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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 06:55 PM Original message |
This morning the woman in the car next to me turned around and slapped her child so hard his head |
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Poll_Blind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
1. I need a world filled with people like you and I would have more confidence in humanity. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:38 PM Response to Reply #1 |
24. No thanks needed PB! |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
2. Omigod. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:26 PM Response to Reply #2 |
18. Me too...poor kid |
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AlbertCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:53 AM Response to Reply #18 |
94. if she was willing to do that in public.. |
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buddysmellgood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
3. I had to call the police once after seeing a guy smacking his |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
20. :0( at least it got them into the system? |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:51 PM Response to Reply #3 |
136. The biggest value in that was probably the child seeing the father being put on the spot for abusing |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 01:39 AM Response to Reply #136 |
171. Excellent point. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 08:37 AM Response to Reply #171 |
176. I can guarantee you they are NOT "getting that in their own families. |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
4. I've seen so much neglect this year that it sickens me. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:08 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. worse than usual? I had one kid in dire straights so most of my calls were about that |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
5. Thank you for reporting, and thank you for yelling. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:10 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. If my car wasn't blocked by another car I would have pulled in front of her and stopped her... |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:12 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. I understand. There are so many of us totally wiped out and exhausted from losing fights for just a |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:16 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. Social worker? |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:18 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Me? Your question isn't clear. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:30 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. ah...I thought you might be. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:53 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. There's a lot more to it than that, and it is very ugly. That's why I hope mntleo2 gets here. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:23 PM Response to Reply #27 |
39. over half my class is in foster care this year! |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:29 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. OMFG. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:46 PM Response to Reply #40 |
53. It was in Bangor Maine and how family preservation works better |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:26 AM Response to Reply #40 |
81. My students have very expensive medical care and special needs. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:42 AM Response to Reply #81 |
89. WE. SHOULD. BE. ASHAMED. OF. OURSELVES. |
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xxqqqzme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:53 AM Response to Reply #40 |
110. The home visits after birth |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:03 PM Response to Reply #110 |
115. Thank you for this. I wasn't aware of Vermont. It seems like "progressives" would be more |
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dotymed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:17 AM Response to Reply #39 |
74. What disturbs me about this is that |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:22 AM Response to Reply #74 |
78. BINGO. If you have become familiar with mntleo 2's work in this area, you know that the |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:30 AM Response to Reply #78 |
83. I've noticed |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:33 AM Response to Reply #83 |
86. Thank you for reporting this. I would also call that ABUSE. It is emotional abuse. |
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dotymed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:34 PM Response to Reply #78 |
120. That is beyond sad. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:37 PM Response to Reply #120 |
121. Absolutely, it is sad. The tragedy is that we can't seem to make this an issue among "progressives |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 02:06 AM Response to Reply #121 |
173. Thank-you Bobbie |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 01:35 AM Response to Reply #74 |
170. Exactly my point! |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:28 PM Response to Reply #170 |
181. "take their kids to a "better" place " |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 04:23 PM Response to Reply #181 |
184. Yes "better" only means "more profitable" |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 07:17 PM Response to Reply #170 |
185. i kinda don't want to get into it with you... |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 10:31 PM Response to Reply #185 |
187. You are dealing with an older kid ...not so profitable |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 10:38 PM Response to Reply #187 |
188. So beautifully and clearly put, Cat. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 11:12 PM Response to Reply #187 |
189. thanks cat.... |
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Chorophyll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:03 PM Response to Reply #39 |
114. Oh my God. I'm glad |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:13 AM Response to Reply #27 |
66. "Did you know.... kids in foster homes are abused 3 times as much as kids left in their home??" |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:43 AM Response to Reply #66 |
167. Correction: Foster kids are abused 5-7 X more |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:16 PM Response to Reply #15 |
49. Bobby is talking about me ... |
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auntsue (169 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:33 AM Response to Reply #49 |
58. I have to ask about your inclusion of CASA workers in your |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:39 AM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Some are, some are not ... |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:20 AM Response to Reply #60 |
76. Thank you so much, Cat! I admire you and am in awe of you for all that you do, and the |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:20 AM Response to Reply #58 |
77. awesome aunt sue! though...i saw in florida |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:27 AM Response to Reply #49 |
82. Hi Cat! |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:58 AM Response to Reply #82 |
