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BigBearJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:40 AM Original message |
Mother arrested for telling her 12+16 yr old sons about sexual experiences from her past |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:01 AM Response to Original message |
1. Oh dear. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:35 AM Response to Original message |
2. I think that what might be key here is that, apparently, |
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MadHound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:47 AM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Intensely uncomfortable is one thing, |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:38 AM Response to Reply #3 |
24. Turn the situation around then. What if this were a father |
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qwlauren35 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #24 |
53. It's context. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:17 PM Response to Reply #53 |
57. Yes, it's context, and there's a right way, and a wrong way. |
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Rockholm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:25 PM Response to Reply #3 |
97. I was intensely uncomfortable being taught how to fish. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:57 PM Response to Reply #97 |
124. So you're telling me that you think it's okay for an |
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Rockholm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:58 PM Response to Reply #124 |
146. As the right wing constantly drills in our collective heads.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:02 PM Response to Reply #146 |
147. maybe this is indicative of poor parenting skills and it all goes beyond |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:21 AM Response to Reply #146 |
156. Of course parents should talk to their kids about sex as a normal and positive |
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kickysnana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:02 AM Response to Reply #2 |
23. Beyond stupid: Arrest for making your child "uncomfortable". |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:40 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Not merely uncomfortable. Whatever she told the son made him |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:56 AM Response to Reply #25 |
28. It's weird... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:30 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. Apparently she had brought them in for counselling due to |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:31 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Oh yeah, I can definitely see how that would be over the line... |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:48 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. To play devil's advocate |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:51 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. i think the extreme on both sides, equally fuck up children, i agree |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:15 PM Response to Reply #35 |
117. In extremely fundamentalist families there often is a lot of blurring of boundaries |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:36 PM Response to Reply #29 |
66. I'm also thinking there is more to this story. |
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JBear (318 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:01 PM Response to Reply #29 |
101. I am surprised that... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:06 PM Response to Reply #101 |
102. NOBODY has decided she is guilty. it is MORE discussing the issue |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:46 PM Response to Reply #101 |
122. I haven't seen a single person say she is guilty. |
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Rockholm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:26 PM Response to Reply #25 |
98. Maybe he was getting turned on. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #98 |
123. And depending on what she was saying to him as she "described" |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:51 AM Response to Reply #2 |
39. They should get all their information from Fox News |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:18 PM Response to Reply #2 |
74. Yeah, that sounds more like sex abuse than sex ed. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:31 PM Response to Reply #74 |
80. The personalization of it -- the mother talking about her own behaviors -- |
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SalmonChantedEvening (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:08 AM Response to Original message |
4. You have the right to remain Ignorant |
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rodeodance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:22 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. yes, it is insane |
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tomg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:34 AM Response to Original message |
6. When I read this this |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #6 |
32. Another possible point of view -- since we'll never know the facts. |
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tomg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:05 PM Response to Reply #32 |
91. I was talking to my wife later, and |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:06 PM Response to Reply #91 |
128. Well, there may be a flicker of hope here. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:08 PM Response to Reply #128 |
129. seems to me a few posters suggest it is ok cause it is a boy. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:31 PM Response to Reply #129 |
139. Me, too. It's sad. n/t |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:48 AM Response to Original message |
7. That is INSANE!! -- A Felony?? - Original newspaper article here |
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hootinholler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
8. where can they learn? |
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DCKit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:43 AM Response to Reply #8 |
18. New Republic Motto: "Ignorance is Bliss - with a Happy Ending" |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:29 AM Response to Original message |
9. Let me state first of all that it's scary that she was arrested for this |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:33 AM Response to Reply #9 |
31. Exactly -- it was in personalizing this that she MAY have crossed the line. |
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fed-up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
10. My 13YO son took a Health class at the local JC-I told teacher to hold nothing back-she didn't |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:00 PM Response to Reply #10 |
153. Hmmmm. Would it be appropriate for a father to "Show and Tell" his 13-yr-old daughter the same info? |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:45 AM Response to Original message |
11. She terrified them with tmi |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:48 AM Response to Reply #11 |
34. I know, every boy under 20 |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:54 AM Response to Original message |
12. There has to be more to this. |
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IndyOp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:35 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. I have to admit that I am thinking the same thing - I wonder if the mother |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:49 AM Response to Reply #15 |
36. There is no mention of a father or teachers in this case. |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:54 AM Response to Reply #36 |
43. The counsellor is a mandatory reporter. If the children |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:00 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Right. And that is the law because parents and others |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:04 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. My original post in this thread indicated that I believe there is |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. my boys and i, but especially my 12 yr old and i talk about all kinds of |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:11 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. "He sets the pace." That's the key right there. |
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Rockholm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 07:18 AM Response to Reply #52 |
