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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:44 PM Original message |
NJ: Man must pay support for child not his |
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THUNDER HANDS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
1. well, that's odd |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. They may not have a clue as to who the "real" father is - and in the |
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Bok_Tukalo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:51 PM Original message |
So the man should be punished for the actions of the mother? |
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jody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
9. Corollary question should society support the child and be punished for the actions of the mother?nt |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:58 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. Good question - though the impact of that cost to "society" is far less onerous |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:02 PM Response to Reply #9 |
52. Well, certainly that would be better than punishing one completely innocent man. |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #9 |
57. yes of course |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:47 AM Response to Reply #9 |
154. Yes |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:19 PM Response to Reply #154 |
194. Professor, this man has acted as the child's father for ten years. He is her legal father |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:27 PM Response to Reply #194 |
212. Ummm |
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Winterblues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 12:32 PM Response to Reply #9 |
165. Yes most definitely |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 12:43 PM Response to Reply #9 |
166. Yes - Society has an interest in protecting our kids. |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:25 PM Response to Reply #9 |
211. Thats loaded |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
37. He raised her as his child until she was ten years old.... |
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HooptieWagon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:07 PM Response to Reply #37 |
114. I believe that's the law |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:07 PM Response to Reply #114 |
189. In the dark ages of America, yes that was the law, but it's not now. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #37 |
117. We don't actually know that |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:54 AM Response to Reply #117 |
158. I agree about the testing. How much does the testing cost? nt |
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Yavapai (554 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 05:22 PM Response to Reply #117 |
230. Hmmmm... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:43 PM Response to Reply #37 |
177. Yes he is and he ought to get back-payment |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
41. I'll stand by the little girl. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:45 PM Response to Reply #41 |
99. fine...as long as YOU'RE willing to pay the child support... |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:17 PM Response to Reply #99 |
134. The guy from NJ is scum. If I had raised this child from the time she |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:01 PM Response to Reply #134 |
186. Wow, what a judgemental attitude. |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 09:51 AM Response to Reply #186 |
237. Haven't you heard, BoneDaddy? |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 10:10 AM Response to Reply #237 |
241. Exactly |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:33 PM Response to Reply #134 |
214. "The guy from NJ is scum" |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
229. punished by actions of mother and the real father... |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. But you can punish the non-parent for the actions of the other two? |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #5 |
42. I'll stand by the little girl. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:47 PM Response to Reply #42 |
101. As long as it's of no consequence to you. n/t |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:19 PM Response to Reply #42 |
135. Right, the interests of the child come first |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. Then let the state pay. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:10 PM Response to Reply #6 |
26. Exactly. It isn't a question of poverty for the child. |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #6 |
44. I'll stand by the little girl. |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:10 PM Response to Reply #44 |
58. At least you are consistent. nt. |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:13 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Being a dad has nothing to do with DNA, it has to do with loving and |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:16 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. At least you are consistent. nt. |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:14 PM Response to Reply #60 |
85. He isn't turning his back- he just doesn't want his payments raised |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:35 PM Response to Reply #60 |
216. Have you ever been in that situation? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:51 PM Response to Reply #44 |
77. What's your salary? Maybe they got the wrong guy. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:07 PM Response to Reply #44 |
80. Then pay money to the little girl. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:53 AM Response to Reply #44 |
157. So Will I |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:54 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. then maybe we ought to go after the mother that had enough men to |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:46 PM Response to Reply #8 |
45. I'll stand by the little girl. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. how noble, yet not..... standing by the little girl does not include |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:11 PM Response to Reply #50 |
59. Being a Father has nothing to do with DNA or sperm. It has to do |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:36 PM Response to Reply #59 |
70. so being a father is going to be him PAYING for this girl. that to you is what a father IS |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #70 |
128. He's been the only father she has known for ten years! And now |
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atreides1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 11:40 AM Response to Reply #128 |
244. I Beg to Differ |
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Yavapai (554 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 05:30 PM Response to Reply #59 |
