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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:14 AM
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~ 'Ode to a Single Mother' ~ and a Happy Mother's Day to all the DU Moms!
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Ode to a Single Mother

She's fixer of sinks
and drier of tears
Anxious, yet valiant
allayer of fears.

She works a full day
Commutes home, and then
She works another
full-time job, again.

She's master accountant
And counselor, too
She sets aside worries
to listen to you.

There's laundry and cooking
and cleaning to do.
Homework, then bathtime
A story or two.

She's finder of toys
And righter of wrongs.
She's busy. She's tired.
She's lonely. She's strong.

When the day is done,
The kids safely in bed,
No energy's left
for the thoughts in her head.

She turns them all off
along with the lights.
Crawls under covers -
Gives in to the night.

Before the rise of the sun
She be up and back to it.
There's no other option
No one else to do it.

If you, too, know this woman
(she goes by many names)
Applaud her, she belongs to
no ascribed hall of fame.

But a tacit sisterhood,
Arduous like no other,
Of extraordinary women
Also know as Single Mothers.


Written by Tamara Sue Appelman, Butyoudontlooksick.com, © 2006
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fasttense Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:17 AM
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1. Thanks.
After the Republicans voted against Mother's Day in the House, I was afraid everyone was anti-Mother.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:20 AM
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4. Happy Mother's Day, fasttense!
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:18 AM
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2. thank you for this....
:hug:

I was one for a while, and know many...
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:21 AM
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5. Happy Mother's Day, malta blue!
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livvy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:20 AM
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3. Very nice! Happy to sign on with a Happy Mom's Day greeting 'toon from me! KnR
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:23 AM
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6. LOL! That's very cute! - Happy Mother's Day!
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glowing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:29 AM
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7. Nice poem.. single or not.. it pretty much describes most moms these
Edited on Sun May-11-08 07:30 AM by glowing
days.. work, work, work.

ON EDIT: Wouldn't change one precious moment for any empty house with less mess.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 07:33 AM
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8. True but single Moms don't have that extra hand...
So, I wanted to give them a little something extra special today.

Happy Mother's Day!



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glowing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-12-08 05:02 AM
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26. Totally agree..
My hubby and I work a lot of opposites to make the household work.. On those days, I really feel for single parents who don't get the break.
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wellstone dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 08:37 AM
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9. This single mom has tears in her eyes, thank you
I have worked serving single moms for years, and then adopted a 9 year old. People have asked me the hardest part of parenthood, and my answer is always being a single mom. I had served single moms for years, and had no idea of the loneliness involved and the strength required. And many single moms have it so much harder. I have family in the area. I work in a job where I could bring my daughter to work when needed, or where I could take sick time to meet her needs without risking my job. "She's lonely. She's strong." is what brought the tears.

And when I left campus after dropping my daughter off for her first year of college she gave me two gifts. That night when I opened them, I remembered again why this is the best thing I've ever done. She gave me two mugs. One said, "Griz Mom." The other said, "Griz Dad." I love that kid.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 08:46 AM
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10. Awe.... Happy Mother's Day!
I was/am a single Mother too, so I know what you mean. I didn't plan to be a single Mom, but divorce made it so.
It was a lonely, tough and exhausting job when they were little but it got easier as they got older and matured.
They're all grown up now... only one at home.

Happy Mother's Day, wellstone dem! :hug:


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wellstone dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 09:34 AM
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11. Right back at you--Happy Mother's Day to you! nt
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 09:40 AM
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13. You're the first to say that to me today...
So, Thanks!! :D
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 09:36 AM
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12. Proud to be the 5th rec!
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 09:42 AM
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14. Happy Mother's Day, BlueIris!
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:00 AM
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16. Thanks! I'm kidless, though, the K & R was really for others...
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:11 AM
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18. Doesn't matter....
I'm sure you've 'mothered' someone at some point! ;)
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electron_blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 09:58 AM
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15. Thank you for posting that! I love it.
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:10 AM
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17. You're Welcome!
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barbtries Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:13 AM
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19. thank you
from a single mother.

and happy mothers day
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:27 AM
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21. Thank You, barbtries!
Happy Mother's Day to you too!
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cal04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:22 AM
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20. Happy Mother's Day to you Breeze54
Edited on Sun May-11-08 10:22 AM by cal04
and thank you for that. And thank you to my kids for always being so terrific when I didn't always make the right decisions, I love You.
Happy Mother's Day to everyone whether they are single or not
:hug: :hi:
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:28 AM
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22. Thank You, cal04!
I hope you have a great day today! :hug:

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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:41 AM
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23. This is beautiful, Breeze!
And as a single mother, it brought tears
to my eyes.

Thank you so much!

Happy Mother's Day, my friend.

:D :pals:
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 10:47 AM
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24. You deserve a big hug today!
Edited on Sun May-11-08 10:48 AM by Breeze54
It's a hard job but also a good one!

I didn't mean to make you cry though! :D

Happy Mother's Day, Kajsa! :pals:

I hope you have a wonderful day today!
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Kajsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-11-08 06:12 PM
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25. They were good tears.

I hope you have a wonderful day, too.

:hug:
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