Parents, it's time to talk to your children about sex. Well, unless your children are grown adults... Let's assume they're still in school- even through High School- you may still want to have that talk. Because your kids aren't learning anything good from their health classes, and they're going to be totally unprepared for the real world unless they read "Savage Love".
The government, for their part, have spread nothing but lies. The department of Health and Human Services (HHS) has, along with the Bush administration, set up a website called "4parents.gov." In my opinion, it could easily be renamed "Abstinence Education and Gays are EVIL.gov." But I digress- the point is that this administration cares more about abstinence education than actual fact.
Here is the fact: abstinence education doesn't work. Yes, the rate of teen pregnancy is SLOWLY going down (it was dropping quicker under Clinton and Sex Ed than Bush and Abstinence), we still have the highest teen pregnancy rate of the industrialized world. This slowing down, however, is not linked to abstinence education. Teens are having sex now more than ever. Increased use of birth control pills and the availability of abortions is a much more plausible cause of most of the dent.
But Mr. Fawkes, what can we tell our children about sex? Well, use protection for one thing. The government says condoms are "only" 98% effective. Wow, "only" 98%? You've got to be kidding! Just because something isn't 100% effective is not, as the government tells your children, a good reason not to use it. And I'm not kidding! Health is taught like this: "Condoms are only 98% effective, so you may as well not use them. The only 100% effective way of not getting pregnant or getting STDs is to not have sex until marriage."
Okay- but what if you marry someone with an STD? You can still get it. And guess what, married people get pregnant
all the time. Plus, for those of you that haven't been paying attention (ie, trolls and freepers), Gays and Lesbians can't get married. The highest rate of AIDS/HIV is found in gay men- and if you tell them not to use condoms...
Sounds like murder to me. But once again, I find myself angrily off-topic.
Parents, tell your children this: if you're going to have sex (and yes, eventually just about everyone has sex): use a condom. And birth control, for that extra 2%. If your children are gay/lesbian, they can still use protection... And though I'm not as well versed on protection for lesbians (sorry), I'm sure there are plenty of books at your local library. Or the internet, if you live in Texas. :-)
By the way- I realize that the prospect of teens having sex is traumatizing at best. But please, don't make them sign abstinence agreements. Most teens that do that wind up having sex within 12 months of signing the agreement. And besides, kids with proper knowledge of protection are less likely to go out and have sex anyway. If you present it fairly- ie, no scary pictures of STDs- and answer questions, your children can learn a lot. If you can't answer, try
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/">Go Ask Alice!, Columbia U's sex-education website. You can submit your own questions or search those already asked.
I could rant more about abstinence education and how its magical thinking... but that wouldn't save your children's lives.