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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:39 AM Original message |
Childless: How the Most Ambitious Women Choose not to Be Sidetracked by Family |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:41 AM Response to Original message |
1. The word is "child-free". |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:01 AM Response to Reply #1 |
18. thank you! i'm not "less" anything ... i am free. n/t |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:20 PM Response to Reply #18 |
95. +1 |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:17 PM Response to Reply #18 |
129. ...yep! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:20 PM Response to Reply #129 |
130. in all the sensitivity. when you say childfree by choice in your manner, are you being hurtfull |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:27 PM Response to Reply #130 |
133. i'm only speaking personally... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:30 PM Response to Reply #133 |
134. i hear ya. i wonder since there seems to be so much sensitivity in all directions |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:41 PM Response to Reply #134 |
136. on this issue, i'm inclined.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:42 PM Response to Reply #136 |
137. ya. nt |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:35 PM Response to Reply #130 |
149. No. Childfree is a choice. My choice. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:42 PM Response to Reply #149 |
150. childfree may not be a choice for all people though... which is my point |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:52 PM Response to Reply #150 |
152. You weren't child free; you just hadn't had yours yet. CF = doesn't want 'em; doesn't have 'em |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:35 AM Response to Reply #152 |
177. Unfuckingbelievable how you know everything about SB's life before she |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 10:38 AM Response to Reply #150 |
194. Deleted message |
bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:14 PM Response to Reply #149 |
154. appreciate.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
27. i like child free over childless. i think it has to be a collective change. but |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:15 AM Response to Reply #27 |
40. I disagree |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:30 AM Response to Reply #40 |
55. i disagree with your disagree and point to your post as the exact reason i posted as i did, lol. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:30 PM Response to Reply #55 |
155. Childfree is doesn't want and doesn't have children. You were never childfree. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:41 PM Response to Reply #155 |
156. no... i really wasnt. you cant tell me who i was when you are clueless |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 12:58 AM Response to Reply #156 |
172. You've got kids. That's a big clue right there. Don't play dumb. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:46 AM Response to Reply #172 |
178. Idiotic. Apparently the notion that family life choices may evolve and change is THREATENING to you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:50 AM Response to Reply #172 |
183. so many rules to follow before we can use any kind of name, without offending anyone. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:55 AM Response to Reply #172 |
184. how about this one. my gay brother in law who has no children and no interest, is willed |
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BuddhaGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:27 AM Response to Reply #1 |
52. +1 |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:30 PM Response to Reply #1 |
110. Good point. And Godless should also change to Godfree |
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Kalyke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:35 PM Response to Reply #1 |
112. I hate that term. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:09 PM Response to Reply #112 |
119. you're the one reading that into it.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:49 PM Response to Reply #119 |
125. hey scout, i was going to post that i understood what that poster was saying too |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:52 PM Response to Reply #119 |
139. agree. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:10 AM Response to Reply #119 |
179. If you examine it honestly - it kind of cuts both ways. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:21 PM Response to Reply #112 |
132. forgive me for saying so... |
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jgraz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:13 PM Response to Reply #112 |
147. I guess I'll have to go with my backup choice |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
2. Intelligence and reproductive fitness have a curvilinear relationship |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:48 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Where'd you get that one?! |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:57 AM Response to Reply #6 |
81. The fact that intelligence falls along a nearly regular distribution proves that is the case |
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sybylla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
37. Missed Idiocracy? |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:18 AM Response to Reply #2 |
43. Those who attain more education |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:54 AM Response to Reply #43 |
79. Do you think that is because... |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:24 PM Response to Reply #79 |
97. I think it's due to attaining more education |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:30 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. And I understand and respect your desire... |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:28 AM Response to Reply #2 |
53. So you're saying people aren't "intelligent" unless they have high-powered "careers"? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:58 AM Response to Reply #53 |
82. No, that's not what I'm saying at all |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:59 AM Response to Reply #2 |
62. And your statement pins you close to the apex of that curve. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:59 AM Response to Reply #62 |
83. I have no biological children |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:16 AM Response to Reply #83 |
174. So which is it? Can you please get your unsupported statements and bigoted rhetoric straight? |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 10:00 AM Response to Reply #174 |
191. Reproductive fitness is a measure of the likelihood of an individual passing on his or her genes |
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inna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:17 PM Response to Reply #62 |
