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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:15 PM Original message |
My 8 year old daughter was forced to confront a bully - I am pissed off |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
1. Take it to the district superintendent |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:54 PM Response to Reply #1 |
33. this is unacceptable. no one should be forced to 'confront' a bully |
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FourScore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 09:08 PM Response to Reply #1 |
98. Agreed. And there are even more measures you can take. |
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Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 10:41 PM Response to Reply #98 |
108. Agreed and Absolutely! |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #98 |
191. Bring it up at a school board meeting - the press is usually there and this will give you a public |
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sarcasmo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 02:03 PM Response to Reply #1 |
187. I agree take it to the district superintendent. |
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MiniMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
2. I think this one requires a visit to the school from you |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #2 |
19. They know me as the crazy liberal |
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MiniMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:34 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. Good. You are doing the right thing |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:22 PM Response to Reply #19 |
88. Keep being crazy, it keeps people on their toes....... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
3. Oh, man. |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
4. Write a letter to the NEA! |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
5. I am so sorry it turned out this way. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:28 PM Response to Reply #5 |
16. Thank you. |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 09:59 AM Response to Reply #16 |
139. Two precious kids, indeed. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
6. The school was trying (and failing) to use a restorative justice mediation model. |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. Yeah, but dammit, where were the bully's parents? |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
18. Just another case of schools not taking bullying seriously. |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
40. Schools have gotten too big. |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. the best cure for a bully is a punch in the nose |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #44 |
61. It was inevitable, and it wasn't on school property. |
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medeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 06:06 PM Response to Reply #44 |
76. disagree |
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Zodiak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:03 AM Response to Reply #44 |
134. The way I looked at it when I punched my bully |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:38 PM Response to Reply #40 |
93. I went to a little rural school, it made no difference. |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 09:39 PM Response to Reply #93 |
102. Understood. But the little Connecticut school did care. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
51. That's wise. |
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armyowalgreens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:52 PM Response to Reply #6 |
60. I use to get bullied in elementary school. |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 02:47 AM Response to Reply #60 |
126. I got bullied by a boy |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #6 |
101. I like your post. It gets to the heart of the matter. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #6 |
182. I'm sure you are onto something |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
7. Sigh. Poor kid. |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
8. Where were the bully's parents during the face-to-face, and |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:32 PM Response to Reply #8 |
21. I wasn't told |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:49 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. God, I hope so. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #21 |
48. probably a meeting where the parents will say their kid doesn't do anything wrong |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
9. As you undoubtedly know, the SCHOOL needs counseling. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
10. Escalate it to the District Administration, and then |
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s-cubed (860 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
12. Please escalate this. Ask your school board for a meeting. |
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JuniperLea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:25 PM Response to Original message |
13. It's hard to imagine that situation being handled any worse than that! |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
14. and now they are both going to be targeted by this bully and his friends. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:46 PM Response to Reply #14 |
27. This kid has |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:03 AM Response to Reply #27 |
141. He has one friend |
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Hawkeye-X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
15. I would confront the principal himself , bring the press as well. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-01-09 01:56 AM Response to Reply #15 |
197. Please.... |
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RandomThoughts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:28 PM Response to Original message |
17. Your daughter sounds like an great person. |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
20. They simply took his word for it and let that be the end of it!? |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. The school knows he is lying |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #28 |
39. Did anyone ask the bully any questions? Did they at least challenge his version? n/t |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #39 |
77. Not in the presence |
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ColbertWatcher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 06:32 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. That's not right. n/t |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #28 |
64. The school should be working with his parents. |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:32 PM Response to Reply #28 |
71. I'm getting flashbacks to bullies just going "No I nevered!" when I was in school (nt) |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 07:33 AM Response to Reply #20 |
128. Not really a matter of wealth. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:33 PM Response to Original message |
22. WTF? |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. Oh yes... |
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TuxedoKat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
24. Don't tolerate this for one minute |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:45 PM Response to Original message |
26. Meh. |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:04 PM Response to Reply #26 |
35. "Tell them to both cut it out." |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:05 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. So things start getting done when you bully the school, eh? |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. I thought I had you on ignore... |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:20 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. "You think I am bullying the school for advocating for my child." |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:45 PM Response to Reply #41 |
54. My daughter did not |
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condoleeza (464 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:33 PM Response to Reply #54 |
92. I think HiFructosePronSyrup pretty well proved the point |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:25 AM Response to Reply #92 |
147. Agreed, well said! (nt) |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 09:46 AM Response to Reply #92 |
178. I want to recommend this post! |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:51 PM Response to Reply #41 |
59. there are TWO witnesses to what happened |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:07 AM Response to Reply #41 |
142. Are you always like this or just today? |
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Regret My New Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:21 PM Response to Reply #142 |
159. Bornagain is one of the most entertaining people on this site... |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:32 PM Response to Reply #159 |
170. So Highfructose use to be Bornagain? |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:22 PM Response to Reply #38 |