231. "Being a Father has nothing to do with DNA or sperm"????? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 05:35 PM Response to Reply #231 |
232. ohhhh forest |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:17 PM Response to Reply #50 |
63. At another's expense? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #63 |
73. i am not here about the emotional particpation of the man. this is court of law |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:40 PM Response to Reply #73 |
96. Maybe if you'd actually write in real English |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:05 PM Response to Reply #96 |
130. Thank you! For being practically the only goddamned Human Being |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:54 PM Response to Reply #130 |
140. truly offensive. |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 09:09 PM Response to Reply #140 |
147. You don't seem to care at all about the girl - only about the man who |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 10:11 PM Response to Reply #147 |
149. what an outrageously stupid assumption i dont care about the little girl |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:38 PM Response to Reply #147 |
175. Caring for one does not preclude caring for the other... |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:22 PM Response to Reply #140 |
151. NO, what is truly offensive and arrogant is your |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 11:35 PM Response to Reply #151 |
152. where in the article does it say he has loved and treated her a daughter for 10 yrs |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:38 AM Response to Reply #152 |
153. The law's job is to ensure that the best interests of the child |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:02 PM Response to Reply #153 |
188. Would it serve the best interest ofthe child to name Warren Buffet as father? |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:12 PM Response to Reply #153 |
192. "regardless of convenience or fairness to the parents" |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:41 PM Response to Reply #153 |
218. No! |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:42 PM Response to Reply #45 |
97. You Keep Repeating This Mindless Line. It Means Absolutely Nothing, Ya Know. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:23 PM Response to Reply #45 |
136. money talks, bullshit walks...you don't stand by anyone |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 07:43 AM Response to Reply #45 |
234. What an arrogant person you are |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:09 PM Response to Reply #8 |
131. we don't really know that what you say about the mother is true |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #3 |
18. "you can't punish the child for the actions of her parents" |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:46 PM Response to Reply #18 |
46. I'll stand by the little girl. |
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TheFriendlyAnarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:45 PM Response to Reply #46 |
100. We get it. You can stop now. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:55 PM Response to Reply #100 |
108. She has no actual argument so hopes that repetition will carry the day for her. (NT) |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:40 PM Response to Reply #46 |
176. Then open your wallet... n/t |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:55 PM Response to Reply #18 |
49. He was foolish enough not to take appropriate action when originally cuckolded. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:31 PM Response to Reply #49 |
67. Remind me again why blaming the victim is a bad thing. n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 04:51 PM Response to Reply #49 |
226. fuckin A then ALL men should dna the newborn to not get cuckolded |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:05 PM Response to Reply #3 |
22. Yeah but you can't punish some random guy either |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:47 PM Response to Reply #22 |
47. I'll stand by the little girl. |
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yella_dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:06 PM Response to Reply #47 |
55. Let me get this straight. |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:16 PM Response to Reply #55 |
62. Right! DNA doesn't make a dad, love and caring do. This guy |
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Bentcorner (385 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:09 PM Response to Reply #62 |
191. Tell you what, since DNA supposedly doesn't matter, why don't you |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:42 PM Response to Reply #55 |
219. LOL |
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Dr. Strange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:30 PM Response to Reply #47 |
66. I just talked to the little girl. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:35 PM Response to Reply #47 |
69. Maybe you should pay the child support then |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:00 PM Response to Reply #69 |
124. If she had been my daughter for ten years, I would and never look back. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:02 PM Response to Reply #124 |
127. I'm a woman |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #127 |
132. The little girl didn't lie to him. I have no respect, no compassion |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #132 |
169. You seem to know a lot about their relationship. More than the article reveals. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:03 PM Response to Reply #124 |
129. "A child needs a dad, the genetics don't matter." |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:01 PM Response to Reply #124 |
168. So you've ignored that girl for ten years and NOW you say you'll "stand" by her. n/t |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:44 PM Response to Reply #124 |
178. "A child needs a dad" |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:00 PM Response to Reply #47 |
167. But you won't do anything - boy, that girl is sure lucky to have you "stand" with her. n/t |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 10:05 AM Response to Reply #47 |
239. And I'll stand by this Ignore. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
98. But he's not a random guy. He was the legal father of this child for 10 years. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:59 PM Response to Reply #98 |
111. Only because he was lied to for 10 years |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:18 PM Response to Reply #111 |
116. Did I write that it was okay? Not from a social perspective. |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:07 PM Response to Reply #3 |
56. So, basically a man has to pay to support a child that is not his? |
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Dhalgren (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:23 PM Response to Reply #56 |
