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I am devasted - my daughter won't talk to me anymore, she won't return phone calls or answer text messages. My daughter, her SO and daughter were invited for a luncheon to meet some of my friends. She knew their leanings as I told her. Of course three dems in the conversation, all three were radio hosts on progressive radio. All four conversed, disagreed but nothing mean was said. My daughter's SO is a teabagger. My daughter was a very strong democrat before she met him. All of them were loud but that is them. All of a sudden my daughter yells out, "listen to me, my daughter doesn't need to hear this especially the yelling." My grand daughter is 18 months old and did not pay any attention what was happening. She was busy doing her own thing (I had a basket of toys and plenty of food). Her SO was really involved in the conversation-actually not paying attention to his daughter.
They did go to the SO's side of the family a few weeks ago, she did not let me know she left (just thought she left) or when they were returning, they are tea bags also. I texted her a message asking when she would return - answer I'm back, that is it. I sent her text messages how is my grand daughter and how are things - no response. So, I sent my SO a text asked the same thing - he sent it to her and the response was I said I am back. That's it. She does want me to call her all them but she doesn't respond, if she does, it is like a minute and must go take care of daughter. She wants me to visit more often - when I call to ask to visit -- the response is "We have plans" or if I am able to visit the little one is always sleeping.
I am so confused but quite hurt. I've done so much to help my daughter before her SO and I have done quite a bit after baby was born.
I would take care of my grand daughter if she could not go to day care - but one night I was called asked to care for my little one but I could not do this because night driving is an issue with me. Her SO hurt his hand and was going to emergency -this really ticked her off. You know, I just could not drive safely plus I was fixing dinner. I remember when I got sick my exhusband packed everyone into the car and all went together when they were little.
I feel like a loser now. I just can't give anymore. By the way, I am almost 70yrs old. I just don't have the abilities anymore.
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