82. It changed it's name, now you have to find out all over again. n/t |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #38 |
97. I'm not suprised that the resident date-rape apologist is a bullying apologist as well. |
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Ikonoklast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #36 |
46. If you call standing up for the right of my kid to attend school |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #36 |
58. Harassing a little kid and calling him names = Writing a letter of grievance to a school |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #36 |
63. Good heavens, is this your specialty? |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:55 AM Response to Reply #63 |
124. yes eom |
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pecwae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 06:22 AM Response to Reply #63 |
127. You already have the answer to that question. nt |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 11:41 PM Response to Reply #63 |
196. Yes, it's pretty much all he's ever done here. nm |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:57 PM Response to Reply #36 |
73. Getting the law after an institution at fault for a kid getting regularly beaten up is bullying? nt |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
57. You win |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:31 PM Response to Reply #26 |
84. The victim doesn't count at all for you? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:44 PM Response to Reply #26 |
96. It is that kind of BS CRAP That I suffered through my whole childhood. Go fuck yourself. |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:32 PM Response to Reply #26 |
113. Says someone with zero compassion. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 07:38 AM Response to Reply #26 |
129. This wins for one of the worst responses I've seen at DU. |
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Jokinomx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:35 AM Response to Reply #26 |
137. Your an idiot....nuff said. |
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carlyhippy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #26 |
163. yeah, but what about the victim? You addressed 2 of the 3 |
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opihimoimoi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
29. Some Bullies make it all the way to the top....even the Oval Office.. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:52 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. This school uses |
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opihimoimoi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:02 PM Response to Reply #31 |
34. Bully for them.....oops, srry for the pun.... |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #31 |
192. seems like they're just paying lip service to the concept and aren't really serious about creating a |
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derby378 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
32. You're going to need to teach your little girl to fight |
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Gman2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
37. Whenever cowards refuse to do their jobs, whether cops, judges etc |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
42. I hope it's clear to your daughter that the principal is wrong. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
43. They really mishandled it. You need a letter. |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:29 PM Response to Original message |
45. Take it to the local media. Maybe they might be interested. |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:34 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. Not unless that's what the poor bullied child wants! nt |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:47 PM Response to Reply #50 |
56. Don't worry |
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AnneD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
47. My daughter had a different experience in 1st grade, thank God.... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #47 |
55. Your daughter sounds like a great kid -- good for you for teaching her so well. n/t |
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AnneD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #55 |
65. I wish I could say it was parenting..... |
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pnwmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:18 PM Response to Reply #65 |
70. What a sweetie! |
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JerseygirlCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
49. That's wrong |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
52. This bullshit infuriates me....and I don't like the way they handled it! |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
53. M y kid has been bullied a few times. A couple of times involved physical stuff. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:40 PM Response to Reply #53 |
72. This is what I saw that stuck out.. |
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bunkerbuster1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
62. "My daughter came home feeling like there is no justice. " |
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armyowalgreens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:09 PM Response to Reply #62 |
68. I disagree. If we want to fix the lack of justice, we must teach our kids to be just. |
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bunkerbuster1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:20 PM Response to Reply #68 |
81. Who said anything about apathy? |
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armyowalgreens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 09:10 PM Response to Reply #81 |
99. Well that's good. I thought you were teaching your kid to be apathetic. |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #62 |
74. Even I have not |
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votingupstart (535 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:10 PM Response to Reply #74 |
79. did they even call you? |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. Nope... |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:12 AM Response to Reply #62 |
143. Depressed much? |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
66. Keep fighting, Queenie. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
67. The adults bullied the kids!! |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
69. That little shit is going to grow up to be George W. Bush. |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:25 PM Response to Reply #69 |
83. Psychopath with a huge trust fund, a deadly combination. n/t |
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demodonkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
75. I would go to a School Board meeting and speak out against bullying in Public Comment period... |
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carlyhippy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
85. oohh, noooo, if I was in this situation, this wouldn't be over by a long shot!! |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 07:49 PM Response to Original message |
86. You need to punish that evil school. |
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Generator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:00 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Oh that was helpful |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:40 PM Response to Reply #87 |
94. What? |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 10:40 PM Response to Reply #94 |
106. This isn't another "war on schools" OP, although that didn't stop some from |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:15 AM Response to Reply #94 |
145. The school fucked up big time |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:35 AM Response to Reply #145 |
149. To be honest, |
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lostnfound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #94 |
151. I don't know how you can cope, and you have my deepest admiration |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #151 |
152. Thank you. |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:14 AM Response to Reply #86 |
144. Hyperbole much? |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:21 PM Response to Reply #86 |
165. Deleted message |
condoleeza (464 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
89. Do not let it end here |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:03 PM Response to Reply #89 |
110. These people? Sounds to me like it was one administrator. Or do you smell a conspiracy? |
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condoleeza (464 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:09 AM Response to Reply #110 |
120. The 8 yr. Old bully is a product of his home, John, |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:41 AM Response to Reply #120 |
122. We don't disagree. I misunderstood your intent. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
90. That's F-ing horrible. I was constantly accused of being a liar when I was bullied. |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 10:47 PM Response to Reply #90 |