111. Thank-you it is a thankless job ... |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:35 AM Response to Reply #49 |
108. mntleo2, were you given the opportunity to take parenting classes? |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:40 AM Response to Reply #108 |
109. wow..... just wow..... it never ceases to amaze me. |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:29 PM Response to Reply #109 |
130. Sorry, but I know what I am talking about. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:09 PM Response to Reply #130 |
140. ! |
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burrfoot (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 06:20 PM Response to Reply #140 |
158. JDP is in the right on this. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:35 AM Response to Reply #158 |
165. JDP is WRONG |
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burrfoot (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 09:49 AM Response to Reply #165 |
177. I'm not saying that bad things don't happen to kids who are |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:12 PM Response to Reply #177 |
180. This is SO true |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-09-11 09:27 AM Response to Reply #177 |
196. Most of my students are in foster and so far they are good homes |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:58 AM Response to Reply #130 |
168. I also know what I am talking about |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 01:40 AM Response to Reply #130 |
172. How do you know? |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:39 PM Response to Reply #108 |
164. I am a preschool teacher by training ... |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:59 PM Response to Reply #164 |
182. And the next WRONG is that you, personally, are put in the position of defending YOURSELF, as if it |
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TygrBright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:36 PM Response to Reply #49 |
145. Wow. Things have REALLY changed in 35 years. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 01:14 AM Response to Reply #145 |
169. Because all they talk about is parental abuse, NOT foster abuse... |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-07-11 12:09 AM Response to Reply #145 |
190. I grieve over what happens to these kids too... |
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tblue37 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:11 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. Unfortunately, kids, unlike powerful corporations, do not have |
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abelenkpe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
6. Thank you |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
7. It shows that people are stupid. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:29 PM Response to Reply #7 |
33. i never thought to take pictures.... |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:57 PM Response to Reply #33 |
45. Write a note to yourself. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:50 AM Response to Reply #45 |
91. i wrote everything down |
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Earth_First (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:10 PM Response to Original message |
9. I saw a guy backhand his wife at the gas station some years ago... |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:15 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. Thank you for intervening. Poor lady. |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:00 PM Response to Reply #14 |
30. I have intervened in more than one such situation, even without a bat (but I swing a pretty mean |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:08 PM Response to Reply #30 |
38. You go Niyad!! |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:59 PM Response to Reply #38 |
46. believe me, I am nowhere near the same league as the women in your family. I am just a woman who |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-07-11 12:39 AM Response to Reply #46 |
191. Well, you've sure got my respect. :0) |
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onpatrol98 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 05:42 PM Response to Reply #30 |
154. I bet you're right... |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
42. Thank you! We women who are alone live in this fear, and hope that if something ever *does* happen, |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:14 PM Response to Reply #42 |
48. This thread has turned up some very interesting experiences and information |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
13. Good for you for calling the cops. Maybe this moron will |
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patrice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
17. I know it is worse for the poor, but it IS actually all of us: I had to witness bruised |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:57 AM Response to Reply #17 |
59. Abuse happens as often in upper income homes but ... |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:49 PM Response to Reply #17 |
161. :0( hard to see stuff like that. |
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Gregorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
19. I have mixed feelings about people nosing in other's business. But this is great. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:45 PM Response to Reply #19 |
44. As an aside - I would argue that protecting the vulnerable from abuse is not "nosing in other's |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-07-11 11:03 AM Response to Reply #19 |
193. Thank you...teachers these days have had to become advocates and social workers |
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A Brand New World (803 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:28 PM Response to Original message |
21. Thanks for involving yourself to protect this little one. At least this time. |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:57 PM Response to Reply #21 |
28. sadly, I am willing to guess he won't spend much time in jail at all. we had a horrible case of |
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A-Schwarzenegger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
23. What happened when you called the police? |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:56 PM Response to Reply #23 |
37. They took all the info and said thanks. I'll probably never know if they did anything. |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:42 PM Response to Original message |
25. A couple of years ago on the 4th of july a woman |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:17 AM Response to Reply #25 |
67. Good for you! Whoever lives with this guy, I pity them. I bet he's an abuser. nt |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:52 PM Response to Original message |
26. thank you so much for caring, for calling the police. that poor child. . . |
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HockeyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
29. We just had an incident at school |
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Celebration (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:37 PM Response to Reply #29 |
43. you need to get after your legislators |
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Liberal_in_LA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:07 PM Response to Original message |
