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demnan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 06:42 PM
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I had to say goodbye to Lily
When I came home from work on Christmas Eve she was very sick suddenly. I tried to keep her warm and comfortable as she didn't seem to be in pain and the day after Christmas I took her to the vet. Her vitals were failing. The vet said that she was dying based on her body temperature. So I had her put down as I know she was failing and not able to walk. It was quite sudden as she had been a healthy elderly cat just days before.

How I will miss my sweet girl. Half my adult life she has been the center of my heart. I'm thankful that my boyfriend Keith came over and was very consoling and since she had been very fond of him, he was very sweet towards her as well. I will miss my sweet abby girl.
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Longhorn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 06:46 PM
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1. I'm so sorry.
I'm glad it happened when you were there to shower her with love and comfort, as you always have. :hug:
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 06:50 PM
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2. Oh..I am so,so sorry to hear this!!
I know it is like losing a child. I almost feel as if I know her too, having seen so many wonderful pics of her. She was a real sweetie.
There really are no words that can assuage the ache, but you did the right thing. Her life ended without a long, drawn out illness. You gave her the final act of a loving caretaker by not prolonging any suffering, and letting her go with dignity and surrounded by love.

As far as I have experienced, only time and tears help the sadness retreat. I know she will always be with you, in that Lily shaped space in your heart. And have no doubt that a part of her will always be nearby, watching over you.

;( :hug: :loveya:
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lavenderdiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 08:51 PM
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3. I am so sorry for your loss, demnan
You did the loving thing for Lily. I know it hurts so much, seeing our fur babies pass. :hug:

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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 09:02 PM
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4. So sorry, demnan
Safe passage to your sweet companion. :hug:
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DainBramaged Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 10:31 PM
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5. I am so sorry, sweet memories.
:hug:
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AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 10:35 PM
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6. I'm so so sorry!!
:cry:

:hug:

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jillan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-28-08 10:47 PM
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7. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Losing a pet is as hard as losing a best friend. (((hugs)))
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virgdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-29-08 01:55 AM
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8. I'm so sorry to hear this..
I know she was your baby and you loved her very much. I know the pain of losing three of my kitty kids over the past 5 years and it never gets easier to lose our fur kids. Much peace to you and continued happy memories of your beautiful Lilly.
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Lorien Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-29-08 08:23 AM
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9. I'm so sorry Demnan. I feel like I knew her too
after all these years. :cry:

"Grief is the purest evidence that we have loved and loved well"-anon

Rest in peace sweet Lily. :loveya:

:hug:
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Sanity Claws Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-29-08 09:09 AM
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10. My condolences
I am so sorry to hear of Lily's passing.
:hug:
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Suziq Donating Member (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-29-08 09:35 AM
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11. I Am So Sorry, demnan
My deepest condolences for the loss of your sweet girl, Lily. :cry:

I also feel like I personally know your kitties and my heart aches.

:hug:
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femmedem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-29-08 11:12 AM
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12. My deepest condolences on the loss of your sweet girl.
I know you gave her the best possible life, and the easiest possible passing. :hug:
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livetohike Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-29-08 02:26 PM
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13. I'm so sorry demnan
:hug: I hope all your good memories of your sweet, little Lily will bring you comfort and give you peace. There is nothing like the love of an elderly pet.....
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Eurobabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-30-08 02:23 AM
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14. Condolences demnan
So sorry you lost your beautiful girl. :cry: :hug: She's been a constant on DU for as long as I can remember.

RIP sweet Lily. :grouphug:
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BattyDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-30-08 01:18 PM
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15. I'm so sorry, demnan
:cry: :hug:

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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-30-08 02:20 PM
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16. I'm so sorry for your loss, Demnan
:hug:
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yellerpup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-30-08 04:35 PM
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17. My condolences, demnan.
May your memories of her bring you many smiles. She was loved! :hug:
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Lisa0825 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-30-08 05:18 PM
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18. (((((((((hugs))))))))))))
:hug:
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japple Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-02-09 11:16 AM
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19. Dear Demnan, your dear Lily had a wonderful life with you
and her cat siblings. I am so sorry she is gone, but it's good that she didn't have a lingering illness. Peace and blessings to you and your family in this time of sadness.
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meow2u3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-02-09 06:20 PM
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20. I'm so sorry
:cry: :hug: Such a shock to lose such a beloved furkid. Until you two meet at Rainbow Bridge. O8)
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-02-09 07:51 PM
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21. RIP, Lily...
:hug:
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-02-09 11:52 PM
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22. Oh, condolences :(...is Lily one of the ones in your sig photo? nt
Edited on Fri Jan-02-09 11:53 PM by JoeIsOneOfUs
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Grateful for Hope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-07-09 10:15 PM
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23. Demnan
I am so, so sorry about Lily. And, I am so sorry that this was so sudden.

My heart is with you.

:hug:
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stpalmer Donating Member (111 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jan-18-09 07:21 PM
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24. I'm sorry
I lost my cat this year, he was with me most of my adult life, and he died in a lot of pain, which makes it worse.
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