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brooklynite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:02 AM
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Levi Johnston: Bristol Palin's Abstinence Campaign "Unrealistic"
Edited on Wed May-06-09 11:03 AM by brooklynite
Source: Huffington Post

It's Palin vs. Johnston again. This time Levi Johnston, the former fiancee of Sarah Palin's teenage daughter Bristol, went on CBS The Early Show to comment on Bristol's new abstinence campaign. Levi and Bristol's son, Tripp, was born in December. Levi has gone on the record to point out the pregnancy was an accident that may have happened during the "few times" they didn't wear condoms.

This morning, Bristol was on Good Morning America to kick off her abstinence campaign. Today she'll speak on a panel in New York to promote the issue.

Levi was asked whether he thought Bristol's campaign was effective.

"Abstinence is a great idea," he said, "but I also think you need to enforce, you know, condoms and birth control and other things like that to have safe sex. I don't just think telling young kids, you can't have sex, it's not going to work. It's not realistic.


Read more: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/05/06/levi-johnston-bristol-pal_n_197659.html



If you kids don't stop arguing, I'm going to stop the car right now!

(seriously, I'm, having a hard time imagining Levi as the intelligent person in this debate...)
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WI_DEM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:04 AM
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1. Well he's right of course, but I have a hard time imagining that Bristol was his first and only
so that is another reason why he may feel it's unrealistic.
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Tempest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:16 AM
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5. Word on the streets of Wasilla is that Levi got another girl pregnant

And that's why Bristol is pissed off at him.
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Winterblues Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 12:01 PM
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12. Word on the street is Bristol was enjoying sex long before Levi also.
:shrug: I find it difficult to believe anything from the Palin Clan...They have a history of not be completely truthful.
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Tempest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 12:19 PM
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15. And now she's hooked up with a 30 year old swim coach

He's the swim coach at her old high school.
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:42 PM
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35. Jesus! Those snowbillies are straight up Springer material
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SpiralHawk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:55 PM
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40. And that makes them Total Republicon Homelander flag bearers for...
their funky, funky Republicon Homelander Familee Pharisee Values...

What a colossal crock o' crap the republicons have been shoveling at America for lo these many years...
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knixphan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:05 PM
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60. LOL
so true
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LisaL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:54 PM
Response to Reply #35
68. LOL.
Edited on Wed May-06-09 09:55 PM by LisaL
Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:49 AM
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86. "snowbillies"!!! That's too perfect I'm stealing *that* one fair & square
:spray: :kick:
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konnichi wa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:49 PM
Response to Reply #15
47. Practicing the breast stroke?
haw haw haw
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marshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:09 PM
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31. I'm sure Levi believes no female would turn down his studliness
In his mind abstinence is not possible when women are in his presence.

Hopefully females will start closing the door to this guy.
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rainbow4321 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:59 PM
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48. Which is why she left her pre-Levi boyfriend a message
On his myspace in June 2007 "my mom heard us on the phone last night and she asked me if I am pregnant". Now, WHAT exactly did Palin hear that made her think that???? The guy's name was Johnny...he was who she was hooked up with prior to being with Levi.
Has she NOT fucked ANY of the boys she's had a relationship with? And why in her very last myspace entry did she refer to HERSELF as "a slut"??
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:15 AM
Response to Reply #48
79. How old are you?
Seriously.
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AndyA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:06 AM
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2. Mr. Johnston is correct. Teaching abstinence won't work, and hasn't worked.
Haven't teen age pregnancies gone up under the * Admin's abstinence policy? Facts and figures don't lie: abstinence only doesn't work...birth control and safer sex education must be taught as well.
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:12 AM
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3. Not only does birth control need to be taught, it needs to be made easily available
for those who decide not to practice abstinence.
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Dogtown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:13 AM
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4. He should know...
:spank:
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TheCowsCameHome Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:17 AM
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6. Sarah -"If you kids don't stop arguing, I'm climbing in the back seat with you"
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Tempest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:18 AM
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7. Here's my question on Bristol's tour

Alaska has one of the highest teenage pregnancy rates in the nation.

