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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:39 PM Original message |
My right wing guest at our cookout this afternoon got drunk and threatened to kill himself. |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
1. Sounds like the guy has more problems than just his politics. |
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Frances (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
36. This guy's politics are not the real issue |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. She should talk to him |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 10:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
51. My first impression as well |
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konnichi wa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'd have gift-wrapped a steak knife & sent it home with him. |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:47 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Aren't you nice (nt) |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:20 PM Response to Reply #2 |
45. Not nice. |
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47of74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 04:35 AM Response to Reply #2 |
56. That's earned my personal thumbs down... |
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LakeSamish706 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
3. He needs help with not only his drinking, but his entire attitude toward life... |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
15. Yep. If he is retired and feeling isolated, he could be on a downward spiral |
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LakeSamish706 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:56 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. I did just that 11 years ago actually... And it certainly paid off.... We do live... |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:50 PM Response to Reply #17 |
35. Perhaps we need to re-frame and re-name the process. |
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LakeSamish706 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:54 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Interesting, cause that was the logic of years ago with as being a male... |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:09 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. 'I don't feel worthy' Now THERE's the other problem. Too many think they deserve to be miserable |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:07 AM Response to Reply #35 |
62. Since I, too, am retired I can empathize with his feelings of isolation |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
4. As a liberal living in very red area of a red state I can sympathize.. |
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armyowalgreens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:45 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. I'm a flaming liberal living in AZ. It's rough. |
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Ishoutandscream2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:59 AM Response to Reply #5 |
76. Me, too. It is damn hard |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:54 PM Response to Reply #4 |
16. I was almost ready to say something like that but thought better of it. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:58 PM Response to Reply #16 |
18. Eh, being a liberal or conservative has nothing to do with depression.. |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
6. There's go to be more to do in that town than go to the pub. |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:50 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. I hope the wife, at least, |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:00 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. Well, I'll be happy to show you around some more next time you come! |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:30 AM Response to Reply #20 |
68. I appreciate the offer! |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:09 AM Response to Reply #68 |
72. Old bones buried in one of our old churches on the NH Green. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:59 PM Response to Reply #6 |
19. Well, yes. I thought we could have some nice discussions about art but he brought that around |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:17 PM Response to Reply #19 |
43. Wow, how sad. |
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TheCowsCameHome (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
8. I'd be depressed too, knowing George Bush was born in New Haven. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Solving the booze issues doesn't always solve the depression issues |
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ayeshahaqqiqa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
9. Take a moment next week to talk to the wife |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:02 PM Response to Reply #9 |
21. She's a corporate executive (insurance, not health related tho). |
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TheMachineWins (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:48 PM Response to Original message |
10. I love that story |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
11. IMO, threats of suicide should always be taken seriously. I would call the local police dept, |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
22. Yeah, having the cops come to his door is just the thing to cheer him up.. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:13 PM Response to Reply #11 |
28. It is not something I would do but it probaly has something to do with where I live |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
13. Very disturbing. But more for his condition than his positions |
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blueknight (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:07 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. i would have |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:08 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Wow, seriously? |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:10 PM Response to Reply #13 |
26. Except his comments about the Catholic Church lead me to believe he has some |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:16 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. Well, he may very well be looking toward that as well as |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:24 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. I thought he was conflicted and that made him feel guilty. Not to be too analytical here |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:25 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Oh yeah. Just reading about it made me very uncomfortable! |
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8 track mind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:06 AM Response to Reply #33 |
61. interesting |
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johncoby2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
25. Tell him to move to Texas |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:15 AM Response to Reply #25 |
64. He's really kinda "stuck." He's a former university of Wisconsin professor, teaching grad students. |
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zorahopkins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
27. Do More Than Feel Sorry For His Wife |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:14 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. You made me think. I don't believe he would harm her as I interpreted some of this |
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Norrin Radd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 05:17 AM Response to Reply #29 |
58. Not to alarm you, but there have been many murder/suicides |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:19 PM Response to Original message |
31. Some people will go to any lengths to prove they're right. |
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Motown_Johnny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 08:22 PM Response to Original message |
32. Sad, things should never get to that point. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
38. he really, really needs help |
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backscatter712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
41. Yeah, he needs to spend some time in the rubber room. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:19 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. I'm glad I wasn't thrown in a rubber room when I checked in for thinking of suicide |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. There are probably more depressing places to be than in a mental hospital.. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Actually I wasn't in a mental hospital |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:52 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. Meh, close enough for government work.. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. I didn't take it as snark |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 04:17 AM Response to Reply #49 |
54. How would you know? |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
42. He's got bigger problems than politics |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
50. He's a mopey drunk |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-25-09 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
52. Time to 86'im, do his wife a favor |
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Joe Fields (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
53. One rule: friends shouldn't discuss politics. |
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Enthusiast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
55. Listen, you did what you could. |
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47of74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 04:36 AM Response to Original message |
57. Sounds like he has problems |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 06:28 AM Response to Original message |
59. Send him a collection of maps and real estate ads from red states. |
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Stevenmarc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 06:35 AM Response to Original message |
60. Sorry, but he should have been asked to leave way before the needle hit the drama queen zone |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:14 AM Response to Reply #60 |
63. Asked to leave by whom? |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:23 AM Response to Reply #63 |
65. No, this was at my home. I rarely go to the pub with my husband and I just don't like |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:30 AM Response to Reply #65 |
66. Sorry, I misread your OP... |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:50 AM Response to Reply #66 |
70. I was trying to get the conversation back to an intellectual discussion and it wasn't working. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:02 AM Response to Reply #70 |
71. I expect this man is probably extremely frustrated.. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #60 |
82. As the widow of a "drama queen", could you check your thinking please. |
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southernyankeebelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:30 AM Response to Original message |
67. WOW, THIS GUY SOUNDS CRAZY - BUT LATELY |
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olegramps (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 07:45 AM Response to Original message |
69. I support assisted suicide especially for deranged Republicans. |
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symbolman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
73. Reminds me of a right winger we had in our dorm in college in Alaska |
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pnutbutr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
74. Nothing to do with his conservative views |
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Brewman_Jax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
75. Puts a damper on a cookout |
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chatnoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
77. Sounds like he has 0 friends b/c he's a jerk |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 03:40 PM Response to Reply #77 |
79. I think that did it for his wife. She took him home shortly after that incident. nt |
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LeftHander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
78. Wisconsin conservatives are the worst kind of mean people....nt |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
80. Loves Obama, voted Nader, yet is right-wing? |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 10:38 AM Response to Reply #80 |
83. I think his saying he's all in favor of Obama is a "cover." I don't believe him. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-26-09 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
81. This guy needs mental health care. Any chance his wife can convince him of that? |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 10:41 AM Response to Reply #81 |
84. Don't know. I think she's terribly embarrassed and I don't want to inquire. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-27-09 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
85. Another reason I don't really hang out with... |
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