161. That is an excellent point. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:49 AM Response to Reply #12 |
27. a parent wants to teach children about sex, so shows them a porn movie? |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:48 PM Response to Reply #27 |
114. Well you and I both know how that would be received here: |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:12 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. i am thinking. it is really a show it all at the youngest of years or nothin |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:44 PM Response to Reply #116 |
121. That's for sure. Who would have wanted to receive |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:30 PM Response to Reply #12 |
70. That's what I'm thinking, as well... |
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cigsandcoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
13. It's pretty gross to hear about your mom giving a BJ, but illegal? |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:52 AM Response to Reply #13 |
41. Who says it was a BJ? |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:31 AM Response to Original message |
14. Why can't things like this happen to me? I want to retire today! |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:42 AM Response to Reply #14 |
17. Well, you SHOULD get whacked on the knuckles with a ruler for |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:44 AM Response to Reply #17 |
20. Oh great, now you reminded me of my youthful days in Sunday School. |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:31 AM Response to Reply #20 |
21. . |
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Sugar Smack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:31 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. . |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:41 AM Response to Original message |
16. EDIT....bad prosecution.... |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:43 AM Response to Reply #16 |
19. It's already over and she's on probation now |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:23 PM Response to Reply #19 |
75. No. it's still open. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:35 PM Response to Reply #75 |
82. Maybe that hasn't gotten updated yet? |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
94. "they can learn all about killing people from TV " |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
26. i know a father who showed his daughter his penis |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:47 AM Response to Reply #26 |
33. I agree that we have too few facts to know what really happened, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:50 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. i thought that was a very good point of yours, because it is a mom, BUT |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:53 AM Response to Reply #37 |
42. Both genders can be screwed up PERIOD. |
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JBear (318 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:14 PM Response to Reply #33 |
105. I'm sorry... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:34 PM Response to Reply #105 |
140. That was just part of it. The other part was whatever the mother |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:55 AM Response to Reply #26 |
44. That's our thing about nudity, though |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:00 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. we have never had a thing about nudity in our house since kids were babies |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:05 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. Exactly. As the mother of sons, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:08 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. and then some, like perverted. the father had a hard on and had the child |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:21 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. Any father who asks a child to touch him there has crossed the line |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:22 PM Response to Reply #48 |
59. One would hope you wouldn't do THAT |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:30 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. we had an art history book and national geographics when i was a kid |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:02 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. there is more to the story n/t |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
38. What was she arrested for, though? |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:55 AM Response to Reply #38 |
46. She pleaded no contest to a lesser charge in exchange for probation, |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:25 PM Response to Reply #46 |
60. I imagine most parents wouldn't tell kids about their own experiences |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:32 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. In the workplace, freedom of speech wouldn't allow a boss |
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JBear (318 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:17 PM Response to Reply #63 |
107. We are not talking about a workplace! n/t |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:33 AM Response to Reply #107 |
159. So you think an adult in a workplace is more vulnerable to verbal abuse |
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Shlomo Yehudim (14 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
45. Heres the kicker |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:09 PM Response to Reply #45 |
55. Welcome to DU, Shlomo Yehudim! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:27 PM Response to Reply #45 |
61. It's the age old idea that if someone doesn't know about a thing |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
64. Here is an update. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
65. Good thing these laws weren't around when I was a kid. My dad was a |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:40 PM Response to Reply #65 |
83. I don't think your situation was comparable to this one. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 06:58 PM Response to Reply #83 |
118. While I agree that talking about her personal experiences was in bad taste |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:41 PM Response to Reply #118 |
120. So you don't think that there is anything the mother |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:11 PM Response to Original message |
67. STFU mom! |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:13 PM Response to Original message |
68. If her own son turned her in to authorities? |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:22 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. Perhaps her sons have a grudge against their mother for other reasons? |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:03 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. Oh sure... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:51 PM Response to Reply #72 |
88. Maybe there's an injustice here. Or maybe some people |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:43 PM Response to Reply #69 |
84. And sometimes kids have a reason for that feeling, unfortunately. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #68 |
77. I don't think it said he "turned her in" |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:32 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. From the OP: |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:53 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. What I read was in the update in post #64 |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:17 PM Response to Reply #79 |
95. Me too! |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
71. Not enough information |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:45 PM Response to Reply #71 |
85. No one will ever sit on a jury because the mother pleaded no contest |
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Lautremont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:05 PM Response to Reply #85 |
149. All we can do is sit and wonder, repeatedly, over and over, whether or not she "crossed the line." |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:36 AM Response to Reply #149 |
160. I'm just saying that it's possible the mother went too far -- to counter |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
73. The only thing my mother told me was that girls would try to trick me into giving them babies |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 02:26 PM Response to Reply #73 |
76. LOL! She was giving you a compliment. |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
81. The police should have used better discretion |