Why isn't the Palins in Alaska preaching this crap?

And why hasn't Sarah done anything to lower the teenage pregnancy rate in Alaska?
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moggie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:22 AM
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9. Teenage pregnancy = more Alaskans?
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Tangerine LaBamba Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:20 AM
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8. Apparently, Bristol got "the message from Mom"
I watched the young lady being interviewed by Greta van Sustern when the kid, quite intelligently and from an informed perspective, said, very clearly, that she didn't think abstinence was "realistic."

No sooner did she say that than her mother busted in and took over the interview. It was one of the more jolting and shameful performances I've seen, even starring Governor Palin. She absolutely steamrolled whatever the girl had said and just took over. The daughter sat there, looking blank, and, to me, anyway, a bit pissed.

Now Bristol is advocating abstinence? Well, with an infant to take care of, her high school classes to tend to, and living under her mother's eagle eye, I doubt the kid has a chance to get laid, even if anyone dared take THAT on. Methinks that Bristol's sex life is on hold for a long, long time.

Meanwhile, I hope Levi's getting it everywhere, all the time, from every girl he can handle. I hope Levi's getting so much, he suffers from dehydration.

:popcorn:
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:42 AM
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10. palin should be ashamed of using her daughter
a formerly pregnant teen on tour promoting abstinence :eyes: totally absurd.
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Tempest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:47 AM
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11. Sarah Palin herself was an unwed pregnant teen

She was pregnant with her oldest when she married.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 12:05 PM
Response to Reply #11
14. the palins promoting abstinence is a cynical joke
Edited on Wed May-06-09 12:06 PM by noiretextatique
typical republican doublespeak: do as i say, not as i do :puke:
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superconnected Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:36 PM
Response to Reply #11
21. Not to mention Sarah at 40 is still getting knocked up.
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pink-o Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:57 PM
Response to Reply #21
25. Unless Trig is Bristol's first kid...I never believed the birthdates they tried to put across!
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:17 AM
Response to Reply #21
80. Yeah, because that's a sin.
:eyes:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:39 AM
Response to Reply #80
90. It's not exactly a good idea.
Because of dangers the poor little guy happens to illustrate.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 03:09 AM
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92. Well, that's why God invented amniocentesis, genetic screening, abortion, and CHOICE.
So that fertile women of any age could mitigate those relatively small and overblown risks and go on to nurture and love their (most often) very wanted and cherished children.

For the wanted child and contentious mother, it's a fan-fucking-tastic idea.
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Number23 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 05:38 AM
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97. Well said.
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polichick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 12:01 PM
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13. Good for him - the Palins are delusional.
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Alcibiades Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 12:31 PM
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16. The media hate Palin
That's the only reason they go after her! Or so the RW keeps parroting.

Of course, they must also hate Lindsay Lohan, Brittney Spears, etc.

They really don't hate any of these folks. They love them. Sleeze sells, and the Palins are sleezy people.
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endarkenment Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:03 PM
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17. Not to beat around the bush, but abstinence is a fucking fantasy. nt.
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ieoeja Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 02:17 PM
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26. Actually, it's a non-fucking fantasy. nt
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Regret My New Name Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 05:13 PM
Response to Reply #17
50. HAH! Speak for yourself...
I don't seem to have a choice in the matter though. Any idea how horrible it is being a 37 year old virgin?
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:24 PM
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74. Deleted message
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Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:38 PM
Response to Reply #74
77. That was cruel and uncalled for..
A shy, unattractive person can have an extremely hard time getting a sexual partner, particularly so if they are male and don't have a lot of money. Such a person could be OCD about cleanliness and still not have any success with the opposite sex.

