For example, columnist Joanne Black concludes, "Throughout history when they have had the chance, women have shown themselves as capable as men of misusing power and inflicting brutality. They have, till now, merely lacked the opportunity. Feminism has remedied that. Sadly for those of us tho thought we were better, women have proved themselves men's equal."
What's this "women"? I haven't proved myself anything like that, despite the fact that I have had all sorts of opportunities that no generation of women before me had. I didn't enter the legal profession and immediately become the most lethal tool in the corporate box, evicting families and raiding widows' pension funds. I also didn't follow some nurturing model of womanhood and bury myself in trying to mediate people's matrimonial woes to win-win, for example. I became a rather formidable warrior fighting for justice for victims of injustice. Estrogen didn't make me a milksop, and feminism didn't turn me into a psychopath.
Did it you? Didn't think so!
A rerun of one of the Law&Order series last night said the same sort of thing: along the lines of when women engage in sexual assault, they do with with more ferocity and brutality than men. And the data to back that up are ...? Anecdotal, maybe?
Karla Homolka (the Canadian woman who participated in the sexual torture/murder of her sister and two other women, with her husband Paul Bernardo) was a very unpleasant person. You can find 100 men worse than her in a year for every equivalent woman you'll find in a decade. But the talk about her all focuses on her sex -- not as her being an outlier, but as her actions being somehow indicative of something about women.
A former friend of mine who worked for some time with badly abused children in the Netherlands back in the 70s used to say the same thing: that women abusers (mainly physical, in those cases) were more horrific in their abuse than men. Well, I wouldn't be surprised to learn there are *more* women child abusers than men -- simply because of the hugely greater contact between women and children than between men and children, and the enormously greater pressures on many of those women, and obviously the great range in the characteristics of the women who rear children, far more often not by choice than is the case for men. Do anecdotes from a sample in which children reared by women will pretty obviously greatly outnumber children reared by men mean much?
In all of the cases that I have touched on, women have figure as either offensive or defensive weapons of war--and not just as weapons of war, but as the most dangerous and threatening weapons.
An exact parallel to how discourse about Karla Homolka goes. It's kind of the flip side of the Ginger Rogers / Charlotte Whitten model:
Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did,
only backwards and in high heels.
Whatever women do they must do twice as well
as men to be thought half as good.
Luckily, this is not difficult.
(Charlotte Whitten was the mayor of Ottawa,
the capital of Canada, in the 1960s.)
Women as sexual abusers / weapons of war do everything men do only backwards in high heels, and twice as well.
It's stereotyping, i.e. based on outlier cases and not true reality, and it's still practised for the purpose of portraying *all* women negatively, and thus limiting all women's lives.