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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:12 AM Original message |
Marriage. Did it work for you and why, or why not? |
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Balbus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:20 AM Response to Original message |
1. Married people are 100% more likely to get divorced than non-married people. |
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zalinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:22 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Yup, and if one wants to be married and the |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:46 AM Response to Reply #1 |
169. that is SO true. (and logical!) (and deep) n/t |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:23 AM Response to Original message |
3. Mawaige... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
177. I watched that last week. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:26 AM Response to Original message |
4. I think you have to want to be married |
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Changenow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:14 AM Response to Reply #4 |
48. Exactly |
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Ron Green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:26 AM Response to Original message |
5. Marriage has worked for me several times. |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:27 AM Response to Original message |
6. it worked great for 20 years |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:33 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Do you think respect is the key, or lack of? I've always thought that, |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:11 AM Response to Reply #9 |
16. respect, trust |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:55 AM Response to Reply #9 |
34. Respect is important, but... |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:03 AM Response to Reply #34 |
43. "Want to stay together." That's my marriage as well--and we've faced some enormous hardships. |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:11 AM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Oh, yes. There will be arguments! |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
63. Good observation! |
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and-justice-for-all (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:30 AM Response to Original message |
7. Next to my parents... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:11 AM Response to Reply #7 |
15. That does suck. I do honestly believe people are people, I don't |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:31 AM Response to Original message |
8. I did a lot of stupid shit when I was a kid. |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:41 AM Response to Original message |
10. 1st one ended because he beat me, the second has been peaceful bliss, non-stop laughter |
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aint_no_life_nowhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:15 PM Response to Reply #10 |
174. What a wonderful way to look at life together with someone. I admire you |
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clixtox (941 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:51 AM Response to Original message |
11. I have never made the same mistake... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:08 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. VN? PM me if you dare-I want to visit, seriously! |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:24 PM Response to Reply #11 |
64. Thanks for this uplifting post! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:52 PM Response to Reply #11 |
85. it works for you |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:44 AM Response to Reply #11 |
131. I have good relationships with past lovers too. but I have never |
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flordehinojos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:03 AM Response to Original message |
12. hmmm. |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:18 PM Response to Reply #12 |
62. Bingo. Thanks for posting that. |
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flordehinojos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 06:15 PM Response to Reply #62 |
95. ... |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 02:04 PM Response to Reply #95 |
139. Thank you...I'll toast that! |
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kimmylavin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:10 AM Response to Original message |
14. Works for me. :) |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:17 AM Response to Original message |
17. 27 years. |
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Faux pas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:36 AM Response to Original message |
18. Married once for 7 yrs. Divorced and promised myself to stay |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:47 AM Response to Original message |
19. I'm on my second marriage. |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 02:15 PM Response to Reply #19 |
141. What in the world is space opera |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 03:52 PM Response to Reply #141 |
146. I don't know if it would help YOUR marriage, but it didn't hurt ours. |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:10 PM Response to Reply #146 |
155. Thanks. From someone with such a neat sci fi website |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:05 AM Response to Reply #155 |
164. Well...my stuff is fantasy, not sci-fi... |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:20 AM Response to Reply #164 |
165. I sorta knew you were gonna say your stuff is fantasy. |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:30 AM Response to Reply #165 |
166. Thanks... |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:36 AM Response to Reply #166 |
167. But nowadays the masters of the physics world are finding |
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Mythsaje (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 03:12 AM Response to Reply #167 |
170. That's interesting. |
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MagickMuffin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
20. I have been with my Mate for 28 years now, and we are not married |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:28 AM Response to Reply #20 |
31. I will celebrate your successful relationship anytime you say... |
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MagickMuffin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:02 AM Response to Reply #31 |
35. I had to do a quick search, wanted to be certain that Texas has us covered |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 01:49 PM Response to Reply #35 |
172. If I hadn't been terrified that certain relatives would have a say over |
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melody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
21. Talk a lot and be good friends - we'll hit 30 in June n/t |
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some guy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 04:43 AM Response to Original message |
22. I guess it didn't work for me. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 05:02 AM Response to Original message |
23. Marriage? Eh, I guess I just couldn't pick'em till the guy I'm with picked me... |
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IdaBriggs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 05:09 AM Response to Original message |
24. 11 Years So Far. |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:08 AM Response to Reply #24 |
46. I liked your story of the married couple. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:27 PM Response to Reply #24 |
81. "but the heel is my favorite part!".... ahhhhhhhhhhh |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:44 AM Response to Reply #81 |
123. I loved that story about the sliced bread! You heel! |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 12:52 AM Response to Reply #24 |
119. NEVER marry someone, thinking you can change them later. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 05:58 AM Response to Original message |
25. My take |
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cornermouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 06:47 AM Response to Original message |
26. Selfishness, autocratic actions/orders, and a tendency |
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recoveringrepublican (779 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 06:50 AM Response to Original message |
