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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:04 PM
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Poll question: How comfortable are you with uncertainty?
If you need to know what I mean by "comfortable" or "uncertainty" before you vote, score yourself a "1".
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Xipe Totec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:04 PM
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1. I'm not sure n/t
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:05 PM
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2. and how does that make you feel? n/t
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Xipe Totec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:09 PM
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5. Comfortable, but maybe not n/t
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stray cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:07 PM
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3. Is it inoperable cancer uncertainty - not so good
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Uzybone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:09 PM
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4. Most of life is uncertain
who knows what will greet you when you wake up for the day. I answered option 4.
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sam sarrha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:16 PM
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6. there's No "uncertainty", Faso-Corporatists will enslave us an destroy this precious earth for
Edited on Sun May-31-09 12:18 PM by sam sarrha
another dollar.. they have an OCD problem THEY ARE OUT OF CONTROL...!!! , they are mentally ill, they need to be stopped and forced to take their medication... OR WE ARE ALL DOOMED AND THE PLANET WE STAND ON THAT SUSTAINS US
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:18 PM
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7. living in the now of it,, it is never scary i find. it is thinking about what could happen
that fear manifests....
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dkf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:20 PM
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8. Basically, what is your risk tolerance...
I deal with risk by not getting into debt and having emergency funds. Health risks are hopefully contained by doctor's visits, good checkups, and staying skinny. Safety risk is contained by recognizing fear and respecting it (snow boarding once was good enough).

I'd say I'm not so good with uncertainty, but that I've tried my best to control the situation so I mostly fear the scary stuff. Of course my control is probably illusory but it sure helps to get me through the day!
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HysteryDiagnosis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:28 PM
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9. Pretty comfortable, anything less leads to little progress. n/t
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Tierra_y_Libertad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:33 PM
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10. "There is no safety in the Cosmos" - Alan Watts
I have never had a problem or fear that I worried my way out of.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:46 PM
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13. That man saved me years of therapy.
:thumbsup:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:35 PM
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11. It depends on what kind of uncertainty.
The RL kind, not so much. I have to work on managing that most of the time. Uncertainty about theory or ideas is fine and even, attractive in some ways.
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TahitiNut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:41 PM
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12. Control (and "certainty") is an illusion.
Member of Control Freaks Anonymous here. :hi:

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 12:47 PM
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14. I didn't know there was a program!
lol
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Posteritatis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 01:06 PM
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15. I generally fear people who always "know" exactly what's up with everything (nt)
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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 01:31 PM
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16. Life is full of uncertainty. Anyone not comfortable with it is going to be pretty unhappy.
I tend to think lack of tolerance for uncertainty is what drives people to fundamentalism (and scientism) where they can listen to some preacher (or teacher) tell them they can be certain of whatever it is he is preaching (or teaching). Then they can find comfort in their make-believe certainty.

So you find people who are absolutely certain that the rapture is coming, and people who are absolutely certain there is no God and only science has all the answers. People at both extremes are fleeing from uncertainty. The truth is, we just don't know. We don't know if there is or is not a God, we don't know if there is or is not life after death, and yet people from the two fundamentalist extremes will loudly defend their personal sense of certainty they they know for a fact that there is (or is not) a God, an afterlife, UFOs, bigfoot, or whatever controversial and uncertain subject comes up.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-31-09 10:42 PM
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17. I used to love new situations and such. Now I need a routine. Takes me forever to feel comfy with a
new routine. And I need lots of reassurance that "things" are okay.
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