64. But he also gets to be a dad. He gets to love and care for a little |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:38 PM Response to Reply #64 |
71. If he chooses to be a father to a child who isn't biologically his, then more power to him |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:55 PM Response to Reply #64 |
107. "Gets"? The word you're looking for is "obliged". n/t |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #107 |
118. I think that must be one of those "male privileges" I hear so much about |
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Tiberius (798 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 11:59 AM Response to Reply #64 |
162. But... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:45 PM Response to Reply #64 |
179. BFD |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:51 PM Response to Reply #179 |
184. to many men it is a bfd, and to some it is not. |
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atreides1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 11:54 AM Response to Reply #64 |
245. I read the story |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:23 PM Response to Reply #3 |
210. Ummm |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
198. No shit. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 05:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
233. There's a great proverb in Jamaica |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
2. Ten years is a bit late to challenge this. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:56 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. ten years is fuckin tooooo long for the mom to have lied about it. you are right |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
23. Honestly, it's not about him. It's about the child. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:11 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. Absent a formal adoption, parenting has everything to do with DNA. n/t |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:13 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. Actually, you're wrong. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:33 PM Response to Reply #29 |
68. In what way is unwillingly being forced to support a child who is unrelated to you "parenting"? |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #68 |
74. According to the law: the previous years spent parenting willingly. |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 10:09 AM Response to Reply #68 |
240. Self delete |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #23 |
220. Short of finding real dad and suing him |
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piedmont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:56 PM Response to Reply #2 |
12. He didn't wait ten years. He challenged it as soon as he knew he wasn't the father. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:02 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. Legally, that's really irrelevant. |
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piedmont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:10 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. He acted as father for ten years because he was lied to --defrauded-- ten years. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #25 |
33. Does he know who he is? |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:34 PM Response to Reply #25 |
38. So... |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. "his feelings of fatherly love and his obligations as father should be terminated" |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:11 PM Response to Reply #25 |
115. well, this is something for guys to remember. once a guy has taken |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:51 PM Response to Reply #20 |
104. they divorced when the kid was 2 years old... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:16 PM Response to Reply #12 |
133. actually, that's not true either |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #2 |
17. Yes, here in California the limit is two years |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:10 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. I think every father examines the child to look for some clear physical markers. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:26 PM Response to Reply #24 |
36. Joe was in big-time denial for about six months |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:46 PM Response to Reply #24 |
119. I hope you're kidding, that's some pretty f*ed up thinking. |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
221. Yea I was pretty fortunate |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:50 PM Response to Reply #24 |
223. You know I have a friend whos kid came out the wrong type.. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #17 |
32. DNA testing at birth is a good idea for the man. |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:00 PM Response to Reply #32 |
51. Right, it will never happen, because our society is SOOOOO anti-man, and matriarchy really sucks. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:38 PM Response to Reply #51 |
72. You really don't get it. This is the patriarchy in 96 point type. |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:20 PM Response to Reply #17 |
34. I think they should do paternity tests at birth |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:49 PM Response to Reply #34 |
75. Between 10% and 30% of people are unrelated to "dad". |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #75 |
83. Actually that link mostly says "nobody really knows". |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:49 PM Response to Reply #83 |
102. That's true. 10-30% is a big range. |
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jody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
4. Does the man have grounds for a civil suit against the real father? n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
13. the real father that probably has NO clue he is a father, cause the woman said NOT |
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Radical Activist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:57 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. Maybe against the mother. |
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cgrindley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
7. That's an injustice |
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ingac70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
10. If I was this guy I would take this to the Supreme Court.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 02:58 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. i agree. i am disgusted by this case. and the woman that so many are letting slide n/t |
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DadOf2LittleAngels (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:52 PM Response to Reply #15 |
224. But why wont you stand by the girl? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #10 |