27. Didn't work for my husband's first, lol, but we've been married for 8 |
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deacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 06:53 AM Response to Original message |
28. Because the 50/50 rule was always wrong. It's 100/100. n/t |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:03 AM Response to Original message |
29. Married at 21 (too young) divorced at 28. Married at 34 for 23 years in May. |
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KharmaTrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:14 AM Response to Original message |
30. 31 Years - 25 Legal...We're The Only Ones Who Can Put Up With Each Other |
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Trailrider1951 (933 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
32. I was married for six years. |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
33. The secret is finding someone as crazy as you are. |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:18 AM Response to Reply #33 |
37. I like this answer |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
36. Married almost 12 years now and very happily so. |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:24 AM Response to Original message |
38. never married |
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Th1onein (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #38 |
96. But the point isn't money....is it? |
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Djinn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 10:47 PM Response to Reply #96 |
109. not saying it should be |
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pdxmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
39. Been married for 25 years and it was the first marriage for both of us. I think |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
40. So far, 8 years and counting (knock wood) and I have no idea what the secret is |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 02:17 PM Response to Reply #40 |
142. Isn't it glorious when us difficult types finally find |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
41. Nope...took 23 years |
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Th1onein (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
42. Never worked for me. I'm too independent. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:15 PM Response to Reply #42 |
79. i would date guys that wanted me because of my independence |
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bigtree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
44. ya gotta like each other's company. period. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:07 AM Response to Original message |
45. Only 10 years so far for me, but we're really happy |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
49. There is no real secret.... |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
50. We met in 88, moved in together in 93, married in 96, and going strong |
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Sadie4629 (919 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
51. Coming up on 30 years |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
70. Sorry to read this... |
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Sadie4629 (919 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #70 |
94. One of the deciding factors for me |
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AlertLurker (877 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
52. Respect. Honesty. Interest. Committment. DESIRE. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #52 |
76. he's looking over my ..... lol lol so cute |
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Thothmes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
53. Married for 35 years this September |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
54. almost 15 years now. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:43 PM Response to Reply #54 |
106. Hey there, we celebrate 15 yrs this year, too! |
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ulysses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 03:39 PM Response to Reply #106 |
145. just a week later, 6/19. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:43 AM Response to Reply #145 |
168. Juneteenth!! Yeah!!! You Go!!! |
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TalkingDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
55. Clinical study and personal experience |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:43 PM Response to Reply #55 |
71. i have to agree with you post. i found so much true with my hubby |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
56. I am happily married. |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
57. I have no idea what the secret is...or if there even is one. |
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MindPilot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
58. Took two attempts to prove what I really knew all along. |
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Individualist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
59. Married for four years, got a divorce, said never again |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
60. Two strikes ... and I stopped swinging. |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
61. 20 years of marriage - every single year has SUCKED. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:26 PM Response to Reply #61 |
117. I'm so very sorry ...... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
65. working so far... a couple things. |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
66. I've been married five and a half years |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
67. Been married 44 years. Yea, there were some rough spots, but |
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kid a (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
68. still working after 19 years |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:46 PM Response to Reply #68 |
72. that is so cute |
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retread (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:40 PM Response to Original message |
69. 30+ years. Shear luck! Someone who is a much better human being than I am wanted |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:50 PM Response to Original message |
73. First time no |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
74. 4 years dating + 5 years of marriage... |
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KansDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 12:56 PM Response to Original message |
75. I've enjoyed 5 years of wedded bliss--but I've been married for 19. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
77. No, it didn't work for me at all ... |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
78. The first three didn't |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
80. My first one didn't work. This one works. |
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seemunkee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
82. 25 years and insanely in love |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:44 PM Response to Reply #82 |
107. awwwww...... |
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nonconformist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
83. I married young (21), and the odds were really against us... we're going on 14 years. |
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femmocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
84. Married.... almost 40 years!!! |
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stanwyck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:41 PM Response to Reply #84 |
90. Met in college. Married 29 years |
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Zoigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 01:57 PM Response to Original message |
86. Going on 44 years... |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
87. Some of us just aren't wired for marriage |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
88. I was married for thirty three years until death did us part. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
89. In my age group, every friend who got married |
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Spacemom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
91. Happily married for 15 years |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
92. 23 years here and I echo what so many others have said about stubborness |
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allalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
93. I was 17, he was 19 |