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PeaceNikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:48 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. Columbia County Assistant District Attorney Crystal Long is to blame. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:53 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. And you can confirm she's a "nutcase" without reading any report |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:03 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. or... because of our war on fundamentalism, or because it is sexuality and boys |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:09 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. I've noticed that very often |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 03:49 PM Response to Reply #81 |
87. Without knowing the details that none of us can know, |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
93. After turning her in to police, they sat down and watched a good war movie. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
96. This is disturbing on so many levels |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 04:56 PM Response to Reply #96 |
99. reading about the counselor and whether or not the kid called authority |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:00 PM Response to Reply #99 |
100. Because male and female are different |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:07 PM Response to Reply #100 |
103. you are so full of it if you suggest you can play with a boys sexuality |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:15 PM Response to Reply #103 |
106. That's not what I'm suggesting |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:24 PM Response to Reply #106 |
111. ah, well... i have a 12 yr old son and am a mom, and i know to have his trust |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:43 PM Response to Reply #111 |
113. You're lucky that your son will talk to you about this |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:20 PM Response to Reply #113 |
134. What you're doing is very different than what this mother was said to have done. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:15 PM Response to Reply #106 |
133. They are indeed comparable. You seem to have a blind spot in this area. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:08 PM Response to Reply #96 |
130. I'm one of those people, so answer me, please. |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #130 |
142. I already did answer that |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:30 AM Response to Reply #142 |
157. I suppose that's a response. But it's not an explanation. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
104. Describing HERSELF performing oral sex?? Showing her 12-year-old a sex toy?? |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:19 PM Response to Reply #104 |
108. Hell yeah it's poor judgement, and inappropriate! |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:21 PM Response to Reply #108 |
109. Yeah, dumb that she was arrested... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:25 PM Response to Reply #109 |
112. eeeeewwww is soooo right. n/t |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:12 PM Response to Reply #109 |
132. Because of the charges, she was forced into counseling. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
110. So, where's the line? |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 05:56 PM Response to Reply #110 |
115. I don't have kids, but I imagine a good rule of thumb might be |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:24 PM Response to Reply #115 |
136. My adult daughter was laughing about this last year. |
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Lautremont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:17 PM Response to Reply #136 |
152. We don't know all the information, but it's possible your daughter crossed the line. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:12 AM Response to Reply #152 |
154. Anyone else reading your post here is going to wonder what the heck |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
119. The prosecution went too far, but that is still fucking nasty. |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:26 PM Response to Reply #119 |
137. Or, as someone above mentioned, |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:00 PM Response to Original message |
125. I don't think my mom knows about oral sex. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:01 PM Response to Reply #125 |
126. lol lol ya right. but then it is a cozy feeling thinkin your mom doesnt, huh n/t |
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DemBones DemBones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #125 |
141. Don't bet on it. I know quite a few women in their 80s and 90s |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:02 PM Response to Original message |
127. Well, it never occured to me that my past sex life would be a good teaching tool... |
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Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
131. A parent's responsibility |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:28 PM Response to Reply #131 |
138. They'll laugh in your face if you send them there. |
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Lurking Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:45 PM Response to Reply #138 |
144. True enough |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:04 PM Response to Reply #144 |
148. ya... my kid would take you up on it. he read all about |
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liberal hypnotist (391 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
135. Pardeeville, Wisconsin must be a scary place |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
143. I'm curious - what if this were about drugs (pot) instead of sex? |
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Raejeanowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
145. Sounds Like Mom Went Way Overboard |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:07 PM Response to Original message |
150. Yet, nudists raise children that turn out just fine seeing nudity every day... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:14 AM Response to Reply #150 |
155. But I bet the vast majority have clothes on when they're talking to their |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:21 AM Response to Reply #155 |
162. Incorrect. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:37 AM Response to Reply #150 |
163. What about her descriptions of her sexual encounters and oral sex |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:43 AM Response to Reply #163 |
164. What about it? |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:53 AM Response to Reply #164 |
165. I don't believe it's people who have sex in front of their kids |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 08:58 AM Response to Reply #165 |
166. I suggest you read up on the philosophy of nudism. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 09:24 AM Response to Reply #166 |
167. they are merely part of the body, having nothing to do with sex. they are not humping |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 10:04 AM Response to Reply #167 |
168. The "kids" in this article are 12 and 16. Hardly "little ones". |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 10:05 AM Response to Reply #168 |
169. seems to me you were talking nudists and their kids and starting from day one. n/t |
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CT_Progressive (889 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 10:08 AM Response to Reply #169 |
170. I was typing lazy. My fault. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 10:14 AM Response to Reply #170 |
171. I think it might well be |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 10:21 AM Response to Reply #170 |
172. there is something to be said here. being a female i am well versed on the feel |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 04:34 PM Response to Reply #172 |
175. Yes, seabeyond. And when a child, or a teen, expresses a need for help -- |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 04:23 PM Response to Reply #166 |
173. What you are suggesting, depending on how it was accomplished, |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-13-07 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
151. Well, she made a mistake, for sure.... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 12:32 AM Response to Reply #151 |
158. The end result is they offered, and she accepted, |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-14-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #158 |
174. That makes more sense. Lots of parents could |
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