28. He'll still lose. The judge isn't the problem, it's the anachronistic laws. n/t |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:50 PM Response to Reply #10 |
183. Take the child away from that piece of trash |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
19. there are plenty of precedents for this (not that i agree with any of them) |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:04 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Now I find that hard to believe. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:14 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. If the overriding concern is "the welfare of the child", then why is it hard to believe? |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #21 |
31. the judge's reasoning |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 09:05 AM Response to Reply #31 |
159. Did the guy try to contest this? nt |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 12:15 PM Response to Reply #159 |
163. i don't remember how that went |
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iamthebandfanman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
35. stupid. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
39. I guess it's like palimony for parents |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
40. That is some really insane bullshit. |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
48. Once you sign as father on the birth certificate, you are officially the dad unless some other |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:04 PM Response to Reply #48 |
53. If they hadn't been married, it would be different, But, IIRC, it has been a long-standing part of |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:05 PM Response to Reply #48 |
54. I never signed a birth certificate, yet my son has one. |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #54 |
120. That's bizarre... |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #120 |
123. There wasn't a line that said "sign here for receipt of one baby" |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:01 PM Response to Reply #123 |
126. We did... I don't know, I guess it varies state to state. |
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BronxBoy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 09:53 AM Response to Reply #123 |
160. Who delivered him |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:29 PM Response to Reply #48 |
65. I don't remember ever being asked to sign a birth certificate. n/t |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #48 |
113. "I am so fed up with irresponsible men..." |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:52 AM Response to Reply #48 |
156. If you sign a contract after being deceived into doing so, isn't that typically, y'know, |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
76. Our legal system is based on English common law. |
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sarcasmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 04:56 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. How can you be annoyed when the child isn't even his. I tell you this system is screwed |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:09 PM Response to Reply #78 |
141. Define "real father" |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 12:27 PM Response to Reply #141 |
164. That's Not Where The Logic Goes, Ellen |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
79. what kind of asswipe stops loving, caring for and parenting a child |
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sarcasmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:11 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. Don't you think the SKANK mother knew all along? |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:14 PM Response to Reply #81 |
84. so what if she did? did he not love and care for this child? n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:17 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. so what??? so what if the woman lies to the man, lies to her child |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:28 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. for starters, you're making shit up ... i never said the woman had no responsibility |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:57 PM Response to Reply #92 |
109. He is merely trying to lower his payments |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:52 PM Response to Reply #92 |
144. 1. It's not his daughter |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #79 |
82. He and mom got divorced 2 years after she was born. |
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Supersedeas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:34 PM Response to Reply #82 |
94. don't let the fact get in the way of the "he acted as a caring, loving parent" for ten years theory |
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endarkenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:18 PM Response to Reply #79 |
88. She is not his daughter. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:29 PM Response to Reply #88 |
93. because he may not be the sperm donor, but he is her father n/t |
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Thothmes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:06 PM Response to Reply #88 |
170. In some States |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:52 PM Response to Reply #79 |
105. I guess choice is overrated. n/t |
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opiate69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:52 PM Response to Reply #79 |
139. selfish?? |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:13 PM Response to Reply #79 |
171. He may never have loved her, he may have never been good to her.... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:16 PM Response to Original message |
86. Holy Cow What Utter Bullshit. He Shouldn't Owe A Dime. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:25 PM Response to Original message |
89. Does anyone know if the mother knew all along? And does the bio father even know |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
90. Here's The True Lesson: When You're Horny Hire A Professional |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:49 PM Response to Reply #90 |
121. That's a really hateful and uncalled for comment. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. Do you think it's OK for a woman to look for evidence? n/t |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #121 |
148. It's The Truth |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 10:17 PM Response to Reply #148 |
150. yup. and there are a lot of dumbshit |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 11:43 AM Response to Reply #150 |
161. That's Why I Posted That Such Men Need To Hire A Pro |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:15 PM Response to Reply #150 |
172. Use a condom - and flush it when you're done n/t |
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theredpen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #172 |