109. A: It wasn't "horrible." It does sound as if it was poorly handled. B: When was the last time |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:25 PM Response to Reply #109 |
111. I graduated in 2004. I suffer from PTSD from the bullying and the actions of the faculty. |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:37 PM Response to Reply #111 |
114. Let me know how that works for you. I've seen some great results and some horrible results. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #114 |
154. My parents were there, but nobody listened to their complaints. |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:32 PM Response to Original message |
91. I noticed a change in my oldst son't behavior halfway |
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Cha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
95. I can understand your |
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Fresh_Start (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
100. You may want to consult a lawyer |
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TransitJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
103. Wow that's fucked up |
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Patchuli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
104. Let me follow-up to WhoaNelly |
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troubledamerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
105. This story sounds like a microcosm of Bush's America |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
107. She leaned the lesson that we all learn sooner or later |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
112. Welcome to school, where teachers don't give a damn. |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:40 PM Response to Reply #112 |
116. Wow, where did you go to school? And why didn't your parent's care enough about you and take their |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:43 AM Response to Reply #116 |
123. No, my parents believed the teachers. |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 02:09 AM Response to Reply #123 |
125. I spend a lot of time in my kids school. So I believe my kids and I believe my own eyes. |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:25 AM Response to Reply #125 |
136. One word confirms me. Columbine. |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #136 |
153. Columbine isn't unique or new. Check out the history of school violence, it goes back a long ways. |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 12:39 AM Response to Reply #153 |
175. Going to foreign countries is committing suicide. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #123 |
156. Oh, you got the "violence is never the answer" BS when you defended yourself, too? |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 12:47 AM Response to Reply #156 |
176. It was worse than that, Odin2005. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:32 PM Response to Reply #176 |
183. That's fucking horrible! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #112 |
155. I agree completely. |
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npk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
115. I am so sorry this happened |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-29-09 11:49 PM Response to Original message |
117. Aren't there laws against abusing disabled children? |
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Joe the Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:28 AM Response to Original message |
118. That bully is sure be a future republican/idiot no doubt. n/t |
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Tim01 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:47 AM Response to Original message |
119. I'm really sorry your kid had to go through this. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:10 PM Response to Reply #119 |
157. "The administrators all are terrified of shitty parents screaming and complaining" Exactly. |
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Harry Monroe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
121. Why do I get the feeling that this bully is a budding Republican? |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 07:51 AM Response to Original message |
130. There are good people working in schools, others that are completely fucking worthless |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 07:57 AM Response to Original message |
131. Wait. You expect justice at a school. |
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Christa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
132. You have reason to be pised off! |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 01:18 PM Response to Reply #132 |
164. Well..... |
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Christa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
133. I want to add |
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yasmina27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 08:23 AM Response to Original message |
135. Forgive me if this has already been asked |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
138. That is heartbreaking |
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Jokinomx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
140. Here is my take..... |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:31 AM Response to Reply #140 |
148. What a beautiful post- thanks (nt) |
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AngryOldDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
146. In middle school my daughter broke up the bullying of a girl... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:15 PM Response to Reply #146 |
158. Many school administrators were bullies themselves. |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:52 PM Response to Reply #146 |
161. LOL, you said "school administrators" and "thought processes" in the same sentence |
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90-percent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
150. I remember stuff like this |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
160. Don't back off |
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1955doubledie (224 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 12:57 PM Response to Original message |
162. This kind of thing is all too common |
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Buzz Clik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
166. Unfortunately, there is but one way to deal with young bullies, and it won't be endorsed here. |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 04:55 PM Response to Reply #166 |
167. No it isn't. Time out works. |
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Buzz Clik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:28 PM Response to Reply #167 |
172. You're fooling yourself. |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #166 |
168. rofl |
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Buzz Clik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #168 |
173. Really? I raised six, but remain clueless? |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 09:37 AM Response to Reply #173 |
177. You think the answer is violence, then yep. nt |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:35 PM Response to Reply #177 |
184. Many bullies will only get it when they end up with a black eye and a bloody nose. |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 07:37 PM Response to Reply #184 |
190. Not evil, just wrong. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 11:06 PM Response to Reply #190 |
193. Naive balderdash. typical anti-self-defence BS that allows billies to reign free. |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 11:24 PM Response to Reply #193 |
194. In what way is my post "anti-self-defence"? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 11:32 PM Response to Reply #194 |
195. You obviously missed MY point. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:43 PM Response to Reply #166 |
186. you are absolutely correct |
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ida and pingala (10 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
169. What was the next thing you did? |
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Democrat 4 Ever (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 09:00 PM Response to Reply #169 |
171. My daughter's third grade teacher had a unique way of addressing disabilities |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-30-09 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
174. Bully says he never did it. |
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yasmina27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 12:22 PM Response to Reply #174 |
179. Please don't make blanket statements like this |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 02:11 PM Response to Reply #174 |
188. I have to say |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
180. UPDATE |
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47of74 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #180 |
181. Get lawyered up |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 01:42 PM Response to Reply #181 |
185. I am not going to threaten to sue |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-31-09 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
189. It's always going to be he said, she said, wash your hands of it bullshit |
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