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Edited on Fri Dec-15-06 02:08 AM by haele
I just did our budget for a family of 3, no car payment, chronic medical issues, four pets for the next three months; I'm getting a 3% pay increase in Feb but the increase in the company medical just offset the increase :( - it will be like no increase at all. I figure we take home after taxes and "benefits" about $3200 a month. A good, middle class family, no?
And here's the breakdown for the average middle class. Monthly - Rent - average 2 bdrm, 1 bath apartment (800 sq ft) is $1237. Average house, 2 bdrm, 1 bath (1k sq ft) rents for $1500. Average mortgage for same house or apartment masquerading as a "condo", financed or refinanced over the past 4 years, is $3K a month. Garbage service - city provides, county averages $30 a month ($90 every three months Electric/Gas (SDGE) - $70 - $100.00 a month, depending on type of AC or whether or not you have some gas appliances. We pay $70 in the Fall, Spring, Winter, $110 in the summer. Hubby needs AC or he passes out. Water/Sewage - $70
Somewhat healthy food for three, not including "out to eat" and going to 99 cent stores, produce markets, "Food For Less", Costco, etc - $350 Household sundries (TP, cleaning gear, shampoo, OTC products, etc) - $80. Kid stuff - no matter what age, the kids always cost more with school supplies, clothes that they destroy, etc - $60 Medical payments post-tax not covered by insurance (co-pays, outstanding dental, prescriptions, lab work) - $20 on average for a family of 3 with no problems - if there is just one chronic condition, bounce that baby up to $100 a month. There are three chronic conditions conditions in our family - $300.
Bus Pass (if no other transportation) - $30 for kid when school is in session Car payment - generally averages 250.00. Luckly, we are paid off. Car Insurance - generally $120, unless you have a clunker and go as cheaply as possible and pray you don't need it. Gasoline (basic travel for just shopping and work, including a 20 mile round trip commute (no bus service near work, no co-workers or "vanpool" members live nearby) to work 5 days a week) - $180
Pet stuff - approximately $30 baseline for one, add $10 for additionals. Phone Service, including caller i.d. and long distance - $50 Cable - basic runs around $70 Internet - basic can be found at around $50 (You can usually get a basic Cable/Internet/Phone package for around $150, saving a good $20.)
So with only cable and internet as "luxuries", we're looking at $2970 a month in bills. Because of the medical problems and an uncertain job market, we like to put $400 a month in savings for medical and employment emergencies, as well as the kidlet's "visitation" trips to her natural mom once a year - and our savings are only sitting at $500 right now. 3 Emergency Room visits, 2 Root canals, one $300 plane ticket and one $200 auto repair bill have drained over $3K in savings this year alone - and that's not unusual. We ran through $5K in medical last year, $4K the year before, wiping out 3 years worth of savings, losing a house by short-selling before it could be foreclosed on, and going into a pattern of overdrafts, which we just finally got out of. Lord help us if I loose my job. The gas and inflation costs are bad enough, but the medical bills are killing us. We are left with a little over $130 a month to cover birthdays, little treats such as the occasional eat out, and other "special occasions". Not much to the kid, but better than most. And we're considered "middle class" - I'm a mid-level project manager. 6 years ago at my current salary, we would have been well off enough to be dropping $200 - $300 in charities like homeless veteran's services, children's services, and food/medical for the disabled and elderly - which were the charities I used to give money to. And still be able to build up a decent Roth IRA/CD account for kid's college and retirement - and still have something left over to save for emergencies and the occasional family "treat" (enough that once or twice a year we could choose to indulge in, say a day trip to Knott's Berry Farm, one "big ticket" item that gives some poor salesman a nice commission, a visit to one of the parents out of state, or camp for the kidlet, etc).
Isn't that supposed"the middle class" lifestyle? Yeah, I know it sounds like whining, especially since most of my childhood we were generally poor - we lived in student housing or just off the barrios, only had one real meal a day, grew and canned most of our own produce, no TV, no eating out, thrift store and hand-me-down clothes, toys, autos, and furniture, most requiring some sort of repair before they were able to be used. There are so many people that are still in that place - or are worse off.
But darn it, like my now retired parents, I've paid my dues and more in thrift, hard work and blood, and fought my way up to the middle class - just to find it being taken away from me by inflation and other situations beyond my choices and control. And now, 'pubbies like the shrub and the taliborn again freepers are saying "it's my fault for making the wrong choices" - like getting married to someone who developed a chronic, debilitating syndrome, and raising one kid. Or choosing "the wrong career" - even though ten years ago, it was a perfectly lucrative, desirable career path. Or not going to the right church, schmoozing the right people, belonging to the right clubs and political thought processes...
And in my experience, we aren't the only ones in my circle of supposedly middle class work acquaintances that have these sorts of problems. I've been seeing a lot of the "close to six figure" families - families in skilled labor jobs - with mortgages who are rapidly dropping luxuries to try to keep their houses. And not just those with brand new Mc-Mansions - some of these are people who just refinanced to re-furb an old 70's tract house or upgrade from a "manufactured" trailer home.
Thanks for letting me rant. The stresses of working hard while seeing savings and earnings just pass through the bank account as if I were nothing more than a conduit between my employer and any number of corporation billing departments is close to debilitating. Especially when I'm trying to support a family.
Haele
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