31. +10 for calling the cops. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:09 PM Response to Original message |
32. I wish there had been folks like you when I was a kid. |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:32 PM Response to Reply #32 |
41. Aww---here's a hug! |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
34. Thanks for calling the cops. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
35. I have no problem reporting child abuse to |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:08 AM Response to Reply #35 |
57. Children are 5-7 X more likely to be abused in foster care |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-08-11 01:43 AM Response to Reply #35 |
194. my first year teaching this guy put a roach motel on his kid's hand |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
36. I'm glad you called and reported her |
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Greybnk48 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
47. I'm glad there are people like you in the world. |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
50. You did the right thing. |
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southerncrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:33 PM Response to Original message |
51. Possibly an example why abortion isn't such a bad thing. |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:33 AM Response to Reply #51 |
85. I often wonder about this. |
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MrMickeysMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:43 PM Response to Original message |
52. How awful ... |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
54. Unbelievable! |
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rbrnmw (789 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
55. As the mother of 5 beautiful intelligent children Thank You |
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Bigmack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
56. When I was teaching... |
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LostinNY (59 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:51 AM Response to Original message |
61. I've had to call the police on my sister |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:38 AM Response to Reply #61 |
87. it is hard when it is your own family, and you are the one ostracized for it. |
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freshwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 04:46 PM Response to Reply #61 |
151. Sorry this happened to you. Abusers are slick and manipulative. You still did the right thing. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:26 AM Response to Original message |
62. K&R |
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SunDrop23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
63. Bravo to you for your compassion! (nfm) |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:11 AM Response to Original message |
64. Kudos to you for reporting this to the cops! nt |
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greiner3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:13 AM Response to Original message |
65. My mother was a; |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
68. I fear hard economic times are going to make this more and more common. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
69. Major flaw with our species: it is really, really easy to reproduce |
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mwb970 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:17 AM Response to Reply #69 |
75. LOL! |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:38 PM Response to Reply #69 |
122. Would that were true...as I watch a friend of mine deal with infertility. |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:59 PM Response to Reply #122 |
123. Is she smart and responsible? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:02 PM Response to Reply #123 |
125. That isn't funny. I know you were intending to be, but this woman |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #125 |
126. That's sad and all |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:21 PM Response to Reply #126 |
129. It's an overused meme that simply isn't true. Reproducing, for many, |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 09:57 AM Response to Reply #129 |
178. I guess that's why there are so few of us hairless land apes |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:44 PM Response to Reply #126 |
148. As also there is no barrier to people... |
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WatsonT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 09:58 AM Response to Reply #148 |
179. I feel pretty safe in saying that those who beat their children for fun |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:10 PM Response to Reply #125 |
127. Yes, its kinda like sensitivity to others in general, isn't it? |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:20 PM Response to Reply #127 |
128. I'm glad you finally have seen that, bobbo... |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:43 PM Response to Reply #128 |
134. My meaning is a lot more broad. PLUS, in case you had too much armor on, I was AGREEING with you. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
70. What do you mean "these days"? |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-07-11 01:26 AM Response to Reply #70 |
192. Agreed. Nothing new under the sun |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:54 AM Response to Original message |
71. Hey I just noticed something... |
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BigD_95 (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:59 AM Response to Original message |
72. sorry but what you wrote has nothing to do with |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
73. This isn't going to be popular here but |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:26 AM Response to Reply #73 |
80. No flames here at all, and I am glad you mentioned the complicity of DLC and Clinton in this. |
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Snoutport (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:31 AM Response to Reply #73 |
84. If only they listened to their "Abstinence Only" sex ed class |
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Le Taz Hot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:39 AM Response to Reply #84 |
88. If only they had jobs and opportunities. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:58 AM Response to Reply #88 |
112. you got it... |
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closeupready (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:23 AM Response to Original message |
79. I'm glad you reported her. |
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JoshieR (81 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
90. High unemployment, large income gap, desperation.... |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:52 AM Response to Reply #90 |
93. You are right. Yet, we typically make it a personal, rather than a societal, problem. |
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BigD_95 (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 10:26 AM Response to Reply #93 |
99. I disagree |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 10:36 AM Response to Reply #99 |
101. Disagree all you want. That is your right. The stats, however, consistently show that |
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BigD_95 (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:24 PM Response to Reply #101 |
