I'm not disagreeing with you though, in fact I think the internet is both democratic and anarchistic.
http://a4a.mahost.org/black.html"The purpose of it is to illustrate that what people value most about the Internet comes from its anarchistic character: the free exchange of information and ideas among people around the world, without the intervention of a governing body.
Capitalists and other authoritarians would like to end this: they want nothing more than attempt to carve up the Internet into an array of corporate/government fiefdoms, to make it just another commodity."
It's interesting to note that Ghandi, who was influenced by the pacifist christian anarchist Leo Tolstoy, says basically, paraphrased, that "democracy without force would be 'the purest anarchy:'"
GANDHI ON NON-VIOLENT GOVERNMENT
The science of war leads one to dictatorship, pure and simple. The science of non- violence alone can lead one to pure democracy...The states that are today nominally democratic have either to become frankly totalitarian or, if they are to become truly democratic, they must become courageously non-violent. Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by fear of punishment and the other by arts of love. Power based on love is thousand times more effective and permanent than power derived from fear of punishment....
When a respectable minority objects to any rule of conduct, it would be dignified of the majority to yield...No organization can run smoothly when it is divided into two camps, each growling at each other and each determined to have its own way by hook or by crook...The spirit of democracy is not a mechanical thing to be adjusted by abolition of forms. It requires change of heart...My notion of democracy is that under it the weakest should have the same opportunity as the strongest. That can not happen except through non-violence...It is a blasphemy to say non-violence can be practiced only by individuals and never by nations which are compose of individuals...The nearest approach to purest anarchy would be a democracy based on non-violence...A society organized and run on the basis of complete non-violence would be the purest anarchy....
http://www.whatwouldghandido.netThere are things I disagree with Ghandi on, but thought it was interesting. There seems to be a lot of overlap between ideas that are anarchistic, democratic, and socialistic or communal...Basically ideas where society works for everyone rather than some particular socio-economic class.
I don't know if we can necessarily, instantly, become a "pure" libertarian anarchist pacifist socialist democratic society,(whew) if such a thing would even be possible or desirable, as they are ideals, but I think it is a direction we need to go in.
Edit:
I don't think the people are nearly so radical though. Many have a lifetime of corporate media in their heads. We all learn BS in school in history...So unfortunately I don't think people are all that familiar with their interests. The idea that the genuine interests of the people might actually be subversive and radical rather than halfway between democrats and republicans loses some people.