208. I'm not gay, but it's seems like it would be worth the effort to try, if this is "justice" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 04:53 PM Response to Reply #208 |
227. gay it is then |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
91. The guy's an asshole |
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Roland99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:36 PM Response to Reply #91 |
95. Link does not go to article but if he raised her for 10 years, I agree... |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:54 PM Response to Reply #95 |
106. they divorced when the kid was 2 years old... |
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Roland99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:58 PM Response to Reply #106 |
110. Must be my phone's browser. But, sounds like the article needs more detail. n/t |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:45 PM Response to Reply #95 |
180. I read the article doing the same thing, looking to see if |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:08 PM Response to Reply #180 |
190. that is why i am "feeling" this man probably hasnt been much of a father |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 08:50 AM Response to Reply #91 |
155. Why don't YOU support the child? |
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walldude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:48 PM Response to Reply #155 |
182. Legally he shouldn't have to. |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
103. if the judge wants to put the interest of the child first- then THE JUDGE should pay for the kid... |
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piedmont (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 06:03 PM Response to Reply #103 |
112. The interests of the child would be BEST served if Bill Gates were declared her father. |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
125. just for the record, we don't actually know if his claim about non-paternity is even true |
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dkofos (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:25 PM Response to Original message |
137. It sucks to be him. |
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Kingofalldems (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 07:27 PM Response to Original message |
138. Kevin Meany's mother says: |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
142. Deleted message |
martymar64 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
143. The lesson for single guys |
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Girlieman (399 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
145. Happens all the time |
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GOTV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:18 PM Response to Reply #145 |
173. It's a common reproductive strategy in nature.... |
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roamer65 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jan-28-08 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
146. IF this woman knew this guy was not the father... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
174. Deleted message |
seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:47 PM Response to Reply #174 |
181. personally i dont trust a single person, at all, any gender, because |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:02 PM Response to Reply #174 |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:24 PM Response to Reply #187 |
197. What? That women can and ARE just as cold and cruel as men? |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
185. Holy shit |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:14 PM Response to Reply #185 |
193. I think it's pretty well divided between the sexes |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:35 PM Response to Reply #193 |
201. But the level of the derogatory statements |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:46 PM Response to Reply #201 |
204. Wow! |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:12 PM Response to Reply #204 |
206. It's the whole use of woman-specific derogatory terms |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:23 PM Response to Reply #206 |
209. A spade is a spade, however you want to color it! |
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malakai2 (483 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:23 PM Response to Reply #185 |
196. That's cool |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:28 PM Response to Reply #196 |
199. Don't know where you got that |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:35 PM Response to Reply #199 |
200. Men stealing from women is okay with you. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:08 PM Response to Reply #200 |
205. Uh, no, never said anything like that |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:37 PM Response to Reply #205 |
217. Deleted message |
Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 10:48 AM Response to Reply #217 |
242. What women know is that so-called "nice guys" aren't. |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:38 PM Response to Reply #185 |
203. You advocate that it is okay for men to defraud women. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:14 PM Response to Reply #203 |
207. No where do I advocate that |
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Kansas Wyatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #207 |
225. You think it is fine for a man to be victimized. |
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msanthrope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
195. Children born of a marriage are presumed to be |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
202. I just wish there would be someone brave enough to stand with the little girl around here |
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theredpen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:29 PM Response to Reply #202 |
213. What does "standing with the little girl" mean? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 05:06 PM Response to Reply #202 |
228. i can easily stand with the little girl, but would have nothing to do with forcing |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 09:43 AM Response to Reply #202 |
236. I Am Standing For Her. Let DCFS Pay For Her Care |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 09:58 AM Response to Reply #236 |
238. My friend, you may be misunderstanding my statement. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jan-30-08 11:28 AM Response to Reply #238 |
243. Sorry |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jan-29-08 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
215. That happened to a friend of mine here. |
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222. Indeed, |
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235. Then don't call it child support. |
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