92. There's absolutely nothing wrong with the term "reproductive fitness". |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:17 AM Response to Reply #92 |
175. see above |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:50 AM Response to Reply #2 |
78. I am of the opinion that your position posted there... |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:00 PM Response to Reply #78 |
85. There is only one proper measure of reproductive fitness in humans... |
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brendan120678 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:23 PM Response to Reply #85 |
96. Until you can also show "reproductive fitness"... |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:26 PM Response to Reply #96 |
98. The fact that mean and median intelligence correspond with the mode is ipso facto proof |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 12:21 AM Response to Reply #98 |
171. But that's meaningless. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 09:53 AM Response to Reply #171 |
190. Statistics FAIL |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:13 PM Response to Reply #190 |
195. There's no need to be rude. |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
3. I also wondered about it |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:51 AM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Neither is the academic profession. |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:05 AM Response to Reply #8 |
22. I was thinking the same thing... |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:55 AM Response to Reply #3 |
11. Many Professions |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:01 AM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Is it a choice? |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:53 AM Response to Reply #17 |
33. Ditto. Don't know where the years went. And nobody happened along that |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:04 AM Response to Reply #17 |
38. That's what happened to me too. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:19 AM Response to Reply #17 |
44. That sounds familiar |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:27 AM Response to Reply #11 |
51. Most people don't have "professions." |
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LuckyLib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:42 AM Response to Reply #3 |
76. The most successful academic women on the whole do not have children. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
4. IMO, you can do it all, just not at once. There's a world of difference between a working Mom |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:52 AM Response to Reply #4 |
9. Sometimes a woman HAS to do it all at once. n/t |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:59 AM Response to Reply #9 |
14. That is a CHOICE, not a 'has to.' n/t |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:23 AM Response to Reply #14 |
29. Since when? |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:59 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. Since Roe v Wade. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:25 AM Response to Reply #35 |
49. Wow... Lance. |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:28 AM Response to Reply #49 |
54. Did I ever say it was an *easy* choice? |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:42 AM Response to Reply #54 |
59. But what you're not seeing is that sometimes a woman already has children before... |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:55 AM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Sorry, but no. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:38 PM Response to Reply #35 |
159. But that's assuming all women get the option of abortion, or parenting women were pregnant at all |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:56 AM Response to Reply #4 |
12. Men who want to spend more time parenting are penalized in careers too. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:52 AM Response to Reply #12 |
32. Part of being a parent is sacrifice. My point- it shouldn't be the woman who is penalized most |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:35 AM Response to Reply #32 |
73. Absolutely. I have sacrificed entire days without getting drunk for my kid. |
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alcibiades_mystery (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:24 PM Response to Reply #73 |
166. Best post in this whole self-righteous piece of shit thread |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:33 AM Response to Reply #12 |
72. depends on what kind of job you have |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:00 PM Response to Reply #72 |
116. Depends on your employer too |
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proudohioan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:02 AM Response to Reply #4 |
19. That is truly an excellent goal! n/t |
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kestrel91316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:55 AM Response to Reply #4 |
34. My sister did it all at once, but she did it working part time rather than |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:48 AM Response to Original message |
5. Elizabeth Warren |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
7. Not just ambitious women |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:00 AM Response to Reply #7 |
15. Good Point! |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:04 AM Response to Reply #7 |
21. Absolutely |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:15 AM Response to Reply #7 |
25. Maybe it's because men can't have children |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:09 AM Response to Reply #25 |
39. Our society allows men that attitude |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:22 AM Response to Reply #39 |
46. that was an unnecessarily nasty reply |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:17 PM Response to Reply #46 |
91. Do I have to play nice since I'm a "girl"? |
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pecwae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 07:18 AM Response to Reply #91 |
187. 'Cause you're a girl. |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:12 AM Response to Reply #39 |
67. Yeah, it's a mess |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:21 AM Response to Reply #25 |
45. There is a lot more to being a parent than nine months of gestation. |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:00 AM Response to Reply #45 |
63. Absolutely |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:18 AM Response to Reply #7 |
26. That's a fair question that I had not considered before. My youngest son and his wife |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:23 AM Response to Reply #7 |
47. There's something "wrong" with any woman who doesn't have children |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:01 AM Response to Reply #47 |
64. Absolutely horrible!!! |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:04 AM Response to Reply #47 |
