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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:19 PM Original message |
So is it wrong to casually ask someone if they are married? |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
1. My response to either question would be "Why do you ask?' |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:24 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. And you are thus barred from many of life's outcomes |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:33 PM Response to Reply #5 |
22. Anyone who takes that attitude with my response has my persmission to |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:18 PM Response to Reply #22 |
38. Bravo, Bkln! |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 07:19 AM Response to Reply #38 |
68. TYVM |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 12:55 PM Response to Reply #5 |
79. I think you can take your cue socially. If you are in an informal situation |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 03:18 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. Excellent analysis. Thanks. |
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harry_pothead (752 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 02:04 AM Response to Reply #1 |
63. To which I would say |
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BrklynLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 07:18 AM Response to Reply #63 |
67. wellllllllllllll..in THAT case.............. |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
2. You really summed it up earlier with "DADT for civilian life" |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:32 PM Response to Reply #2 |
18. He deserves the credit |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
3. Isn't the point to allow all to marry? |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:24 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. yes, that's the point |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:26 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. But don't we want to get to a point where there is no "difference" in the form families take? |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:29 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. the answer would matter because we want all children to feel like they belong |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:32 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. I'd would think that at some point, the make up of the family would |
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caledesi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 01:32 AM Response to Reply #13 |
62. Yeah, right! nt |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:24 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Well |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:27 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. No, you don't. |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:42 PM Response to Reply #9 |
26. Huh? |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:51 PM Response to Reply #26 |
58. Love, sex and marriage. |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 09:08 AM Response to Reply #58 |
75. And marriage is denied to gay people. You do know that? |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:46 PM Response to Reply #3 |
28. In 44 states it sure does tell you a person is not gay if they answer yes |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:58 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. Not always.... |
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dbmk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 04:42 AM Response to Reply #28 |
65. Just tells that they are married. |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 08:36 AM Response to Reply #3 |
72. It does suggest a binary that many people do not want to support |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
6. Marriage is a matter of public record--it's not an intrusive question, IMO. |
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phleshdef (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
10. In a perfect world, asking someone if they are gay wouldn't be a problem. |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:31 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. I wouldn't ever ask someone if they were Gay. |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:44 PM Response to Reply #14 |
27. I asked my sister once |
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Tace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
11. Er... Maybe They Want To Know If It's OK To Ask For A Date. |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 12:29 AM Response to Reply #11 |
61. The framing was "business related situations". |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
12. Speaking for myself, I think part of the problem I have with them asking is the intent. |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:36 PM Response to Reply #12 |
24. This may be clarifying... |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:39 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. I too think this is all Obama's fault. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
15. I can understand not wanting to answer that question based on the bigotry |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:33 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. but if we're not willing to all courageously address these issues in the light of day |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:56 PM Response to Reply #21 |
30. Things are slowly changing. I understand what you're saying, but there are |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:08 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. I think it would backfire big time |
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easilynervous (27 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:26 AM Response to Reply #34 |
77. I don't know. |
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jenmito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
16. I heard it reported many times already that she's single with no children. n/t |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
17. People don't realize they're perpetuating stigmatization |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:35 PM Response to Reply #17 |
23. My favorite response. . . |
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ProSense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:08 PM Response to Reply #17 |
33. Some people don't recognize an invasion of privacy. |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:13 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. The only people who think it's an invasion of privacy |
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ProSense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:15 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Nonsense. |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:18 PM Response to Reply #36 |
37. Is Obama's marriage private? |
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ProSense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:20 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Is Ellen DeGeneres'? n/t |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:27 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. I remember when we elected Ellen Degeneres President. |
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ProSense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:38 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Kagan isn't President either. Neither is Lindsey Graham. |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:38 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. No, we know all about it |
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HughMoran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
20. It can also get you kicked out of the military, boy scouts, fired from your job or beat up |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 09:48 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. but from my perspective the reason we can't get rid of a lot of that |
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HughMoran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:01 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. Ahhh, I see your point! |
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jonnyblitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 08:31 AM Response to Reply #29 |
71. "even liberals who think they are doing gay people a favor", |
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Clio the Leo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
41. It's an interesting parallel. |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:39 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Lovely post, Clio |
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ProSense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:41 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. And therein lies the crux of the problem |
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Clio the Leo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:50 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. What should be required... |
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ProSense (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:08 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. There is nothing |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 03:46 PM Response to Reply #50 |
84. are you faithful to your marriage partner.... |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:12 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. I get that but we are far, far from that in the United States. |
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Clio the Leo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:21 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. Of course some of the people who run for office SHOULDN"T be married.. |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:34 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. My point exactly. But some politicians feel they must keep up a charade in order to fit into the |
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Clio the Leo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:49 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. Yeah, but snorers really ARE second class citizens... |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:59 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. LOL! |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:43 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. beautifully said, Clio |
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Clio the Leo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:18 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. I really wish everyone could see Ms. Elliot's appearance on Oprah... |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 01:00 PM Response to Reply #41 |
80. I think part of the happiness in having a gay person on the Court just being who she is |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 10:46 PM Response to Original message |
47. People should be able to speak openly about their lives if they want to |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
49. I would tend to think "are you straight?" as being more of an analog to "are you gay?" |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:21 PM Response to Reply #49 |
54. in the vast majority of the country |
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totodeinhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 08:12 AM Response to Reply #54 |
70. Self delete. |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:39 AM Response to Reply #54 |
78. I still tend to disagree. I'm not married or gay, nothing wrong with either but |
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Tace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-11-10 11:08 PM Response to Original message |
51. Ruggerson: I Didn't Know Your OP Had To Do With Kagen |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 08:43 AM Response to Reply #51 |
73. What they need to know is how her associations will affect her job |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
60. You must not work in HR. |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 06:58 AM Response to Reply #60 |
66. "sexual preference" |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:23 PM Response to Reply #66 |
86. Hm? |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:24 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. Yes, actually. |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:44 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. You're the one who put it in quotes, not me. (It's DemocratIC, TYVM) |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:50 PM Response to Reply #88 |
89. Sexual preference = Lights on or off? Doggy or missionary? |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:28 AM Response to Reply #89 |
90. Thank you for a more complete explanation of your viewpoint. |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:45 AM Response to Reply #90 |
92. That's nicely said. Thank you. |
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boppers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 02:27 AM Response to Reply #92 |
96. "ketchup on their scrambled eggs" |
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political_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 02:27 AM Response to Original message |
64. Here's where I sit with this question. |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 07:23 AM Response to Original message |
69. I do not wear a wedding ring because I am allergic to metals.. and no one asks me |
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mstinamotorcity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
74. Okay I'll jump in this one |
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Phx_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
76. During an interview, yes! n/t |
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quantass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
82. Asking such questions is COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT to the goals of a business... |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
83. I don't see it that way at all. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-12-10 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
85. Depends on what you mean by "business-related" |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
91. You're still going on about Kagen, aren't you? None of the 200 other replies satisfy you? |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
93. Elena Kagan is not gay |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 01:30 AM Response to Reply #93 |
95. Even if she was gay, Kagan strikes me as having enough intelligence, self-respect |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
94. It's illegal to ask in job interview situations. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
97. Not if you are on a date with them. |
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olegramps (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-13-10 08:32 AM Response to Original message |
98. It might be a turn off if you are already in bed with them. |
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