Like a lot of things, getting a sexual partner is a matter of practice, the more you do it the easier it becomes. The opposite sex can seem like a different and totally foreign species to some people.
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comtec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 04:42 AM
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94. not to mention soul-crushingly cruel!
My wife is probably the most wonderful woman in the world... but she has her days as well.

Women are cruel beasts.

pretty, soft, and fun, but brutally cruel.
And if you aren't exactly "it", you can forger about anything ever!
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SerfinUSA Donating Member (37 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:03 PM
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18. Will no one rid of this meddlesome woman? n/t
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nichomachus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 02:17 PM
Response to Reply #18
27. Last time someone said that, it didn't turn out too well. n/t
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:43 PM
Response to Reply #27
46. True, but I wouldn't bet on any of the Palins being aware of that
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nichomachus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 05:26 PM
Response to Reply #46
52. Yeah, I won't be putting any money on it either. n/t
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:07 PM
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19. Levi - just go away and shut up.
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endarkenment Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:24 PM
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20. Why? Bristol is out promoting delusional abstinence misinformation
and Levi is speaking out and saying "that's delusional". Good for him, even if he is an irresponsible lout.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 06:40 PM
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55. It depends on the person
My parents promoted abstinence. It worked on me - perhaps I had a lot of self-respect for myself and my body.
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 08:32 PM
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59. What a shitty gratuitous statement.
Way to slam sexually active people as somehow not having any self-respect for themselves or their body. :eyes:

And your anecdotal story aside, evidence shows abstinence only education doesn't work.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:26 PM
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61. Very young people
who have sex at an early age quite often do it to please someone else. I stand by my post.
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:36 PM
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63. And of course, you are the arbiter of who is too "young"
mentally, emotionally, or physically to have sex before marriage?

Oh, and now beyond your ASSumptions that this arbitrary group you've self-selected MUST have low self-respect, you're adding that they're also doormats if they have sex outside of marriage? Sorry but that's crap.

:puke:
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:11 PM
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70. Anyone under the age of 16 is too young in my opinion
Like it or not - I'm entitled to my opinion - So take your "crap" and pound it on someone who cares what you think. I don't.
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riderinthestorm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:21 PM
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72. So you won't mind me pointing out again that you believe anyone who has sex outside marriage
Edited on Wed May-06-09 11:24 PM by riderinthestorm
is a doormat with low self esteem, and you don't give a shit if someone questions you about arbitrarily opinionating about their sex lives.

Just so it's crystal clear.

Good night.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:24 PM
Response to Reply #72
75. If that's your understanding of my post - so be it.
Good-night.
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WorseBeforeBetter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:52 PM
Response to Reply #61
67. Did you enter into a "chastity agreement" for your parents?
I ask because I noticed your profile says Georgia, and I never really heard of those agreements until I moved to a southern state a while back. One of my neighbor's grand-daughters signed one and sure enough, she's knocked up and unwed at 18. Second young woman in the neighborhood, come to think of it (that I'm aware of...).
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:09 PM
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69. Goodness - NO
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:12 PM
Response to Reply #67
71. I live in Ga. , born in Europe.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:42 AM
Response to Reply #55
84. Oh, for fuck's sake.
At the very least, they can stop pissing away our tax dollars to the tune of hundreds of millions of dollars a year on this thinly-veiled religious bullshit.



...so, since you bring it up... you were a virgin until marriage, then?

Really?



Really?


Because I'm married, I know a lot of married people, and I can't think of ANY- including my grandparents who were born over 100 years ago- who were virgins when they got married. (And yeah, I know that for a fact.)

Is that personal information? Well, you brought it up, particularly the part about your "self-respect". So you had zero sex before marriage, then. Congratulations. Most people don't, and in a country where many people don't get married until their late 20s or their 30s, it's absolutely LUDICROUS, if you as me, to hold total abstinence until marriage up as the standard for "self respect".

