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Edited on Sat Jan-12-08 01:06 PM by AspieGrrl
You've got to be taught to hate and fear You've got to be taught from year to year It's got to be drummed in your dear little ear You've got to be carefully taught.
You've got to be taught to be afraid Of people whose eyes are oddly made And people whose skin is a different shade You've got to be carefully taught.
You've got to be taught before it's too late; Before you are 6 or 7 or 8 ! To hate all the people your relatives hate. You've got to be carefully taught..... You've got to be carefully taught.
--Oscar Hammerstein II
Children often do as they're told. If they're taught to hate, that's often what they'll grow up to do. If they're taught respect and tolerance for all people, and even celebration of our differences, that's what they'll grow up to do.
I was just thinking about this: one of the best things my parents ever did for me, when I was younger, was having me take swimming lessons, and later, go to a day camp at a center for children with disabillities. Both these programs were fully integrated. So for me, seeing someone in a wheelchair wasn't something to be pitied or gawked at - I learned, early on, that the fact that some people use wheelchairs or walkers, have hearing aids, or develop slower mentally was just a fact of life, much like people having different hair or skin colors, or speaking different languages.
I remember, when I was in junior high, our local school board implemented anti-homophobia workshops for all students. They were great, but parents were outraged! People were saying there should be an opt-out option, or that they shouldn't have them altogether. I remember seeing a news report on the topic, where an irate mother said "I do not want my children learning it's alright to be gay." And I just felt an immense sense of sadness, because she was teaching those kids to be intolerant. And what if one of them did turn out gay? How would she feel then? The school board did not continue the program the next year.
Kids are amazing. They have this great abillity to take everyone at face value - but only if you give them the opportunity to!
The point I wanted to get across here is, if you want to combat sexism, racism, homophobia, ableism, and whatever else, start with your kids. Expose them to a diverse group of people, and teach them that intolerance is wrong. They will listen.
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