65. OMG! |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:07 PM Response to Reply #47 |
90. Absolutely correct |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 01:06 PM Response to Reply #47 |
103. Please remember that it's not just women who get that attitude from people |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:17 PM Response to Reply #103 |
105. Understood |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:56 PM Response to Reply #47 |
141. ugh. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 10:20 AM Response to Reply #141 |
192. The best part of getting older |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 05:09 PM Response to Reply #47 |
144. My favorite: "You're not a real woman until you've had a child" |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:40 PM Response to Reply #47 |
196. Someone once said something |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:34 AM Response to Reply #7 |
58. +1 !! |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:33 PM Response to Reply #7 |
111. Right there with ya, girl. No interest in kids and don't give a shit about a high powered career. |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:54 PM Response to Reply #7 |
140. excellent point, get the red out. |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:09 PM Response to Reply #7 |
163. Men have no choice to work or not work at all. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:25 AM Response to Reply #163 |
181. Bull, |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:20 PM Response to Reply #7 |
165. And here I thought I was the only one! |
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pecwae (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 07:06 AM Response to Reply #7 |
185. Good for you! |
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snot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
10. Consider this: |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 12:06 AM Response to Reply #10 |
167. +1 n/t |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:58 AM Response to Original message |
13. does anybody even ask about men's families? |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:13 AM Response to Reply #13 |
24. Correct! |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
16. The article ignores the changing role of men |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:03 AM Response to Reply #16 |
20. True |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:38 AM Response to Reply #20 |
31. I had a real eye-opener lately |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:22 AM Response to Reply #16 |
28. i thought about this before getting to your post. thank you. yes.... there are nurturing men that... |
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Bill McBlueState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
23. What an awful attempt to support that claim. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:28 AM Response to Original message |
30. i had three great aunts and i have three female cousins that have chosen to remain unmarried and |
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flamingdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
36. Do men really decide to remain child free in order not to be sidetracked by family? |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:55 AM Response to Reply #36 |
80. I don't know - those are my reasons |
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flamingdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:14 PM Response to Reply #80 |
120. That's what I'm concluding... although I was a little more ambivilant nt |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:12 PM Response to Reply #36 |
128. Actually.... |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
41. Having a child certainly changes one, but it's not for everyone |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:30 AM Response to Reply #41 |
56. 250,000 foster children in the USA |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:11 AM Response to Reply #56 |
66. I was just wondering about that... |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 01:08 PM Response to Reply #66 |
104. Both my younger sisters reproduced before my mother died |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 08:31 PM Response to Reply #104 |
198. my response... |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 08:18 PM Response to Reply #56 |
197. lol. as if.... |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:15 AM Response to Original message |
42. That's because we get so much experience picking up the slack for the mommies |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:25 AM Response to Reply #42 |
48. You are aware that 'daddies' take time off for this too, now. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:58 PM Response to Reply #48 |
102. Perhaps you haven't been on the receiving end of the mommy entitlement attitude |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:25 PM Response to Reply #102 |
106. you are right, generally it is the "mommy" that is taking care of the kid issues during her work day |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:39 PM Response to Reply #106 |
113. And I don't have things to take care of or bills to pay |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:48 PM Response to Reply #113 |
115. when a child is sick at school and has to be picked up, that child cannot wait until after hours |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:06 PM Response to Reply #115 |
118. AND I DON'T HAVE TO WORK IN ORDER TO EAT? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:32 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. Childless people can FOAD as far as some people here are concerned. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:53 PM Response to Reply #122 |
127. are you fuckin serious? fuck. really? are you really suggesting |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:21 PM Response to Reply #127 |
131. Was I responding to you? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:32 PM Response to Reply #131 |
135. Was I responding to you? .......... is it a discussion board? nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:50 PM Response to Reply #118 |
126. anywhere, anytime.... did i say you did not need to work to eat? what a ludicrous outrage |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 05:02 PM Response to Reply #126 |
142. Not directly, but by repeatedly pointing out that Mommy "HAD" to work in order to eat & pay bills |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 05:29 PM Response to Reply #142 |
145. no, pointing out that two parents have to work now a days not from choice |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 07:58 PM Response to Reply #145 |
146. Sense of entitlement much? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:13 PM Response to Reply #146 |
148. assumptins much? wtf? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:27 PM Response to Reply #102 |