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alfredo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
97. I waited until I had settled down a bit. I was older and smarter. I found |
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DemReadingDU (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:22 PM Response to Original message |
98. This is a great thread! Love live happy marriages |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
99. I and my 3 sibs are children of divorced parents... |
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KG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
100. married 4 years. been single since it ended 20 years ago. |
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Binka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:59 AM Response to Reply #100 |
124. The Marriage Thing Has Never Worked For Me |
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Neshanic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
101. Not married. Parents married for 50 years. But then again they never ate at Olive Garden. |
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Radio_Lady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:39 AM Response to Reply #101 |
122. Audio Al and I eat at the Olive Garden, but not frequently! (Please don't reveal our secret!) |
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boomboom (483 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
102. i've tried, I would like to succeed, i'm just not very good at it |
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Yavapai (554 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
103. It has always worked for me, |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
104. I think it's a decision to remain married |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:42 PM Response to Original message |
105. Happily married almost 15 yrs. |
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Batgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
108. our union has been reinforced by an ongoing series of secrecy pacts |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 10:57 PM Response to Reply #108 |
111. i love the cat pee pact.... that is cute |
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Batgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:06 PM Response to Reply #111 |
114. Batspouse says "I'm glad these people don't know who we are for real" |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
110. the secret is putting up with it when it becomes boring |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:00 PM Response to Reply #110 |
112. i dont get the boring thing. people talk to me about boring, |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:02 PM Response to Reply #112 |
113. I don't either |
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Greylyn58 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:15 PM Response to Original message |
115. I was married for 10 years until he decided to leave me |
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kineneb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jan-19-08 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
116. in sickness and in health- 26 years |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 12:47 AM Response to Original message |
118. this is one of my favorite threads. reading |
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krispos42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:25 AM Response to Original message |
120. No |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
121. Don't know, I live under Jim Crow laws in a country |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
125. The secret is 100% desire to be with each other... |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
126. It did not work for me. |
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Clintonista2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
127. No. Reason: The gays |
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spanone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
128. married in 1976....still married |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:18 AM Response to Original message |
129. I'll have to ask around |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
130. I was married till death we did part. |
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pleah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
132. 24 years, getting close to 25. |
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chicagolefty (38 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
133. Ask me again in 20 years |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
134. No. |
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piedmont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
135. Working great for us after 5 yrs. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:39 PM Response to Original message |
136. 35 years next month, and don't let any one kid you it's HARD work....if |
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dajoki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
137. Today just happens to be our 29th anniversary... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 03:09 PM Response to Reply #137 |
143. happy 29th. i love your post |
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dajoki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 03:53 PM Response to Reply #143 |
147. Thank you seabeyond... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 06:20 PM Response to Reply #147 |
150. my pleasure |
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krabigirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 01:57 PM Response to Original message |
138. First time around, nope. Divorced after 2 years. 2nd time has been going well. :) |
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FDRLincoln (947 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 02:07 PM Response to Original message |
140. friendship |
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shanti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
144. sadly, but no |
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Mz Pip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 03:55 PM Response to Original message |
148. First time - no |
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ileus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
149. NO...No...Yes |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
151. Married at 17. Non-shotgun. Two daughters in their 30's. I am 52 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:20 PM Response to Reply #151 |
156. wait..married at 17, 52 now. 35 years and you dont know how wife FEELS |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:32 PM Response to Reply #156 |
158. Well I hated to try and speak for her |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 09:27 PM Response to Reply #158 |
160. aaaahhhhhhhh |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
152. Worked out great for me |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 09:31 PM Response to Reply #152 |
162. i have gotta say |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:22 PM Response to Reply #162 |
175. Well, she does kinda make easy for me. |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
153. You are all great! Thank you all for sharing your personal |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
154. Worked out great |
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ozone_man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:20 PM Response to Original message |
157. Finding your soul mate. |
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momster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 07:33 PM Response to Original message |
159. Almost 20 Years Married |
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grannylib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
161. What's worked for me is 1) marrying someone I knew well |
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azmouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jan-20-08 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
163. I couldn't imagine my life without my husband of just over 20 yrs. |
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Mister Ed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
171. Mom knows best. She can answer in two words: |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 02:11 PM Response to Original message |
173. I always said that there would be less divorces if ..... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-21-08 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
176. It didn't work, for various reasons. |
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