I have a shitload of self-respect, and I fucked like a bunny all through high school, college, and my 20s. And now I'm happily married to someone who, like me -gasp!- was NOT abstinent prior to our wedding day. :hide:

Wow, how do we live with the shame and degradation? One wonders.
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comtec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 05:04 AM
Response to Reply #84
96. My wife hadn't before she met me...
but pre-marital? oh hell yeah!

Here's the reality. if you aren't sexually compatible, your marriage won't last.

i know that sounds really superficial, but sex is intimacy.
it's VERY intimate.
if you and your partner don't click, it's not going to work.
humans NEED that massive release of endorphins that comes with sex (esp good sex).
The sense and feeling that you're "doing it right" (sorry for the pun, I can't think of a better way to put it) with and to your partner. great sex is just wonderful, spiritual, and bonding...

BAD sex is worse than no sex. There is a pressure for married couples to be having sex to procreate. if the sex is just plain bad, and not very satisfying for one or both partners... constantly, and it's NOT an open marriage, there will be major problems, that will come up as little things. Things that you won't associate with the bedroom, but it is when you strip away all the small, insignificant BS. (you don't take out the trash, buy me flowers, etc)

I'm not suggesting there aren't other problems, but they all build, like snowflakes into an avalanche. Some are larger issues than others, is all i'm saying. and a healthy sex life is one of those larger issues.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:49 PM
Response to Reply #84
106. Each to his own
I got married on my 20th birthday - certainly wasn't too long for me to wait. Perhaps it's a generational difference.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 04:13 PM
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108. Geezus, which generation?
I'm Gen X, and we were supposed to be so terrified of AIDS that we were gonna study accounting instead of screwing. Didn't work out that way. Boomers? Nope. The "Greatest Generation"? Yeah, most of them had pre-marital sex, as well. The Flapper generation? Ditto. Like I said- my deceased grandparents-- who were born over a century ago-- hell, none of THEM were virgins when they married.

Vast federal "abstinence only" funding to the contrary, I don't think Gen Y/Millenials are significantly different, either.

So... "generational difference"? I don't think so, not when something like 90-95% of people DO have sex before marriage.

Of course, to each his or her own. But that's not the guiding philosophy behind "abstinence only", nor is it the motivation for the folks who would hold out "abstain until marriage" as the ideal- a completely ridiculous ideal for most of us, I might add. You (presumably, you didn't really answer the question) abstained until marriage, hey, good for you, and presumably again you found the right person to marry at age 20. Again, good for you. If I had married the girlfriend I had at age 20, or married the first person I had sex with, it would have been a train wreck of incompatability and a monumentally bad idea. I didn't get married until my early 30s. Thankfully, I spent enough time, and had enough relationships both short and long term, to have some sort of idea what would work in my life before making that kind of a commitment.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:45 PM
Response to Reply #108
110. Good for you and
good for me. Seems we made choices we can live with.
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tkmorris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:45 PM
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36. Why? He's right.
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JI7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:23 PM
Response to Reply #19
45. the Palin's should shut their hypocrite asses up , it's ok for them to do it
but they want to preach and lecture to others on what is right.
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superconnected Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:37 PM
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22. Abstinence doesn't appear to have helped her from getting preggers.
Edited on Wed May-06-09 01:38 PM by superconnected
Didn't her mom always tout that to her?

Poor girl. She found out first hand that it doesn't work and yet becomes a hypocrite over it anyway. How republican.
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TCJ70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:43 PM
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23. Abstinence should be pushed alongside other forms of...
...contraception. Sex education might be better taught with some sort of risk vs. reward model as well. I never took the sex ed classes offered at my high school (had the intro course in 4th grade though) and I managed to survive without having sex through all of high school and college. I always considered it too risky and never wanted to chance it, and I never wanted a kid at those ages.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:33 AM
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81. I would argue that abstinence should be presented as an equally valid choice w/superior benefits
to early sexual activity.

You can't get pregnant or STD's w/o sexual activity. That's a fact. It's also a fact that many youth will make the decision to have sex long before they really have any business raising children or, in the case of the younger female, carrying a pregnancy to term.