117. stats dont mean anything |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:29 PM Response to Reply #117 |
118. So much for that DU thread about how liberals use reasoning. |
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BigD_95 (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:42 PM Response to Reply #118 |
133. reasoning & excuses are 2 different things |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:48 PM Response to Reply #133 |
135. That must have been tiring to put that much assumption into my very simple words. |
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BigD_95 (728 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:37 PM Response to Reply #135 |
146. I dont have a clue what your talking about |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 03:27 PM Response to Reply #99 |
183. Abuse happens as much in upper income homes |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
92. Good for you! |
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Dawgs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:55 AM Response to Original message |
95. I'm afraid I wouldn't have been cool enough to just call the police. |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
96. Women are told to have |
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Shagbark Hickory (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
97. +! You did good but I have a suggestion... |
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TornadoTN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
98. Good for you. Happens in my area all the time |
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glinda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
100. Tough call since said child can end up in a maze of endless foster homes. |
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Harriety (119 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
102. Some people should never be parents but that said... |
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lupinella (124 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
103. Thank You. |
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Chichiri (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:19 AM Response to Original message |
104. Thank God for people like you who report these things. |
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Marblehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
105. Desperate people |
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Fire1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
106. People are stressed and emotions hanging by a thread. |
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JDPriestly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 11:27 AM Response to Original message |
107. I just posted this morning about the fact that the problem in our |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
113. I hurt for all the abused and neglected kids |
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truedelphi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
116. I spent summer of 2010 being threatened with jail by a neighbor because |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:59 PM Response to Reply #116 |
162. did they have cameras on the property? if not, I would have been sorely tempted to take the dog out |
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geardaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:31 PM Response to Original message |
119. K and R |
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Aerows (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
124. Abuse of children is so horrible |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
131. There are ways of dealing with stress. |
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Wait Wut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
132. You have no idea how grateful I am for people like you. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
137. This is what the rise of the right brings --- certainly poverty takes its toll on families .... |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 01:58 PM Response to Original message |
138. I hope you gave them her |
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zappaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
139. I'll bet that kid got quiet quick. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:13 PM Response to Reply #139 |
141. At least now the kid has something to cry about. nt |
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AC_Mem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
142. OMG! |
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spooky3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
143. Thank you for doing the right thing! |
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liberal N proud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
144. People are stress out and Innocent children are paying the price |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
147. As a former worker for Child Protective Services... |
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lebkuchen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
149. You wouldn't see that in Germany |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
150. Thank you for reporting it to the police. There is far too much child |
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Johnny Morales (76 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
152. MOTHER GOES TO JAIL - KIDS GO TO FOSTER CARE - HOW IS THIS GOOD? |
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LadyHawkAZ (800 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 12:37 AM Response to Reply #152 |
166. I've heard all these defenses. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 07:01 AM Response to Reply #152 |
175. Exactly! |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
153. Deleted message |
The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 06:03 PM Response to Reply #153 |
156. Lots wrong with corporal punishment, |
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mfcorey1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-08-11 05:23 AM Response to Reply #153 |
195. I hope your children are being protected from you. nt |
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Cetacea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
155. I've intervened on several occasions; even saved a few lives |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
157. Your feeling is right. |
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YOHABLO (25 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
159. IT'S ALL ABOUT THE STRESS! |
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niyad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:01 PM Response to Reply #159 |
163. welcome to DU |
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MoonRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
160. I applaud you. n/t |
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shoutinfreud (151 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 02:08 AM Response to Original message |
174. As long as you got her license plate she should be easy to find |
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TNLib (683 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-06-11 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
186. To many people these days have no sense |
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