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NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:15 AM
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Stay-at-home mothers should pull in $117,856
http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/2250656,CST-NWS-mom09.article

Surveys cover value, numbers, Mother's Day gifts, TV figures

May 8, 2010

SUN-TIMES STAFF

On this Mother's Day, it's tough out there for moms:

Six-figure job?

In its annual estimate, salary.com says the time mothers spend performing the 10 most common "mom job functions" -- such as making meals and driving kids around, as well as keeping the house in order -- would equate to an annual salary of $117,856 for a stay-at-home mom.

Working mothers would earn $71,860 for their mom duties above their at-work paychecks. These salaries are down 4 percent and 6 percent, respectively, from the 2009 calculations.

"Like many of us, moms are working more hours, and it is no surprise that this year, the challenging economy impacted the results of our Mom Salary Survey," said Brent Kleiman of Salary.com.

The company bases its annual salary on what various professions are paid, including laundry machine operator, janitor, housekeeper, cook, psychologist and facilities manager.

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Speck Tater Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:20 AM
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1. But don't forget the dads who should be paid for yard work, plumbing repairs,...
...taxi service, auto maintenance, etc., etc., etc.

So yeah, we ALL make valuable contributions to the family. That's what being a family is all about. We shouldn't need bogus monetary valuation to justify our self worth. It's a sorry day when all value has to be measured in dollars.
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FreakinDJ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:42 AM
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8. They do all that and bring home a paycheck
Oh...Geez...we forgot about that...
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RB TexLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 02:04 PM
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24. Could also be considered a sorry day when it's about being part of a family and not just being a
person.
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onehandle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:21 AM
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2. I am not knocking their hard work, but how do they calculate this? I think of hotel workers...
Edited on Sun May-09-10 11:23 AM by onehandle
They do much of what Moms do for bunches of people, but do not make a fraction of $117,856.

Same goes for rest home workers.

Some people have maids or au pairs raising their kids. They aren't making $117,856 either.

Even adjusting for 7 days a week and longer work days, I cannot see where they get that figure.

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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:31 AM
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6. I'll explain it to you
The au pair takes care of kids, but is not "raising" them. A parent still has to keep up with school, health, extra-curriculars, etc. A parent has to manage and shop for the meals, or hire a cook or nutritionist, which is money on top of the au pair. A parent has to clean the house and do laundry, because the au pair and cook are not doing that, or hire a housekeeper. Then there is the management and scheduling of household repairs and repairmen. Somebody has to manage the budget, balance the checkbook, pay the bills, compile tax info or do the taxes; since there probably isn't a bookkeeper doing that. My mother did the yard work as well, and often planted a garden. It adds up.
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onehandle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:52 AM
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11. But don't we all do much of that? In fact HAVE to do that...
It's the stuff of maintaining a home.

My wife and I do all of that, but nobody's calculating our time.

I think that highlighting that calculation for moms is more about their hard work rather than the 'market value' of their duties.

Nobody is paying me to maintain my own life.

(Again, I am not putting down the honorable and necessary lives of moms or any parent. Not looking for an argument here. :-) )

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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 03:23 PM
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25. It's what you do times the number of kids
It's not the same. I have my grandkids during the week and it is just not anywhere near the same.
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jdlh8894 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:24 AM
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3. What about us stay @ home fathers?
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:25 AM
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4. your pay would be $141,006.00 a year, lol, wink. nt
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jdlh8894 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:45 AM
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10. Where do I go to get my check? LOL
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 12:13 PM
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15. same place i get mine. hey... kids are older and i think about getting a job
the added stress on family and increase in expense will about make that paycheck worthless or the amount i could bring in.

so the bottomline for me is sittin in a comfort that i know what i do is the best for me and the family

that is good enough for me.....
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msongs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:29 AM
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5. plus ya have to deduct the portion that benefits the "mom" herself. Like things I do that benefit
me. When I cook for 4 and I am one of the 4, 25% has to be deducted since I benefit. Oh well lol.

Msongs
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OneTenthofOnePercent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:41 AM
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7. They should ask for a raise and go on strike...
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SocialistLez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:43 AM
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9. Sooo...working moms should get twice that?
I know SOME stay at home moms who don't do jack sh**.
They have nannies and maids.

My mom does A LOT for the house and our family and I don't take it for granted.
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RB TexLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:53 AM
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12. Why would we calculate a salary for someone's lifestyle choice?
Edited on Sun May-09-10 11:54 AM by RB TexLa
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dkf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 11:57 AM
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13. Can't imagine where that puts working moms then.
And does that mean people without kids are practically worthless?
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RB TexLa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 12:00 PM
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14. Of course we are worthless, American values were thrown in the garbage in the late 80's
it's now family values. No family, no value.
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dkf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 12:40 PM
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17. Certainly no tax breaks.
I say no fair.
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beyurslf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 12:15 PM
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16. Does that mean stay at home dads are about 150K since we make more than women
for the same jobs. I am a single dad and work full time. Looks like I should make about 100k above my salary. Wonder if I can negotiate that this summer. :)
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NoodleyAppendage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 12:42 PM
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18. Sign me up for a sex change and the job. That's way more than what I make.
How much more do I get paid for not whining and complaining about my "job?"

J
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stray cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 12:57 PM
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19. The drawback to owning your own business - more work than pay if you want success
Edited on Sun May-09-10 12:58 PM by stray cat
No one pays you by the hour if you are self-employed or have a small business.
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Gwendolyn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 01:09 PM
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20. What silliness. A cute little idea designed to make people feel good, no doubt.

But the height of ridiculousness nonetheless. :)
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 01:13 PM
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21. The pay is never enough...
and the rewards are incalculable.

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dems_rightnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 01:33 PM
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23. "Rewards are incalcuable"
Truer words have never been spoken.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-09-10 01:25 PM
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22. Unfortunately this annual story detracts from the real economic reality,
which is that women are more likely to live in poverty when they're older. All those years spent staying home with the kids or working reduced hours or at lower pay in order to find a job that's compatible with parenting make for lower social security benefits later.
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