Some people (males and females) are born with a greater sex drive than others. Whether one is inclined or disinclined to enjoy a certain level of sexual activity should NEVER be a source of shame or concern so long as the person takes proper precautions and looks after their physical and emotional health.
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TCJ70 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 10:29 AM
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105. Absolutely...
..."Whether one is inclined or disinclined to enjoy a certain level of sexual activity should NEVER be a source of shame or concern"...which can be a difficult concept when you have a culture that pushes sex at you in pretty much every way without really talking about the risks at all.
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polichick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 01:54 PM
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24. Levi could make a few bucks by coming out with his own brand of condoms...
"Rugged coverage for rugged men."
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nichomachus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 05:32 PM
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54. I hate to say it, but you're right
A marketing person could make himself and Levi a few bucks with the right approach. Levi has a definite appeal to a certain demographic -- especially the guys who see themselves as f***ing rednecks who like to swill a few beers and shoot stuff.

I don't know if condoms are the way to go, but Levi's young, pretty good looking, and someone who could market the right thing.

It would be a brief career, but lucrative.
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tabbycat31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:34 PM
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62. he would be good for some infomercials
we already have Billy Mays and the ShamWow hooker guy.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:36 AM
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82. Levi's Lucsious Lambskin Love-Gloves.
I'm starting to like this kid.
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 02:21 PM
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28. Why would he think that?
:rofl:
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 02:36 PM
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29. That poor kid
Edited on Wed May-06-09 02:36 PM by ismnotwasm
How confused can you get? I can't imagine being the daughter of someone like Sarah Palin.

She can certainly choose to abstain from sexual intercourse now, but she'd be a much better "role model" promoting sexual health issues including birth control and informed sexual decisions.

"Abstinence" is not a bad choice, just a loaded word co-opted by the right wing nuts. When sexual "abstinence" is a so called "moral" decision, with a religious connotation it comes with waaaay to much unhealthy, crazy baggage.

The choice to have sex--or not, can be as profound or as impulsive as it needs to be, as long as it's a moment one has prepared for, with things like birth control and a decent knowledge of sexuality including anatomy.
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nichomachus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 02:58 PM
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30. Why should anyone listen to these two twits about anything?
Seriously, all they have are names that are well known. There is no indication either of them has anything important to say. To me, they have no more credibility than the guy down at the corner pushing a shopping cart. In fact, he has probably had some valuable life experiences that might be worth listening to.

These two teenage twits have no education, no experience beyond making a baby together (which, although being childless, I understand isn't very hard), and having their picture taken a lot. I prefer a little more substance in people who want me to take them seriously.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:15 PM
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32. two fat-faced pieces of white trash
Edited on Wed May-06-09 03:23 PM by Iris
there. I just had to say it. I may get slammed for it but I'm willing to take it just for the chance to get that out of my system.
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nichomachus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:26 PM
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33. Please be more specific
There are three classes of "white trash." In descending order, they are:

o White Trash

o Poor White Trash

o Sorry White Trash

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No Elephants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:54 PM
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38. I think it's time that race-based expression got retired permanently.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:01 PM
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42. while I generally agree with this sentiment, this is what pops in my head every time I see one of
their disgusting mugs being plastered all over a news report. Like they should matter this much.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:44 AM
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85. So maybe you should work on that. It's an ugly racist sentiment.
Begun by people who's automatic assumption was that white people are innately stand-up folk, except for the "trash" ones. Unlike the dark folk, for which one word served as a descriptor for all.

It's an ugly sentiment that should have no place in the lexicon of a liberal.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:49 AM
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98. I don't need to work on it. As I said, I am fully aware that it's inappropriate.
but it's what fits here and I can't help that.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 06:41 PM
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57. Are you a racist?
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:50 AM
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99. yes, I ama total racist.
I just hang around here to keep my blood pressure up.

