity to stop it. I mean, I strongly feel we need more religious diversity in this country, not less, and I'd hate for him to grow up to become a fundie or something, if I could have possibly put a damper on such silliness and nipped it in the bud.
Oh whatever should I do?
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