121. I have. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 05:06 PM Response to Reply #121 |
143. They crap on singles & the child free all the time |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:50 PM Response to Reply #143 |
151. We're here for their convenience |
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tonysam (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
50. Does anybody really think these women were chosen because they had no kids? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
57. And to think, HuffPo used to be worth reading. (nt) |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
61. Until men are required to forgo the "distraction" of family on an equal basis in order to acheive... |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
68. There is another option -- financially support a spouse to take care of the home and family |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
69. I like the "child free' |
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bliss_eternal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 08:58 PM Response to Reply #69 |
199. thank you... |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:29 AM Response to Original message |
70. I don't blame them |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
71. That is hardly a revelation |
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tcaudilllg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
74. Gotta question the sanity of such a woman. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:42 AM Response to Reply #74 |
75. Oh, goody...another psych major to pick our brains. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:43 AM Response to Reply #74 |
77. do tell! n/t |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:59 AM Response to Reply #74 |
84. I don't understand your post |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:01 PM Response to Reply #84 |
87. i am with you. not sure exactly which is the insane part. and certainly HE leaves out |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:00 PM Response to Reply #74 |
86. for real? serious? such a statement, but nothing that leads to discourse. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:02 PM Response to Reply #74 |
88. LMAO! |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:19 PM Response to Reply #74 |
93. You forgot your sarcasm thingie |
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inna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:19 PM Response to Reply #74 |
94. Gotta question the value of a such a post. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:42 PM Response to Reply #94 |
100. especially since he runs away like a little..... oh boy, not going there. nt |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:27 PM Response to Reply #74 |
107. Gotta question if your other 113 posts are as dumb as this one. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:28 PM Response to Reply #74 |
108. Why would you want an insane woman to be a mother? |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:35 PM Response to Reply #74 |
124. Not if you're the male she'd have access to. |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:55 PM Response to Reply #74 |
153. So a woman who chooses not to have kids is insane? |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
89. This seems to assume that in Conventional Universland |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
101. The real focus should be why does our culture |
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L. Coyote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:29 PM Response to Original message |
109. How many know there are too many humans already? |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
114. So, women who choose to bear children can't be the most ambitious? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
117. I have all the ambition of a tree sloth |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 03:35 PM Response to Reply #117 |
123. LOL. I'm like you but I'm female. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
138. Has anyone asked if they would do things differently if they could do it again? |
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glinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 09:59 PM Response to Reply #138 |
157. I have no children and would do the same again. None. Nada. Zilch! |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 02:22 AM Response to Reply #138 |
176. A lot of us CF women get asked all the fucking time. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 10:33 AM Response to Reply #176 |
193. Oh, getting a tubal ligation without kids |
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Number23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
158. Hillary Clinton is a mother. Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf is a mother. Even lunatic Palin is a mother |
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WorseBeforeBetter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:18 PM Response to Reply #158 |
164. Nancy Pelosi, Sandra Day O'Connor, Ursula Burns (Xerox)... |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 08:44 AM Response to Reply #164 |
188. And remember Margery Kempe |
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lynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
160. Tell it to Maggie Thatcher . . . and her twins. |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
161. Men don't have to decide. |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 11:06 PM Response to Reply #161 |
162. True, men are FORCED from birth to a life that will involve being a wage-slave. |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 12:17 AM Response to Reply #162 |
169. Please - I come from a long line of wage-slave mothers. |
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Bonobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 03:21 AM Response to Reply #169 |
180. That is the reality of YOUR family. |
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WinkyDink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 07:11 AM Response to Reply #162 |
186. You know many women not in the work-force?. Go to a grocery store, restaurant, hotel,.... |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 12:14 AM Response to Reply #161 |
168. Scalia has a lot of children |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 12:20 AM Response to Reply #168 |
170. Yeah! I'm hoping there are a few rebels in that family. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 01:03 AM Response to Reply #168 |
173. Scalia's also a ******* RW jerk. |
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JCMach1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 06:25 AM Response to Original message |
182. Men did this for years while their wives raised the kids... |
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AnnieBW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-14-10 09:14 AM Response to Original message |
189. My Aunt is one |
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