:eyes:
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cbc5g Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:54 AM
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100. No, it's okay to let your racism out
if it's against white people
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JonLP24 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 04:52 AM
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95. Well why should anyone pay attention to what anyone says on a message board?
We are pretty much nameless and anonymous. Our qualifications are rarely revealed so based on your logic we shouldn't be paying attention to what anyone says on DU.
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Mike Daniels Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:59 PM
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107. I love how the guy who declared himself " a fuckin' redneck and proud of it"
Edited on Thu May-07-09 02:59 PM by Mike Daniels
or some variation and who was treated as a joke on DU when he first appeared on the scene is now seen as credible/respectable because he gets into a pissing match with Sarah Palin.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:29 PM
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34. unrealistic particularly in a hypocritical media-saturated culture in which sex is a primary
selling point, storyline, & general obsession.
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endarkenment Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:47 PM
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37. yeah because before tv nobody was having sex outside of marriage
:wtf: pun intended.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:55 PM
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39. sure they were. but they didn't have it in their face 24/7, & they weren't being told everyone
was doing it while simultaneously being told not to do it.

see the difference?
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endarkenment Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:15 PM
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43. no actually I don't see the difference, but prehaps we agree.
The same fundaloons who are abstinence nazis would be happy to solve this by banning all sexual content from the media - thus solving your inconsistency problem.

Of course there really is no evidence that the sexual content of media programming causes teen pregnancy or sexual experimentation, and there are plenty of examples of countries similar to ours who do not have our problem with unintended and/or irresponsible pregnancy and who have at least as much if not more sexual content in their media programming. The difference is that these countries tend to teach children from a young age how to have sex responsibly instead of preaching moralistic inanities at them. I think that media programming is not the problem. Hypocrisy isn't really the problem either. Failure to teach children how to be sexually responsible people is the problem.



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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:23 PM
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73. Of course media affects behavior, both of children & adults. Children in particular,
as they're hard-wired to imitate what they see around them.

People in "countries similar to ours" also have media.

You seem to see the issue in terms of black-white dichotomy between repressed sex nazis & everyone else. I don't see it that way, so I think we're not going to be able to communicate.
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:18 AM
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87. Unwed teen pregnancy has actually been higher in our earlier history, and before mass media
we had bundling boards.

http://www.trivia-library.com/a/history-of-sex-love-sexuality-1750-america-and-bundling.htm



Here you go kids! Now, we're going to put you in the same bed together all night, but DON'T YOU HAVE SEX! Wink wink. Nod nod.

Premarital sex is no function of the media, nor the anxiety which surrounds it.
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Norrin Radd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:50 AM
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91. Put those pillows across that board and it could be quite useful. n/t
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 03:23 AM
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93. i seriously doubt any useful statistics on the incidence of premarital
Edited on Thu May-07-09 03:26 AM by Hannah Bell
pregnancy (with statistical adjustment for differences in average age of marriage, menarche & incidence of common-law marriage) can be gotten from the days of bundling, not that it has anything to do with whether media affects behavior.

unwed teen pregnancy has also been higher in living memory, but unwed teen pregnancy isn't a measure of how often teens have sex.
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endarkenment Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 09:39 AM
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104. You seem to have missed the point.
There is a clear correlation with unintentional pregnancies and std infection rates in advanced countries and 'realistic non-judgemental sex education as a part of the standard education of children' vs. 'preaching moralistic bullshit such as abstinence misinformation instead of sex education'. Media programming is not relevant - it is not a correlative factor. We are hard wired to be sexually active as soon as our sexual organs mature - i.e. as we reach adolescence. We have always been hard wired this way.

If you want to reduce unintended pregnancies and std infection rates - provide children from an early age with age appropriate honest information about their sexuality and expect that as their sexual organs mature that many of them will be sexually active, and provide them with honest information about how to be a sexually responsible human being, and provide them with free anonymous and non-judgmental access to birth control and std protection devices.
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Hepburn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 03:59 PM
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41. Hope Tripp takes after his father and his father's side of the family.
At least they have some common sense...or so it appears.
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Tikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 04:19 PM
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44. Here's the thing...neither of them should be out there lecturing..
on teenage sex...that cow has already roamed the pasture.

They should be out talking about the responsibilities of being
a parent...a teen parent...and again, a parent.

Tikki
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:26 AM
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88. She's lecturing. He's stating the obvious. He might as well have said, "Sky = blue, earth = round"
I think he IS trying to be responsible when he points out that the ostrich approach to teen sex is unhelpful when it presented without accompanying information and instruction for those teens who WILL choose to have sex, and they are many.
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kevsters Donating Member (109 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 05:08 PM
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49. Seriously, what good can come of this?
She is going to be slammed by the Democrats and media, and no teenager is going to look at her as a role model. Lose - Lose situation.

http://progressnotcongress.org/blog/?p=772
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Tikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 05:26 PM
Response to Reply #49
51. What do you think the average Republicans response...
on this issue is?...just asking....


Tikki

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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 02:28 AM
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89. "Just say NO to drugs" - Rush Limbaugh! LOL! *snarf* That's great!
And WELCOME to DU!
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madmusic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 05:31 PM
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53. Waint until her kid can read these old news reports and learns how much she regrets it
You were a mistake, kid. Should have practiced abstinence! More humane than abortion?
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 06:43 PM
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58. Regretting her pregnancy does
not mean she doesn't love her child.
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:38 PM
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66. Good luck explaining that distinction to a ten year old
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rainbow4321 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 06:40 PM
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56. The organization Bristol hooked up with PULLED an ad re: teen pregnancy
Edited on Wed May-06-09 06:47 PM by rainbow4321
back in Oct 2008...it had Bristol and Levi's pic in it. Didn't want to "offend it's readers", my ass...it was a week before election day, they didn't want to offend Palin and the repukes (with the pic of Bristol and Levi). Interesting that she is now their spokesperson.

http://www.jossip.com/usa-today-renegs-on-teen-pregnancy-ad-20081027/candiesfounation_ad/

What you don't know is that the same full-page ad, featuring pictures of Jamie Lynn Spears and Bristol Palin, was supposed to be in today's USA Today issue, but was pulled editors for fear of controversy:


USA Today began by explaining that it did not want to offend its readers and subsequently changed and re-changed its position until ultimately rejecting the PSA late Friday afternoon claiming they downsized the paper and could not accommodate the ad


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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:36 PM
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64. Let's keep it real Bristol.
If absitence wasn't so easy for you, it won't be for every other teenager out there. ABstinence is all fine and dandy if it is realistic. I wish all teenagers would abstain. Why not promote safety? That would be the more logical thing to do. Especially if you are in your shoes, Bristol.
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cap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 09:31 AM
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103. so is Bristol going to be abstinent from now on?
is she going to wait for her wedding night? Or does the girl gotta have it?
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 09:36 PM
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65. Dupe
Edited on Wed May-06-09 09:37 PM by Shell Beau
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Enrique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:35 PM
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76. this debate should be in person
"Levi, you ignorant slut!"
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Hardrada Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-06-09 11:50 PM
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78. These people just can NOT stay out of the news can they?
They are trying to out-halfwit each other!
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OmmmSweetOmmm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 08:58 AM
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101. MSM will not let them go away.
:puke:
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:29 PM
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109. Neither will DU.
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Vickers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 09:01 AM
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102. "They are trying to out-halfwit each other!"


:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

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Bryn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 01:41 AM
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83. Bristol Palin's Abstinence Campaign...
Bit too late, isn't it? :crazy:
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu May-07-09 06:47 PM
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111. Wow. Taking a page out of certain non-right-wing political groups; reverse psychology on his part?
Or is he really just an irresponsible hemorrhoid on the anus of humanity?

Methinks the latter.
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